Colton Underwood & Cassie Randolph - Bachelor 23 - Discussion

@Spritetotally agree! Like I said before, either turn off your comment section or make your account private. The trolls are wrong, but don’t complain about the negativity while enjoy the perks your 1 million plus followers bring you. You win some and lose some! 

All Jmo.

Sprite wrote:

Cocoasneeze wrote:someone 

Sprite wrote:

kmick0890 wrote:

Bachhh022 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:I'm lost. Why did the rumours start to begin with?

I came here to post those tweets as well, @lavenderfan adorable. Sneaky!  Not only did they see each other often, they saw each other at her place? Her cat is in on the bed and she comments on the wall picture.

That time after filming, while the show is still airing, has got to be the most difficult time. The spoiled F1 usually gets trashed for one reason or another so they need to get through that, plus it's a brand new relationship where they don't even know each other. I give them both much credit.

One thing that bother's me is when the contestants let negativity from SM user's who they don't even know, get to them. I hope if that's in fact bothersome for Colton, that he realizes soon enough, it's not worth the agony of unknown nasty people's opinions.

He has done a lot of good for charities, and continues to do so. They should learn from him instead of spewing hate.

Re the break up rumors it was literally JUST people reading too much into social media stuff ie Colton deleting his tweets and Cassie tweeting “life is funny” ... I think people just need to know colton is reactive (so I think he deleted while he was annoyed over something someone said about his private life—still not sure on what) and Cassie and Colton both tweet vague, introspective things. If people think they’re breaking up every time they do that then people are gonna think they’re breaking up weekly

And yeah, Something Cassie and Colton do have going for them in a positive way is they don’t have to deal with a lot of the jealousy and insecurity that many F1s do (and this often wrecks the relationship ie Ben and Lauren) ... Cassie knows colton loved her enough to break up with two girls early and despite some fans saying otherwise, Colton does seem confident in Cassie’s love for him now. I really think these two need to just learn to ignore the haters, that’s the only issue I see right now

I think these two are solid.I don't think Colton deleted his tweets because of Cassie. Right before he did that, he tweeted that he was tired of people asking about his personal life or something along those lines. My guess is he was just tired of the negativity so he decided to start fresh again. I also think they have the kind of relationship where they don't need to be together every second of the day like some other couples do so that might be contributing to the rumors too. They were super lovey dovey all weekend, I don't see things changing that quickly with them.

If he didn't want people asking about his personal life then he shouldn't have gone on the Bachelorette, followed by BIP, followed by being the Bachelor. I won't even get into telling anyone who will listen that he is a virgin. And by this point he should have figured out that there will always be negative people around commenting on his SM. He isn't some special snowflake who everyone will love. He needs to get over it or shut up.

I guess the social media negativity can get to everyone, especially if people are non stop targeting someone you love. It's only human, and in this case the trolls are the ones in the wrong. Jmo.

I don't disagree that the trolls are wrong, but I am tired of people going on this show...which has been around for a very long time...and then complaining about all the negativity. You have plenty of examples to look at and should know by now that it is a double edged sword. With all the good comes all the bad and you have to deal with both. He was more than willing to prostrate himself and his virginity in front of the whole world … three times!!! … to get all the positives, but now is complaining or should I say deleting, the negatives. Suck it up buttercup. Same goes for Cassie. This isn't her first rodeo either, in fact this is also her third reality show. They should be happy and stop complaining. Compared to some other couples they have had it very easy.

I get that, but it can still get to everyone. It's easy to say to be prepared,when you can't really know whys it like, until you experience it. Cassie's first show was nowhere near this level, so she couldn't have known about the social media effect.

As for Colton, it's the first time the person he loves gets attacked on his social media pages.

As for others having it worse, that doesn't help the people receiving their own share of hate. Someone else having it even worse doesn't comfort anyone. Jmo.

@Cocoasneeze I get all that, but they went on the show willingly. Colton in particular , already knows what it is like dealing with negativity. He experienced plenty of it the first time around on Becca's season and again on BIP. He dealt with it the same way...deleting. He clearly learned nothing. If anything, this last appearance turned much of the negativity that around … if this forum is any indication … yet, he is still not happy! I can't feel sorry for him. He did this to himself and despite the fact that I think the trolls should mind their own bloody business, I also think he should grow a pair. Perhaps he should get some advice and contact the man who I think received the most hate ever...Nick...who yet somehow managed to deal with it all and continues to live his life just fine in the public eye.

Colton will get no sympathy from me. He is happy enough to take all the adulation, perks and money that comes with this gig. He had plenty of time to learn to deal and apparently, he didn't. That is on him and I don't owe him squat.

@Sprite you and I are probably the only two who say Suck it up Colton. By no means I think cyber bullying is right but I can’t stand it when someone enjoys the adorations/perk but complain about the negativity at the same time. All Jmo. 
IMO, he should take a lesson from Nick as you said or Bryan (who wants to be called a second choice repetitively?)

April 11
Ellen DeGeneres: Mila Kunis, Josh Gad, Erika Jayne, Ava Max, Colton Underwood
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notarose wrote:April 11
Ellen DeGeneres: Mila Kunis, Josh Gad, Erika Jayne, Ava Max, Colton Underwood
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oooo so is this the pre taped show that cassie eluded to in her twitter?even though that was like a week or 2 ago?? i wonder if it is and if she will be on as well??

LeapofFaith wrote:

notarose wrote:April 11
Ellen DeGeneres: Mila Kunis, Josh Gad, Erika Jayne, Ava Max, Colton Underwood
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oooo so is this the pre taped show that cassie eluded to in her twitter?even though that was like a week or 2 ago?? i wonder if it is and if she will be on as well??

Im sure she'll be on with Colton. I think she's the one that posted "Just taped something with Colton for you guys" and someone replied " Youtube Channel" and Colton responded " Think bigger." So I'm assuming they both taped Ellen. Colton's been on Ellen 3 times plus did that Spoof Fox thing on Ellen too so my guess is Ellen wanted him back with Cassie. jmo

http://celebrityinsider.org/colton-underwood-and-cassie-randolph-talk-televising-their-wedding-would-they-do-it-278036/
‘We have talked about what we are going to do next, if it is going to be another show. We do not have enough drama in our relationship to fill a show about ourselves, but I’d love to show some of the fun, cool memories that we are making together,’ Colton shared.

More here:
https://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelor-couple-colton-underwood-and-cassie-randolph-hoping-for-own-reality-show-with-sister-michelle-randolph-and-boyfriend-gregg-sulkin-25775.php

Colton is taking classes. He wants to work in hosting/broadcasting. The RT show they are hinting about would be with Cassie’s sister and her bf.

These two will never make it. Mark my words. He looks totally smitten with her, but she looks like...meh. Jmho.

Mommyof2 wrote:These two will never make it.  Mark my words.  He looks totally smitten with her, but she looks like...meh.  Jmho.

I totally disagree Yes is smitten with her but she is also smitten with him. The way she looks at him you can clearly see that she truly loves him. Whenever he is gone you can tell that she truly misses him. JMO

I agree - she's equally smitten.

I don't know if they'll make it, because she's SO young, but I think they have the best chance of a Bachelor/F1 making it since Sean/Cat.