Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - Media - SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #3

sosleepy wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

sosleepy wrote:Ahhh... I see we are already blaming the ex for selling her story. How typical. Poor Jed, bamboozled and taken advantage of by an ex girlfriend looking for fame and revenge. Give me a break.

No wonder the Me Too movement is a thing. An important thing, imo.

They were dating.  Not engaged.  Dating.  Not married.  Dating.  No children involved.  Dating.  People break up all the time.  I will say maybe Jed didn't handle it the way he should have after filming ended, but her going to the tabloids makes her look hungry for attention.  Sorry, but it does.  What will she prove by doing this?  Will anything change?  This is between Hannah and Jed now.

So because they were just dating, that gives Jed clearance to be a douche bag to her? So now the standard is that a person needs to be married and have kids with someone in order to be expected to treat them kindly and with respect? Wow, dangerous slope right there and that kind of attitude is what allows clearance for these vile men to continue on treating women horribly.

Jed and Haley were together exclusively for 4 months prior to the show. They went on a vacation (that she paid for) only a couple weeks prior. They told each other they loved each other. Jed promised her he would be back for her and this was all for show. Then he got engaged to someone else and ghosted her, gave her literally no closure at all.  Per Hannah’s behavior towards Scott, she’s also pretty anti this behavior. Or at least was, before she got engaged to it. When Hannah was so visibly upset by Scott, he still sat there and continued the charade. He’s gross. I refuse to make excuses for him.

Norcalgal wrote:Whew! Lots of opinions! Just have to add that what I have learned since I was 25 (think that is Jed's age) is significant! Don't think I would have handled things with a former flame in the best manner either. But ... live and learn. And I hope he has learned from this fire. But more importantly, I hope he is honest with Hannah as that is the only way for trust to form.

Mommyof2 wrote:I am surprised that neither one of them has one photo together on their IG page.    If they were so in love, don't you think they would be pictured together?

Mommyof2 wrote:I am surprised that neither one of them has one photo together on their IG page.   If they were so in love, don't you think they would be pictured together?

Mommyof2 wrote:

Norcalgal wrote:Whew! Lots of opinions! Just have to add that what I have learned since I was 25 (think that is Jed's age) is significant! Don't think I would have handled things with a former flame in the best manner either. But ... live and learn. And I hope he has learned from this fire. But more importantly, I hope he is honest with Hannah as that is the only way for trust to form.

Ah, an intelligent comment worth a  You mature with age.  I did some stupid things in my 20s too that now in my mid 40s I cringe at, but you live and you learn and most importantly...grow.  

Sharnee wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:I am surprised that neither one of them has one photo together on their IG page.    If they were so in love, don't you think they would be pictured together?

I really don’t think it would matter if you didn’t want to believe it in the first place . I saw these kind of comments on Haley’s IG page too. Even when Arie’s gf had tons of pics of them together , she was still disbelieved. Was anyone here of that mindset ? Was she too called a liar ? So to me either way, when you don’t want to believe the story , pics or no pics would change your mind and playing both sides is the norm. I wasn’t real hip to Arie’s ex but was her story picked up by People as a cover story ? I personally forgot . To me Haley’s story may be just the tip of the iceberg into the real character of Jed. Jmo

Mommyof2 wrote:

Sharnee wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:I am surprised that neither one of them has one photo together on their IG page.    If they were so in love, don't you think they would be pictured together?

I really don’t think it would matter if you didn’t want to believe it in the first place . I saw these kind of comments on Haley’s IG page too. Even when Arie’s gf had tons of pics of them together , she was still disbelieved. Was anyone here of that mindset ? Was she too called a liar ? So to me either way, when you don’t want to believe the story , pics or no pics would change your mind and playing both sides is the norm. I wasn’t real hip to Arie’s ex but was her story picked up by People as a cover story ? I personally forgot . To me Haley’s story may be just the tip of the iceberg into the real character of Jed. Jmo

I am not calling her a liar, however I am calling her an attention seeker.  Anyone who sells their story to the tabloids is looking for attention.  Plain and simple.  Jmo.

umngirl wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

Norcalgal wrote:Whew! Lots of opinions! Just have to add that what I have learned since I was 25 (think that is Jed's age) is significant! Don't think I would have handled things with a former flame in the best manner either. But ... live and learn. And I hope he has learned from this fire. But more importantly, I hope he is honest with Hannah as that is the only way for trust to form.

Ah, an intelligent comment worth a  You mature with age.  I did some stupid things in my 20s too that now in my mid 40s I cringe at, but you live and you learn and most importantly...grow.  

Personally speaking, singling out this comment as intelligent makes it sound like other comments are unintelligent. Just wanted to point that out.

TheWrongReasons wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:I am surprised that neither one of them has one photo together on their IG page.   If they were so in love, don't you think they would be pictured together?

I’m confused. Why would Jed keep up pictures of the gf he’s trying to hide? Why would Haley keep up pictures of the guy who lied to/ghosted her? At one point as late as February, there were pictures per the screenshots from People Magazine and RS.

Are we all supposed to believe that People Magazine, RS, numerous spoiler accounts, and multiple women and their friends are all out to get Jed?