Arie Luyendyk Jr - Lauren Burnham - Bachelor 22 - Discussion #4

sanlee088 wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Does it matter? If the post says IMO we are allowed to discuss.

Just asking a simple question.....do we know is it fact or just rumor?  I thought that it was rumor but wanted to know if it is now fact and I missed it....that's all.  I didn't mean anything mean or sinister by me posting that.....

I understood what you were asking. You wanted to know if the spreadsheets (Arie’s) were real or rumored. I don’t even know the answer to be able to tell you, (perhaps ex’s have said he kept one?) but I think you have every right to ask a question about it since apparently upthread there were discussions about it. JMO

Thankyou so much @sanlee088. Yea, just asking a simple question with no alterior motive behind it. LOL. I have been bopping in and out so wondered if it had been cleared up and I missed it. So if it is a rumor and we have no idea if it is fact, then I am not off base right now. Thanks again!!

Aunties_Love wrote:

sanlee088 wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:
Just asking a simple question.....do we know is it fact or just rumor?  I thought that it was rumor but wanted to know if it is now fact and I missed it....that's all.  I didn't mean anything mean or sinister by me posting that.....

I understood what you were asking. You wanted to know if the spreadsheets (Arie’s) were real or rumored. I don’t even know the answer to be able to tell you, (perhaps ex’s have said he kept one?) but I think you have every right to ask a question about it since apparently upthread there were discussions about it. JMO

Thankyou so much @sanlee088.  Yea, just asking a simple question with no alterior motive behind it.  LOL. I have been bopping in and out so wondered if it had been cleared up and I missed it.  So if it is a rumor and we have no idea if it is fact, then I am not off base right now.  Thanks again!!

The neighbor who dated Arie’s ex has said that the ex saw the spreadsheet. This has been discussed in detail for a few weeks now. Is it fact? No, it is third hand knowledge.

stuckinsc wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:

sanlee088 wrote:

I understood what you were asking. You wanted to know if the spreadsheets (Arie’s) were real or rumored. I don’t even know the answer to be able to tell you, (perhaps ex’s have said he kept one?) but I think you have every right to ask a question about it since apparently upthread there were discussions about it. JMO

Thankyou so much @sanlee088.  Yea, just asking a simple question with no alterior motive behind it.  LOL. I have been bopping in and out so wondered if it had been cleared up and I missed it.  So if it is a rumor and we have no idea if it is fact, then I am not off base right now.  Thanks again!!

The neighbor who dated Arie’s ex has said that the ex saw the spreadsheet. This has been discussed in detail for a few weeks now. Is it fact? No, it is third hand knowledge.

so not fact, just a rumor.  
IMO, a rumor from a quacky neighbor so really hard to believe. especially when it is third hand "knowledge" from a neighbor that is showing vendictive tendancies, IMO

XQZME wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Does it matter? If the post says IMO we are allowed to discuss.

I think @Aunties_love is trying to clarify if Kanye's tweet is directed at Arie...and no, it is not.  It is highly doubtful that Kanye watches The Bachelor.  Jmo.  

...nothing would surprise me when it comes to what Kanye does or does not watch...

I doubt he watches this drivel.

Mommyof2 wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:So, do we know there is one for a fact or is it just rumor?

Does it matter? If the post says IMO we are allowed to discuss.

I think @Aunties_love is trying to clarify if Kanye's tweet is directed at Arie...and no, it is not.  It is highly doubtful that Kanye watches The Bachelor.  Jmo.  

Well... technically it’s pretty common knowledge that the Khardashian clan watches The Bachelor... and Kanye is married to Kim. My husband watches The Bachelor with me... so for me, it’s not outside the realm of possibility that Kanye watches this crap on occasion.

Is this tweet about Arie? Doubtful. Kanye is busy involving himself with another much higher profile relatity star, atm.

We do not call members out on how they should POST. 
Everyone got it?? GOOD. 
I don't care if members want to shout it from the rooftops how much they hate a couple etc. 
But we are not going to get into the whack a mole he said/she said and start baiting members tonight. Not again.

sosleepy wrote:
Well... technically it’s pretty common knowledge that the Khardashian clan watches The Bachelor... and Kanye is married to Kim. My husband watches The Bachelor with me... so for me, it’s not outside the realm of possibility that Kanye watches this crap on occasion.

Is this tweet about Arie? Doubtful. Kanye is busy involving himself with another much higher profile relatity star, atm.

I've never followed the Khar-trashians, so thanks for sharing this and connecting the dots for me.  

Kanye also tweeted that if you feel something, don't let peer pressure manipulate you. That would definitely apply to Arie IMO. 

Kanye is an idiot. IMO of course.

I'm glad the topic of the spreadsheet came up again, because I intended to ask about it's validity and where the rumor started, but rl got in the way. So now we know, the trash talking neighbor who hates Arie said his ex-gf saw it. Alrighty then.

Some people can lie with a straight stare-you-right-in-the-eye look, and have no moral concern about doing it (anyone see Survivor last night?) and that neighbor seems like he might be that type of person, imo. I don't want to be guilty of perpetuating a rumor, so I'm glad to know the source.

BKay wrote:I'm glad the topic of the spreadsheet came up again, because I intended to ask about it's validity and where the rumor started, but rl got in the way. So now we know, the trash talking neighbor who hates Arie said his ex-gf saw it. Alrighty then.

Some people can lie with a straight stare-you-right-in-the-eye look, and have no moral concern about doing it (anyone see Survivor last night?) and that neighbor seems like he might be that type of person, imo. I don't want to be guilty of perpetuating a rumor, so I'm glad to know the source.

Yep, the trouble-making idiot neighbor is the source so IMO, it's too unreal for me to believe. There just isn't enough to warrant to believe it IMO. To me, there just seems to be too much bad blood between the neighbor and Arie for me to take the weirdo neighbor's words as law, IMO.

I definitely don’t think you can completely invalidate this source. Not at all. It simply is an unsubstantiated rumor. But just like we can’t say it for sure happened, nor can we completely say it didn’t.

Personally, lots of things the neighbor talked about can be validated (the fact he lives there, the sombrero, the parking situation), so I tend to believe the spreadsheet could be factual as well. JMO.

sosleepy wrote:I definitely don’t think you can completely invalidate this source. Not at all. It simply is an unsubstantiated rumor. But just like we can’t say it for sure happened, nor can we completely say it didn’t.

Personally, lots of things the neighbor talked about can be validated (the fact he lives there, the sombrero, the parking situation), so I tend to believe the spreadsheet could be factual as well. JMO.

Arie continuously using his condo as a AirBnB against the association rules even after being fined multiple times, apparently. Maybe this neighbor has tried to hold Arie to the association bylaws that everyone else has to adhere to.

Didn’t someone, pages back, link to “not so nice” tweets Arie posted in twitter? Those tweets show that Arie is just as quacky, tacky, and vindictive as this neighbor is accused of being...