Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Episode 11 - Aug 6th FRC - ATFR - #2 *Sleuthing Spoilers*

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sosleepy wrote:I really feel like Becca just let “her Ryan” go home right here. I normally don’t question leads’ final choices, cause whatevs, but Blake is so genuine and real; in that Ryan/Chris S./JP kinda mold. So rare for this show. Don’t eff this up tptb. Make him the lead.

bleuberry wrote:

sosleepy wrote:I really feel like Becca just let “her Ryan” go home right here. I normally don’t question leads’ final choices, cause whatevs, but Blake is so genuine and real; in that Ryan/Chris S./JP kinda mold. So rare for this show. Don’t eff this up tptb. Make him the lead.

Ugh this 100x. We need an effusive, romantic, wears his heart on his sleeve Bachelor who will leave with thr love his life come hell or high water.

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bleuberry wrote:

sosleepy wrote:I really feel like Becca just let “her Ryan” go home right here. I normally don’t question leads’ final choices, cause whatevs, but Blake is so genuine and real; in that Ryan/Chris S./JP kinda mold. So rare for this show. Don’t eff this up tptb. Make him the lead.

Ugh this 100x. We need an effusive, romantic, wears his heart on his sleeve Bachelor who will leave with thr love his life come hell or high water.

mercieme wrote:

sbolduc wrote:I’m sorry but did Becca actually talk about Blake getting in his head being an indication that he couldn’t handle a sick child?! Holy sh!t what a horrible thing to say. I have liked Becca all season but that comment was f!cking awful. IMO

For realz she did.

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I’m sorry but did Becca actually talk about Blake getting in his head being an indication that he couldn’t handle a sick child?! Holy sh!t what a horrible thing to say. I have liked Becca all season but that comment was f!cking awful. IMO

If I were Blake I would have lost my sh!t on her.

I actually understood what she was trying to say. She watched her mom care for her dying dad and knows first hand what that takes from a partner. She saw Garrett as the best person for her if that situation would occur. If you’ve lost a parent from an illness as young as Becca it affects your choices in ways others don’t think about.

lleyki wrote:

I’m sorry but did Becca actually talk about Blake getting in his head being an indication that he couldn’t handle a sick child?! Holy sh!t what a horrible thing to say. I have liked Becca all season but that comment was f!cking awful. IMO

If I were Blake I would have lost my sh!t on her.

So I wasn't the only one who had a WTF moment when she said that. So because Blake got in his head in a high stressed, highly emotional, not to mention extremely manipulative situation (and clearly in the end he wasn't wrong because according to her it was always Garrett), it means she's not sure he'd be able to handle real life situations like a sick child?

You mean the Blake who handled his mom banging his high school teacher/coach in a small town where everyone knew about it and survived? The Blake who handled and survived living through a school shooting and came out of all that a seemingly lovely, well adjusted, respectful and kind guy? I swear I yelled out to my television at that point, "STFU Becca. You chose Garrett because that's who you wanted, lame though I think he is and you're just pulling b.s. to "justify" your choice. Versus simply saying to Blake, "I just loved Garrett and not you".

I actually understood what she was trying to say. She watched her mom care for her dying dad and knows first hand what that takes from a partner. She saw Garrett as the best person for her if that situation would occur. If you’ve lost a parent from an illness as young as Becca it affects your choices in ways others don’t think about.

I just think this is funny because as I said, so the guy who has survived some horrific things in his life may not be dependable when life gets difficult but the man who bailed out on his marriage after two months, is. Okay, whatever...