Colton Underwood - Episode Mar 4th - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

northernviewer wrote:

ReneeM wrote:

northernviewer wrote:

ReneeM wrote:Yeah I think the only way to make this romantic is if she comes back, and even then...yikes. If what RS said is correct and he really professes his love to her and throws away the engagement ending before she leaves, if she really says she loves him but is not *in*love with him, I’m just not seeing the romance in chasing her. I agree that he shouldn’t settle for someone else if that’s not what he truly wants but going after her seems... desperate and icky.

Doesn’t seem desperate and icky to me.  We don’t know the exact circumstances as of yet as to why he jumps the fence ... He’s mad and hurt about something that’s for sure.   But going after someone takes courage as the chance of rejection is there ... that would be humiliating...
But if care enough for someone to go and persue them ... that takes guts ...and very romantic from my point of view anyway ... and as I’ve mentioned before ,,, I’m a W network, Hallmark movie, Harlequin kinda girl... and love me a little chase to get the girl

Chasing after someone after they've rejected you and told you their feelings is neither brave nor romantic IMO and I can confidently say this as someone who's been in Cassie's shoes (albeit not on tv). I tried to breakup with my ex because I just didn't want to be in the relationship, but I'm terrible at breaking up wth people so I came up with a bunch of excuses as to why I wanted to breakup. He was relentless in trying to convince me to stay in the relationship though, and I did, not because I actually was convinced that I wanted the relationship after all, but because it just felt like I couldn't say no. Eventually it fizzled out because as Colton will come to realize, you can't make someone love and want to be with you no matter how hard you try.

Sounds like you were legitimately didn’t like a guy and wanted to break up with him ... apples and oranges to what’s going on here.   We don’t know what happens to cause her to leave ... him to jump the fence...at this point .. but what we do know is that she spoke to parents and sister about how much she cared for him even though she may not be ready for an engagement... we see in footage minutes before the “breakup” they’re making out on a bed .. That’s not usually a precursor to breaking up for the usual reasons  him going after her IMO will be seen by the majority of viewers as romantic

lavenderfan wrote:@ReneeM  but... who has really interacted and experienced everything with her... besides Colton? He's the one who should have the most valid reasoning since he's the one who's had an unedited interaction with her.

So the only person to really understand if she's worth it is him, and the fact that he feels she will reciprocate the feeling is more valid than our opinions on what we see in a few minutes of edited, frankenbyte video and audio.

sdmom wrote:We can debate until the cow comes home and not everyone will agree, so, for sleuthing sake,  all I want is the preview for FD. I want to see if Cassie is wearing the pink  or the black dress! Is that too much to ask?

Julie81 wrote:

sdmom wrote:We can debate until the cow comes home and not everyone will agree, so, for sleuthing sake,  all I want is the preview for FD. I want to see if Cassie is wearing the pink  or the black dress! Is that too much to ask?

I just want to know this too. This darn dress is killing me!

lavenderfan wrote:@pbmax I'm not sure if the cliff kiss is in portugal or CA. THOUGH those cliffs remind me nothing of CA at all (California native here!) so I'm leaning more towards Portugal

ReneeM wrote:

northernviewer wrote:

ReneeM wrote:Yeah I think the only way to make this romantic is if she comes back, and even then...yikes. If what RS said is correct and he really professes his love to her and throws away the engagement ending before she leaves, if she really says she loves him but is not *in*love with him, I’m just not seeing the romance in chasing her. I agree that he shouldn’t settle for someone else if that’s not what he truly wants but going after her seems... desperate and icky.

Doesn’t seem desperate and icky to me.  We don’t know the exact circumstances as of yet as to why he jumps the fence ... He’s mad and hurt about something that’s for sure.   But going after someone takes courage as the chance of rejection is there ... that would be humiliating...
But if care enough for someone to go and persue them ... that takes guts ...and very romantic from my point of view anyway ... and as I’ve mentioned before ,,, I’m a W network, Hallmark movie, Harlequin kinda girl... and love me a little chase to get the girl

Chasing after someone after they've rejected you and told you their feelings is neither brave nor romantic IMO and I can confidently say this as someone who's been in Cassie's shoes (albeit not on tv). I tried to breakup with my ex because I just didn't want to be in the relationship, but I'm terrible at breaking up wth people so I came up with a bunch of excuses as to why I wanted to breakup. He was relentless in trying to convince me to stay in the relationship though, and I did, not because I actually was convinced that I wanted the relationship after all, but because it just felt like I couldn't say no. Eventually it fizzled out because as Colton will come to realize, you can't make someone love and want to be with you no matter how hard you try.

pbmax wrote:

lavenderfan wrote:@pbmax I'm not sure if the cliff kiss is in portugal or CA. THOUGH those cliffs remind me nothing of CA at all (California native here!) so I'm leaning more towards Portugal

Ok but from RS it couldn't be daytime portion FD because they spent it walking around town


Maybe he shows up in between the afternoon part of the date & dinner date. when she went back to her hotel room to get ready for dinner.  This is gonna be a longgggg week for sure. 

northernviewer wrote:

avacaroline wrote:

northernviewer wrote:When watching the preview ... I think he lets Hannah and Tayshia go that very night ... Hannah is wearing jeans and a red top that’s walking and maybe worried about the commotion of Colton jumping the fence ... we see him still in his coat bring her by the hand into a room to talk to her ... then we see him hug Taysha ... I think he tells them both then and there that he’s done filming the rest of season and let’s,them go.   I personally don’t think tptb are mad about this turn of  events at all... it’s drama .... it’s different and they got some raw emotional footage ... Pure gold .... they’ve been playing up the fence jump all season ... they’re loving it ...especially if Colton and Cassie are dating now .... thEy couldn’t have orchestrated a better ending that this

Just FYI:  He jumps the gate at the fantasy suite site. The scenes with Hannah are at the hotel where the girls are staying.  

Do you know the diisstance between the two places.?  Hannah couild have just been alerted by producers that Colton was gone .. don’t know ... but I think it all happens on that fateful night.