Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #5

timfan wrote:He was also dm Becka m also so I bet him and Lauren will not last jmo

IMHO He probably won't last with Lauren anyhow ... but DM-ing Becka M to me isn't disturbing, if the content of DM was just having fun banter ... I'm sure she's not the only woman (excluding Lauren for now) whom he DM-ed with in these months ... it's still just an information that gives wide open space to imagination, as I've heard some other girls doing to allude something negative regarding some BN guy who is in relationship currently, so I wouldn't jump on the first conclusion here.

Wait. He was DMing Baby Bekkah???? 


  


I mean, I always knew he was this slimy. He is totally sketch. Womanizing to the extreme. But I didn’t realize he was this stupid. Cause omg, he really is very dumb. 

Seriously, almost 20 years of this show, being entrenched in Bach nation for the last 5.5 years. Seeing up close and personal the mistakes people have made... yet he does this????? He’s truly a moron.

Omg it’s so ironic this is #metoo year. Good casting choice tptb. Bravo.

Yup yup!!! He’s literally such a sleazebag, it’s hilarious. Lauren is insane for staying with him. Insane. Imo. But it won’t last long so whatevs, she’ll be fine.

https://twitter.com/whats_ur_sign_/status/970882299012067328?s=21

stuckinsc wrote:@XQZME Yeah, Arie is going to grow a long nose from his “truths” that were more excuses to cover his lies and look like a good guy. 

Arie can’t disappear fast enough for me. JMO.

I think Arie can't disappear fast enough for Arie right now!

Diana wrote:This is on Arie but if these two really were talking behind Becca’s back any feelings of compassion I had towards Lauren being stuck with this man went out the window. Have some respect.

How you get is how you lose them though so good luck Lauren. Becca really dodged a huge bullet.

Arie needs therapy not a second fiancé

This is all JMO

^ Considering all of the girls on Arie’s season, including Tia and Caroline who are close to Becca, are defending Lauren and stating she was under the impression that Becca knew everything that Arie was telling to Lauren, I’d say Lauren might have been in the dark about some things like Becca was.

I feel for the both of them. JMO

I can’t  feel bad for Lauren at this point. Maybe I’m a azzhole but if she doesn’t see all the reasons why she deserves better and how Arie treats women than I can’t help but sit and wait for him to do the same thing to her. Because these two aren’t getting married JMO

Ash2214 wrote:^ Considering all of the girls on Arie’s season, including Tia and Caroline who are close to Becca, are defending Lauren and stating she was under the impression that Becca knew everything that Arie was telling to Lauren, I’d say Lauren might have been in the dark about some things like Becca was.

I feel for the both of them. JMO

I agree.
IMO it seems TPTB like to keep the women off balance and in the dark as much as possible. 
I feel for whomever takes that 'Ette role or even next season's TB. IMO the next goal for TPTB will be to out shark this season.

I don’t blame Lauren or Becca too much, this is all Arie and the producers. Oh well, I’m enjoying it

It’s good entertainment and it leads to Arie being hated on and Becca being the ette so win win for me

I’m going to withhold any judgement of Lauren until I can see her speak about her experience in real time. 

For all we know... fingers crossed... she tells Arie to eff off in prime time television tonight. THAT, my friends, really would be the most shocking ending ever. 

Arie has no regard for anyone else other than himself. This was apparent way back in 2012 during journal gate, when he tried to win back his “best good friend’s” fiancé behind his back. Not like defending 1F here, but just pointing out that was still shady as all get out, and showed his character. Arie has had this coming.

Ash2214 wrote:^ Considering all of the girls on Arie’s season, including Tia and Caroline who are close to Becca, are defending Lauren and stating she was under the impression that Becca knew everything that Arie was telling to Lauren, I’d say Lauren might have been in the dark about some things like Becca was.

I feel for the both of them. JMO

She does know now though and she's (presumably) still staying with him. 

I get that she's in a tough position and Arie is clearly a liar and master manipulator, but people were blaming Becca for not being able to see the red flags last night. I think the same holds true for Lauren. No matter what, if she's engaged to him, she's a freaking idiot. There are no amount of lies or manipulation that can justify a sane person thinking it's a good idea. IMO.