Arie Luyendyk Jr - Lauren Burnham - Bachelor 22 - Discussion

mindless wrote:

Amberish wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

And how long was their relationship?  

According to Courtney, Arie wants marriage and children and broke off with Sydney after realizing they weren't where he thought they should be after dating for a year.

It's no wonder they weren't if he was screwing other women on the side. Hard to be fully invested when you're constantly hiding things from the other person. JMOAA.

I think Arie even hides things from Courtney. His spreadsheet must keep things straight. She can talk about Sydney but doesn’t reference another , Giustina Lee.

She lives in Las Vegas and says that a little less than four weeks before it was announced Arie would be on The Bachelor, he came to see her at her house. Arie might not have known for sure at this point that he was going to get the job. Giustina says that they had a good time, had sex, and even spent time with her mom during their weekend together. Amo



https://www.inquisitr.com/4752902/arie-luyendyk-jr-allegedly-hooked-up-with-ex-right-before-filming-the-bachelor/

Stone_Hedge wrote:

mindless wrote:

Amberish wrote:

According to Courtney, Arie wants marriage and children and broke off with Sydney after realizing they weren't where he thought they should be after dating for a year.

It's no wonder they weren't if he was screwing other women on the side. Hard to be fully invested when you're constantly hiding things from the other person. JMOAA.

I think Arie even hides things from Courtney. His spreadsheet must keep things straight. She can talk about Sydney but doesn’t reference another , Giustina Lee.

She lives in Las Vegas and says that a little less than four weeks before it was announced Arie would be on The Bachelor, he came to see her at her house. Arie might not have known for sure at this point that he was going to get the job. Giustina says that they had a good time, had sex, and even spent time with her mom during their weekend together. Amo



https://www.inquisitr.com/4752902/arie-luyendyk-jr-allegedly-hooked-up-with-ex-right-before-filming-the-bachelor/

Those are just the ones we know about. Who knows how many there actually are.

I would pay money to see that spreadsheet!!! 

Diana wrote:Calling paps on themselves JMHO  these two need a lesson on what “staying out of the spotlight” means (IMO)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-5488715/Bachelor-star-Arie-Luyendyk-Jr-takes-Lauren-Burnham-home-Arizona.html

If they are 'supposedly' going to call the paps, they could have at least chosen a time when they weren't in their sweats!

Stone_Hedge wrote:

brownravens wrote:As yes Courtney, the world’s foremost Arie expert. If she says it it must be true!

C’mon she’s doing damage control for her friend’s reputation. I would say baloney to make my bff look good. I wouldn’t gush over an ex like this though so she could be a better person than me.

Courtney is aiding and abetting this attempt to rewrite the narrative. If Arie always loved Lauren he had a funny way of showing it. Honestly if you are that conflicted then you have no leg to stand on in the it was always her category. All IMO.

This could be true. She’s already stated how her best sex ever was something Arie himself told her to say to make himself look better because we know, “Sex sells baby “. So yes, she is willing to say what he asks her too. She’s also is capable of perpetuating his words as her own .

He was hesitant for a millisecond, but then we headed into my childhood bedroom, into my canopy bed, for what can only be described as the best sex I’ve ever had,” she continued. “Why was it so good you ask? Arie’s incredibly passionate and utilizes his entire body in his lovemaking. And he knows exactly what positions make a woman feel comfortable and satisfied.”

The bolded made me think she’s on his spreadsheet too and it’s written how to satisfy her specific needs .
Jmo



https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/courtney-robertson-on-having-best-sex-with-arie-luyendyk-w501972/

Soory, I am a little confused by the bolded part. So, does this mean Arie told Courtney to said he’s the best sex she’s ever had? I thought that comment was from her book which came out a few years ago? If Arie did ask Courtney, did she reveal that tidbit in her podcast with RS?

As you can see, I am easily confused! I don’t know if that’s what Courtney really said or just an opinion. A clarification will be much appreciated! Thanks.

sdmom wrote:

Stone_Hedge wrote:

brownravens wrote:As yes Courtney, the world’s foremost Arie expert. If she says it it must be true!

C’mon she’s doing damage control for her friend’s reputation. I would say baloney to make my bff look good. I wouldn’t gush over an ex like this though so she could be a better person than me.

Courtney is aiding and abetting this attempt to rewrite the narrative. If Arie always loved Lauren he had a funny way of showing it. Honestly if you are that conflicted then you have no leg to stand on in the it was always her category. All IMO.

