Colton Underwood - Episode Mar 12th - ATRF - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

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The Bachelor's Colton Underwood on Engagement Plans with Cassie: 'She Will Have a Ring One Day'



https://people.com/tv/the-bachelor-colton-underwood-cassie-randolph-engagement-plans/

Stayed unspoiled all season, believed Cassie was F1 from the moment she gave him the box of butterflies.  I always knew these 2 would make it in the end.  Love that they both honored their feelings and didnt fake it for the sake of the show.  They seem very happy and I am happy for them.  I think without the pressure of engagement the relationship is in a more realistic place after only a few months of knowing one another.

I really enjoyed that we got to see some of the time they spent together as a couple.  Normally there is the proposal and then nothing unless you take to SM.  I dont feel cheated or the need to stalk their every move ;)

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#TheBachelor's Colton Underwood on Engagement Plans with Cassie: 'She Will Have a Ring One Day'https://t.co/NTDpE5KFND

— People (@people) March 13, 2019

I am going to buy my first People's Magazine just to read this. Look at that joy-filled smile on Colton! Sweet- lovely couple. Probably not all agree with me but I believe these two will make it. Colton is very wisely handling this -knowing she was in a demanding,controlling relationship before. IMO He would not have moved 2 miles from her house if he did not look on this going long term- engagement- marriage. They will be busy with interviews for awhile but I think they are going to both cling to each other and maybe we will even watch their wedding some day.

Cassie Randolph post it coming now. FYI: I don't know how to put Instagram.

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locoforbach wrote:Stayed unspoiled all season, believed Cassie was F1 from the moment she gave him the box of butterflies.  I always knew these 2 would make it in the end.  Love that they both honored their feelings and didnt fake it for the sake of the show.  They seem very happy and I am happy for them.  I think without the pressure of engagement the relationship is in a more realistic place after only a few months of knowing one another.

I really enjoyed that we got to see some of the time they spent together as a couple.  Normally there is the proposal and then nothing unless you take to SM.  I dont feel cheated or the need to stalk their every move ;)

"locoforbach" Totally agree with you.

That people shoot is really cute. 

Realistic goal, buying house together next year.

I haven't seen the finale, but sorry to say Cassie is going to break his heart. I see a Lauren B. in the making. Always looking for something better, someone better. Oy vey. Good luck Colton. You're going to get run over like a Mack truck. Jmo.

I just don't think its going to last with these two. I left all this still unconvinced. I think she is easily influenced (we saw that with her dad) and I felt like she got bowled over by Colton's love and what he did for her. Who wouldn't? It was extremely romantic and flattering. But based on even body language AFTR, something just seems off. I think they're going to try, but I'd put money on the 6 month mark. Which, hey, at Cassie's 23 is a pretty solid run to me.

ETA: I think Colton's repeating his romantic attachment patterns of avoidant:anxious attachment. He seeks out people that he has to "earn" their love, the avoidant types. If it feels easy, or going well, he's turned off. Buuuutt...this therapist is just watching an edited TV show, so who the hell knows.