Colton Underwood - Episode Mar 4th - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Ashley actually said in her different recaps this week that when she found a man who really liked her and she felt that way mutually back and didn't push him away (or even want to)-- that would end up being her husband (ie. what Jared and her relationship grew into).  She had always either liked a guy who didn't reciprocate, or they liked her more than she liked them and she got turned off.  She felt that she could relate to Colton on this as she has pretty much all season with the "virginity" topic.  She also said that she only saw 15 minutes of the episode, but knew what caused the fence jump.

She also talked about the "Bachelor Bubble" and how easy it is to mistake feelings of like or attraction for love in that environment and once you are out of it -- you realize that it wasn't what you thought it was.  I don't think that Ashley would say that Cassie's feelings couldn't develop into something more (she if anyone knows from personal experience that can happen), but she questioned Cassie's hesitation especially in light of what happens next week.  I do think that Cassie has feelings for Colton, but I think it is taking her longer to get there.  I think they could build a good relationship, too if given the time and opportunity away from the show.  I had always felt that with Ashley and Jared as well.  I figured that there had to be something more than just friendship on Jared's side to spend that much time with her and gone through so much with her as a friend.

I am very curious as to what Cassie is going to say when the show is done airing -- both about what she felt during filming and then now after spending time with Colton after the show.  I feel like this may even lead to the show switching it's format to having an engagement at the end become a more optional outcome.  JMO.

so i was just reading RS spoiler again re the ending and he says that tptb will show the cassie and colton breakup similar to the Arie and Becca break up!! i actually enjoyed that fourth wall no editing tv....should be interesting to say the least..

I'm not sure how I feel about the majority of the episode being about breaking the fourth wall -- it was not easy for me to watch the Arie and Becca breakup play out.

suzq wrote:I'm not sure how I feel about the majority of the episode being about breaking the fourth wall -- it was not easy for me to watch the Arie and Becca breakup play out.

No i agree it wasn’t easy but I guess the difference for me here is I know they get back together... so should be interesting and hopefully not too edited- jmo

LeapofFaith wrote:so i was just reading RS spoiler again re the ending and he says that tptb will show the cassie and colton breakup similar to the Arie and Becca break up!! i actually enjoyed that fourth wall no editing tv....should be interesting to say the least..

I wonder if RS has that one part right where Colton supposedly says to her " I F__king love you"?  and she leaves him 

Jolena wrote:I wonder if RS has that one part right where Colton supposedly says to her " I F__king love you"?  and she leaves him 

I didn’t hear that. You mean because he was cursing?
Not possible. After all she is BFFs with Cailynn.  

blueblues wrote:

Jolena wrote:I wonder if RS has that one part right where Colton supposedly says to her " I F__king love you"?  and she leaves him 

I didn’t hear that. You mean because he was cursing?
Not possible. After all she is BFFs with Cailynn.  

 No... jmo but maybe she was saying something about 2 other girls still being there. idk   Maybe she told him she had to leave because she couldn't give him what he came there for? (engagement) and he reached his boiling point and said it 
At this point Who the Heck knows. I'm still so confused with this whole season regarding Cassie and him. The scenario that I would hope happens is the one @lavenderfan posted. She leaves, he goes after her , gives her a ring (that's missing from the box) and she comes back and chooses him. 

Jolena wrote:

blueblues wrote:

Jolena wrote:I wonder if RS has that one part right where Colton supposedly says to her " I F__king love you"?  and she leaves him 

I didn’t hear that. You mean because he was cursing?
Not possible. After all she is BFFs with Cailynn.  

 No... jmo but maybe she was saying something about 2 other girls still being there. idk   Maybe she told him she had to leave because she couldn't give him what he came there for? (engagement) and he reached his boiling point and said it 
At this point Who the Heck knows. I'm still so confused with this whole season regarding Cassie and him. The scenario that I would hope happens is the one @lavenderfan posted. She leaves, he goes after her , gives her a ring (that's missing from the box) and she comes back and chooses him. 

I didn't take it in a bad way but in a emotional passionate way.

Colton wrote:Colton Underwood @colton

Just watched Monday’s episode again. I suggest watching in a quiet place or not inviting people who talk while the show is on. There are some muffled conversations y’all will want to hear. #TheBachelor

https://mobile.twitter.com/colton?p=s

Maddy wrote:

Colton wrote:Colton Underwood @colton

Just watched Monday’s episode again. I suggest watching in a quiet place or not inviting people who talk while the show is on. There are some muffled conversations y’all will want to hear. #TheBachelor

https://mobile.twitter.com/colton?p=s

Muffled conversations? between him and Cassie I guess. Im wondering if they are still together . I have a weird feeling they might not be. I watched an interview he did after hometowns  (can't remember with who) and he is either one hell of an actor or (just tired) but I didn't feel that he seemed so thrilled or happy right now. idk maybe it's just me and i was reading too much into it. jmo

He was on Ellen today for just a quick little segment and he said he was happy and he looked it.

I think they are still together..so when do they do the final couple people photo shoot??