Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - Media - SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #3

misslurking wrote:

Then move on with your life.  If he wasn't on the show in the first place, she wouldn't have even told her story.  She wants to be famous too.  They usually do.  

Who wants to be famous for being Jed's ex?? No thank you next.

but the ex is not doing herself favors by linking her heartbreak to her music.

misslurking wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

misslurking wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

Sharnee wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:I am surprised that neither one of them has one photo together on their IG page.    If they were so in love, don't you think they would be pictured together?

I really don’t think it would matter if you didn’t want to believe it in the first place . I saw these kind of comments on Haley’s IG page too. Even when Arie’s gf had tons of pics of them together , she was still disbelieved. Was anyone here of that mindset ? Was she too called a liar ? So to me either way, when you don’t want to believe the story , pics or no pics would change your mind and playing both sides is the norm. I wasn’t real hip to Arie’s ex but was her story picked up by People as a cover story ? I personally forgot . To me Haley’s story may be just the tip of the iceberg into the real character of Jed. Jmo

I am not calling her a liar, however I am calling her an attention seeker.  Anyone who sells their story to the tabloids is looking for attention.  Plain and simple.  Jmo.

What would you have preferred ? She wrote it on reddit ? Really curious to know how she should have gone about it ? I am not being sarcastic.

How about going about your life or better yet try to talk to Jed personally.  Blasting it all over the tabloids is tacky.  

That's a bit unfair don't you think ? As much as this is Hannah's and Jed's story. It's her story too. She was involved somehow on this mess too ? She is damned if she comes out with her story and damned if she isn't. You might be fine if hypothetically you got played by a man and just shrugged it. Jed's ex probably wasn't. She probably did want his attention since. Shocker. He was ignoring her after he returned from filming. He could have come clean told her yeah he messed up. He fell for Hannah and maybe the story would have been different but instead he took no accountability for being an azzhat to his ex. That shows that he has no respect for the women in his life. Like we need proof on it but yeah. It's a pattern he has increasingly shown. He didn't come clean about having a girlfriend to Hannah and he didnt come clean to his ex that he was engaged now.


This is a rant not directed at you but in general. So don't take it personally but I feel like women are always expected to behave a certain way. She is an idiot if she falls for mainpulative man. She is not right in the head if she is being goofy. She is being too dramatic if she cries all the time. She is coming off to strong if she commands respect. She is unable to form a sentence if she gets tongue tied. Can we just let women be themself and accept them for who they are instead of putting her down for her choices ? As a women it boils my blood that we cant support each other during the lows in life ! As someone who has paid for an ex's expense from time to time and I do look back and wonder what the eff was I even doing ? How was I even so blind to have not only choosing to be with a man who couldn't afford his own life but actually fund him ! As someone who has got played by men like Luke and Jed I feel so glad that what happened to me did not happen on national television. I was already so embarrassed about my stupidity. It took me 8 months to open up about it to my closest friends and family. It took me more than a year to accept that gaslighting is real and manipulation goes beyond intelligence and maturity.

It sucks that Jed's ex is expected to stay quite because it's the mature thing to do or Hannah is all of a sudden idiot to not look past Jed's manipulative ways. Considering she did not even have any family member or close friend to council her during this show its even more miraculous to me how she handled every stupid poop that got thrown on her face. It's just sucks thats all. Rant over.

lleyki wrote:

but the ex is not doing herself favors by linking her heartbreak to her music.

To me I look at this way. Jed went on the show to try and kickstart his career, the ex is now using his being a douchebag to her, to try and kickstart her career. Birds of a feather.

misslurking wrote:@Mommyof2 he can't pay his own rent. Are you sure he could pay for the vacation ? I don't think it needs validation IMO.
Anyway the ex's friend confirmed that she paid for the vacation. I guess if Jed comes out of this spot free he can afford his lifestyle by being the amazing singer that he is. I will be your mister righhhtt guuuuurrrrrllllllll

If it doesn't work out Hannah can always pay for his vacations and rent from her Bachelorette earnings. Since it's between Hannah and Jed now.