This could be true. She’s already stated how her best sex ever was something Arie himself told her to say to make himself look better because we know, “Sex sells baby “. So yes, she is willing to say what he asks her too. She’s also is capable of perpetuating his words as her own .

He was hesitant for a millisecond, but then we headed into my childhood bedroom, into my canopy bed, for what can only be described as the best sex I’ve ever had,” she continued. “Why was it so good you ask? Arie’s incredibly passionate and utilizes his entire body in his lovemaking. And he knows exactly what positions make a woman feel comfortable and satisfied.”

The bolded made me think she’s on his spreadsheet too and it’s written how to satisfy her specific needs .
Jmo



https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/courtney-robertson-on-having-best-sex-with-arie-luyendyk-w501972/

Soory, I am a little confused by the bolded part. So, does this mean Arie told Courtney to said he’s the best sex she’s ever had? I thought that comment was from her book which came out a few years ago? If Arie did ask Courtney, did she reveal that tidbit in her podcast with RS?

As you can see, I am easily confused! I don’t know if that’s what Courtney really said or just an opinion. A clarification will be much appreciated! Thanks.

Courtney did reveal in the podcast that Arie told her to put that “best sex ever” in her book. Prior to that knowledge in a previous interview she states that comment as if it was hers and not Arie’s. She does so well covering for him imo.

Mommyof2 wrote:

brownravens wrote:As yes Courtney, the world’s foremost Arie expert. If she says it it must be true!

C’mon she’s doing damage control for her friend’s reputation. I would say baloney to make my bff look good. I wouldn’t gush over an ex like this though so she could be a better person than me.

Courtney is aiding and abetting this attempt to rewrite the narrative. If Arie always loved Lauren he had a funny way of showing it. Honestly if you are that conflicted then you have no leg to stand on in the it was always her category. All IMO.

I was just curious how long they dated and yes, I think it is possible to date someone for a while and not be in love with them.   Sometimes something is missing from the relationship that keeps you from being "all in."  Sydney has thrown shade at Arie several times and now I can understand why.  Jmo.  

I would probably have close to 100 husbands by now if everyone I had dated long term I was in love with and married. Thank goodness that was and is not the case. JMO

Diana wrote:Calling paps on themselves JMHO  these two need a lesson on what “staying out of the spotlight” means (IMO)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-5488715/Bachelor-star-Arie-Luyendyk-Jr-takes-Lauren-Burnham-home-Arizona.html

Yeah, what hapened to getting out the country on a holiday?

This has happened ad nauseam with many other couples. Paps catch cast in the grocery, kmart, target etc. 
It is an opinion as to what couples are popular or not and subjective. 
**Discussions need to stop with the baiting and subjective speculative things that bait. I believe this issue has been brought up. **
Unless someone was privy to how the paps turned up etc bringing up the topic of the cast person calling them themselves is only a topic of baiting IMO.  It becomes tiresome. 
BTW--it is a violation to publicly post member call outs.  This will no longer be addressed with members.

Ok I posted my opinion. I wasn’t attempting to bait anyone. Thanks for explaining though. Sorry it came across that way

Mommyof2 wrote:I was just curious how long they dated and yes, I think it is possible to date someone for a while and not be in love with them.   Sometimes something is missing from the relationship that keeps you from being "all in."  Sydney has thrown shade at Arie several times and now I can understand why.  Jmo.

According to what Sydney said on her podcast with RS, their first date was on July 19, 2016 and they broke up on July 31, 2017 - so they dated for a little over a year. According to Sydney they had been in contact before the first date; contrary to some perceptions, Arie did not "slide into Sydney's DM" - she described how she slid into Arie's DM. She said contacted Arie in January 2015 to see if they could get together (because it would be "cool") but Arie was in Detroit at the time. They talked on and off for a "couple of months" until July 2016 when they had their first date.

IMO that Jan 2015 date Sydney gave may have been misstated because if the first contact was Jan 2016 and they didn't date until July 2016 that's the "couple of months" she stated - otherwise it's well over a year.

source - Sydney podcast with RS

Arie not sliding into a girls DM?  Wow I’m shocked jmso

Diana wrote:Arie not sliding into a girls DM?  Wow I’m shocked jmso

He slid, she slid. Same objective to me. Bottom line , the method works for Arie. Jmo