Arie Luyendyk Jr - Lauren Burnham - Bachelor 22 - Discussion #2

Diana wrote:Arie being a azzhole and acting like he above others (imo)? I I about shocked as I'll be when him and Lauren break up in a few months... aka not at all

All JMO.

Or get married.

Yeah, I don't get this. 
So if someone's marriage or relationship does not last that =bad person, loser, etc and  just rewards? 
If it works it means the opposite? 
No. I think the real winner in relationships is personal health and happiness. 
Sometimes relationships work. Sometimes they don't. Usually whatever happens is for the best IMO.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5546335/Bachelor-Aries-ex-girlfriend-tells-loved-left-four-times.html

Interview with Giustina Lee.

Arie is probably one of the nicest most sweetest and caring men I've met. He is the type of guy if some little old lady has car trouble he will be there. He is a great friend and will give you the shirt off his back.

But when it comes to relationships he has no idea what to do, he just can't seem to settle down.'

She sounds like most of his ex girlfriends, they admit he's a great guy, and are disgruntled because he didn't want to settle with someone he wasn't in love with. JMO.

Before the concert they went to dinner where Lee said they were playing 'footsie's' underneath the table.

'Again I thought there may have been something more and he was going to finally commit, the dinner was so relaxing, I believe we were both in love at that moment,' said Lee. 'We were intimate that night after the concert.

Arie being 'intimate' apparently meant that they played footsie during dinner. If they had sex she would have spelled it out. If he had ever cheated she would have spelled it out as well. All IMO.

But Luyendyk just couldn't be content with one woman, Lee said.

'Arie tweeted out to the girl he just dumped wishing her a happy birthday for everyone to see, it was embarrassing,' she said.

Lee said she wasn't mad that he wished his ex a happy birthday but to do so publicly when they were together was a slap in her face.

She told Luyendyk that it wasn't going to work out and they weren't going to be exclusive and wasn't going to go forward with the relationship with him.

Giustina dumped Arie because he wished his ex a happy birthday on twitter. I guess this in part explains why Arie was so afraid of choosing an emotionally unstable (immature) woman.

When he dumped Lauren and she displayed great maturity he realized he messed up.

Mommyof2 wrote:

Diana wrote:Arie being a azzhole and acting like he above others (imo)? I I about shocked as I'll be when him and Lauren break up in a few months... aka not at all

All JMO.

Or get married.  

or divorced. JMO

rosefever wrote:http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5546335/Bachelor-Aries-ex-girlfriend-tells-loved-left-four-times.html

Interview with Giustina Lee.

Arie is probably one of the nicest most sweetest and caring men I've met. He is the type of guy if some little old lady has car trouble he will be there. He is a great friend and will give you the shirt off his back.

But when it comes to relationships he has no idea what to do, he just can't seem to settle down.'

She sounds like most of his ex girlfriends, they admit he's a great guy, and are disgruntled because he didn't want to settle with someone he wasn't in love with. JMO.

Before the concert they went to dinner where Lee said they were playing 'footsie's' underneath the table.

'Again I thought there may have been something more and he was going to finally commit, the dinner was so relaxing, I believe we were both in love at that moment,' said Lee. 'We were intimate that night after the concert.

Arie being 'intimate' apparently meant that they played footsie during dinner. If they had sex she would have spelled it out. If he had ever cheated she would have spelled it out as well. All IMO.

But Luyendyk just couldn't be content with one woman, Lee said.

'Arie tweeted out to the girl he just dumped wishing her a happy birthday for everyone to see, it was embarrassing,' she said.

Lee said she wasn't mad that he wished his ex a happy birthday but to do so publicly when they were together was a slap in her face.

She told Luyendyk that it wasn't going to work out and they weren't going to be exclusive and wasn't going to go forward with the relationship with him.

Giustina dumped Arie because he wished his ex a happy birthday on twitter. I guess this in part explains why Arie was so afraid of choosing an emotionally unstable (immature) woman.

When he dumped Lauren and she displayed great maturity he realized he messed up.

Note to the ex's. He's just not that into you.

The fact that Arie was willing to take the heat from the public to win Lauren back speaks volumes to me. Jmho.

It doesn't matter how accomplished one is, to me, it's not ok that she acts like an azzhole as well in the media. There are others Ellen JK etc who make a joke about TB and the outcomes, and it's in most cases all very true and funny. It's different when someone is downright mean, without the other person being able to defend themselves.

It doesn't matter to me, I have no idea who she is.

As far as the ex's, he didn't put a ring on the finger for a reason. When will they ever understand that. If he's so rotten be happy you weren't the one IMHO.

Lots of couple split, there is no difference with this couple if they split. They will be in the same category as Andi Josh Jake Vienna Ali Roberto, and on and on.

They will never split. I will make sure of that. . All kidding aside, I hope they both found "their person" because everyone deserves love. Imo.

I LOVE Britt Robertson. I've seen a ton of her movies. She currently stars in the new Shonda Rimes legal drama "For the People" on ABC. She gets cast in a lot of young parts, but she's actually 27 and been in some high-profile movies and decent indie stuff. I'd take her over Arie/Lauren any day and has a lot longer staying power. JMO.

I like that new program. I didn't know she was in it. I literally have never heard of her until recently.

I don’t care if she’s Meryl Streep.  I dont care how much staying power she has.  To me, her comments were unprofessional and juvenile.  “He’s here for us to make fun of.  He’s not creative.  He’s just a show pony.”

Arie didn’t tell her who he picked.  She was pissed, IMO.  It’s very possible she expressed that to him verbally. I could see her OTT vibe might make him a bit reluctant to interact with her.  Dang, I would be, too.

@alwaystulips
Exactly. If you don't like him, say nothing move on. That's what adults do publicly. IMO
This is the second time she/this issue has raised it's head. My interpretation is it serves her to do so. It certainly is no skin off his back. IMO

^^^ Personally I agree with what she said. I watch the show to snark on it. Some of it was sarcasm I believe, I've seen other interviews with her where she interacts like that. To each their own. All my opinion.