Colton Underwood - Episode Mar 4th - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Julie81 wrote:I definitely think Colton was pissed at production for letting Matt come in. Otherwise he wouldn’t have stormed out the way he did. JMO. look, I don’t think this decision would have been so hard for her if it wasn’t real. I think she does love him and she just doesn’t even realize it. She possibly doesn’t even know what being in Love like this even really mean. Who knows. If she wanted to just leave and go. She would have. Simple. We’ve seen other women do it...this season even.

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lleyki wrote:Admittedly I've not really watched a lick of this season so my interpretation may be completely off but honestly, I see Colton madly into Cassie and Cassie "likes" Colton. And I don't think that like is strong enough for even a relationship much less marriage.

And all her "conflict" is really based on that. She likes him but that woman is not in love with that guy and she's struggling because she doesn't want to just say that. This whole thing reminds me of the scene in Jerry Maguire when Renee Zellwegger's character says to Tom Cruise's character, "I have a great guy and he loves my son and he sure likes me a lot."

And that was the issue. That he liked her, thought she was a great woman, a great mother but didn't love her. That's this situation, IMO. Cassie likes Colton, probably thinks he's a great guy that would make a great boyfriend but she doesn't love him. That's the crux of this whole thing. He wants her more than she wants him.

Spot on. I think that's why this freak out started this week, because she's realizing she might win and this might be a long-term (not even an engagement, but an outside girlfriend/boyfriend thing) and she doesn't want that. She likes the guy, thinks he's great on paper, even loves him as person. but she knows there's something missing and he isn't what she wants. 

I see Colton as a total Des, as I remember her saying the same thing to Brooks that she had been in relationships before she never got the love back that she gave. I think Colton will find his "Chris" one day, but until he does, he won't realize that when it's right, you don't have someone to convince to love you. 

IMO.

When Tom character had split with Renee character things happen that made him realize that he did love her and he went back to get her.

I guess he has found his true love (not a Chris)in Cassie since their together. He doesn't want a Chris, someone to just settle for. JMO

Goldie2 wrote:I think Cassie’s dad’s heart was in the right place, but his advice was way off.
Some of the best relationship start slow, even as friendships, and develop into beautiful, long lasting love.
Everyone’s love story is unique and he should have told her that.

luvstx wrote:Glad to know the pink sparkly dress went with the black jacket/coat!!!!

But they never showed the clip in the sparkly dress with Cassie saying something like "I thought this would work out."

Personally, as the mother of a 22 year old daughter, I thin Matt needs to give her her wings to fly

lavenderfan wrote:My heart broke for colton when he was shaking. man!

Also, as I mentioned. This is when they reconcile. I wonder how they're going to reconcile. I'd say CASSIE has to be the one to show up. She has to decide. And I think we'll see that.