Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #5

KB_Mom wrote:https://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/arie-to-chris-harrison-i-cant-fake-it-anymore-with-becca/

Does that mean he was faking it the whole time?

that was breathtaking.


CH is an a** as well...and probably another needle d*ck!

KB_Mom wrote:https://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/arie-to-chris-harrison-i-cant-fake-it-anymore-with-becca/

Does that mean he was faking it the whole time?

I kind of doubt it, but I never saw him full in with her(Becca) mid season on. 
I took it to mean, once he knew it was over with Becca, he had to move on. Once he knew he really needed to move on to Lauren, he knew he had to get out of the relationship and not fake it. That was my understanding of the article.

Have Nick or Peter said anything on SM about last night’s show?  I know Nick was in the audience.

@alwaystulips Nick has done some IG stories with Jared and Dean "reenacting only the basics" of the ATFR

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bf_XQBhlfAZ/

I'm sorry but Bekah is getting on my nerves. Such a fake. IMO

kraft33 wrote:https://www.instagram.com/p/Bf_XQBhlfAZ/

I'm sorry but Bekah is getting on my nerves. Such a fake. IMO

  Personally I am finding her highly entertaining.

kraft33 wrote:https://www.instagram.com/p/Bf_XQBhlfAZ/

I'm sorry but Bekah is getting on my nerves. Such a fake. IMO

Instead of 23, she is acting like a girl in high school, imo. Grow up, Becs and take some pointers from Becca or Sienne.

happygolucky wrote:@alwaystulips Nick has done some IG stories with Jared and Dean "reenacting only the basics" of the ATFR

Thanks @happygolucky

Ohappygolucky wrote:

timfan wrote:He was also dm Becka m also so I bet him and Lauren will not last jmo

IMHO He probably won't last with Lauren anyhow ... but DM-ing Becka M to me isn't disturbing, if the content of DM was just having fun banter ... I'm sure she's not the only woman (excluding Lauren for now) whom he DM-ed with in these months ... it's still just an information that gives wide open space to imagination, as I've heard some other girls doing to allude something negative regarding some BN guy who is in relationship currently, so I wouldn't jump on the first conclusion here.

For me the DMing of Bekah shows that instead of focusing on Lauren and this love he could not ignore, he is already looking at others. Much like the liking of Lauren’s pics so soon, it is disrespectful this soon. I am not a Sean fan, but I think he did it right. You make your choice and focus on that. Once you and your F1 are solid, then those friendships can re-emerge with the couple. But this soon is searching for outside activity to me. Not friendship. JMO.

sosleepy wrote:I’m going to withhold any judgement of Lauren until I can see her speak about her experience in real time. 

For all we know... fingers crossed... she tells Arie to eff off in prime time television tonight. THAT, my friends, really would be the most shocking ending ever. 

Arie has no regard for anyone else other than himself. This was apparent way back in 2012 during journal gate, when he tried to win back his “best good friend’s” fiancé behind his back. Not like defending 1F here, but just pointing out that was still shady as all get out, and showed his character. Arie has had this coming.

I will give Lauren time. She was lied to as well. I would love for her to dumb him, but she is human and may need time to process all that is coming to light. The lies, DMing Bekah, I give her time to digest it all.

Now, if she does stay with him long term, I probably won’t feel bad if he does cheat in the future. JMO

happygolucky wrote:

Diana wrote:It’s good entertainment and it leads to Arie being hated on and Becca being the ette so win win for me

I don't agree. I think it's futile to hate a person ... hate doesn't improve anyone's life ... what Arie needs is clearing his head and learn to be considerate and take responsibility ... he will need to change his "ways" if he wants to make a relationship work ... But I wonder does he see a reason for that change to be a priority? I doubt. When a person doesn't identify own mistakes, they will repeat them.

I don’t hate Arie, but I don’t like him. His lack of empathy and what I perceive as disingenuousness even when he acknowledges mistakes shows me a man who is not interested in growing or improving. JMO.

alwaystulips wrote:Have Nick or Peter said anything on SM about last night’s show?  I know Nick was in the audience.

Nick, Dean and Jarrod provided their take as an audience member on Instagram, I believe.

kraft33 wrote:https://www.instagram.com/p/Bf_XQBhlfAZ/
I'm sorry but Bekah is getting on my nerves. Such a fake. IMO

I believe I wrote at the beginning of the season that Bekah is only more clever version of Corrine ... clever in a sense that she plays it better and she has always shown her age to me, but I do find some of her opinions valid ... since she is similar to Arie (but even more perceptive and clever in manipulation) ... and is using TBTP as much as they are using her (not many contestants do).

Mommyof2 wrote:

kraft33 wrote:https://www.instagram.com/p/Bf_XQBhlfAZ/

I'm sorry but Bekah is getting on my nerves. Such a fake. IMO

Instead of 23, she is acting like a girl in high school, imo.  Grow up, Becs and take some pointers from Becca or Sienne.  

This is just my personal opinion, but Arie claimed to need to reach out to Lauren while he was with Becca because of the love he couldn’t get over.

By January he was with his incredible love, so why was he reaching out to Bekah instead of focusing on Lauren?

Perhaps she is a bit crude, but I am okay with her calling Arie out on his BS. If Arie has even done this public ally instead of by DM, she would have nothing to bring up. JMO.