Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

IDK if that is bitter. I think it's pretty true. They all do say it every season. JMO

She can be happily married and still be snarky. I personally like her humour and don‘t mind it

littlereddress wrote:The thing that makes me sad is that Arie had a chance to repair his reputation and show the world he was serious about being married, wanting a family and commitment.  I fought everything I read about him to give him a chance and only judge him by how he came across filming and post show.  I'm glad I did because now I can judge on what I am seeing.

Instead he showing me that he still does not know what he wants and he is more interested in bouncing between women appearing to act as if he wants to give it chance but then sabotaging it by constantly contacting exes.  Does he have a harem mentality?

In the words of a quote I read "some dogs you just can't keep on the porch."

I never followed Arie before, may I know what kind of reputation he had before? this franchise is really full of crazy people, isn't it

People want truth not rumors, Whit is stating a truth. Minus Sean, who said it and who followed through with  their choice?
I swear Neil Lane always cringes when TBach has to choose a ring because he knows the return policy will be a given At least he gets a mention.

"I am not here for a 22 year old girlfriend" No just add three years to that.

I believe this situation is true going off of SM. And IF it happened like it's been stated,
such crappy, classless behavior by Arie and Lauren as she's a part of this too and agreed to date him (if true). I'm not her and don't pretend to know what's in her head, but I can't understand why she would agree to this unless she was pining over him like I think he was her.
Looking forward to seeing this play out.

Ladybug82 wrote:Anyone catch Caroline's comment likes earlier today?  She's clearly #teamBecca not #teamArie

No missed it!? but SM is going to be entertaining to watch now

All 6 of the happily married/engaged Bachelorettes are just shaking their heads at Arie right now.

Linds911 wrote:All 6 of the happily married/engaged Bachelorettes are just shaking their heads at Arie right now.

I really don’t think they care  too busy being the real, total rockstars of this super misogynistic circus.

@Alanna yeah so true.

As for Arie ugh I was so glad he was Bachelor and now i just want him to go away.

I have to respond: Jmo, it’s fun to speculate but some posts state it like it’s a fact!

Who said Arie called Lauren? RS. But even RS said he doesn’t know the content of the conversation. I don’t think it’s fair to say he called her to express his feelings for her, because, at this point, no one knows. Maybe he’s just checking on her and she said don’t call me when you are engaged to another woman? We also don’t know how many times he called her while engaged to Becca. I re-read RS and I am not sure RS is clear on that. Mo.

RS also said Arie broke up with Becca and went over to Lauren’s parents house: it’s also very possible he broke up first before pursuing Lauren again. Its also possible Becca didn’t think this relationship would work either. Who knows?

I am not a fan of anyone, but I don’t think I know enough facts to point finger at anyone, or even call anyone names, not yet. Maybe more facts will come out and Arie indeed is the biggest fool of this franchise.

Until then, I hope this board, IMO the best sleuthing board, will uncover more facts, not just speculation after speculation.

All Jmo.

pbmax wrote:

Pirouette wrote:We don’t know what happened. Neither the circonstances nor the feelings involved. I won’t be rushing into judgement. That’s just me.

I'm with you on that. There's a song that say how can you judge me when you don't know my story. Energy is running on rumors, we don't know what happened in the end or if the rumors are true. The so-called switcheroo could be just the opposite, he broke off with Lauren for Becca, if we could just wait to see. If he did break up with Becca there is nothing wrong with that, from the so-called timeline to me he broke it off with Becca before he went to Lauren. They both was on the same show competing for the same guy, but the guy quickly realized he made a mistake and not in the real world where he was in a exclusive relationship and engaged to Becca, but then met Lauren later and decided he wanted her, that would be cheating. I think he is acting like a grown man, we can't please everyone, so it's better to be happy

sdmom wrote:I have to respond: Jmo, it’s fun to speculate but some posts state it like it’s a fact!

Who said Arie called Lauren? RS. But even RS said he doesn’t know the content of the conversation. I don’t think it’s fair to say he called her to express his feelings for her, because, at this point, no one knows. Maybe he’s just checking on her and she said don’t call me when you are engaged to another woman? We also don’t know how many times he called her while engaged to Becca. I re-read RS and I am not sure RS is clear on that. Mo.

RS also said Arie broke up with Becca and went over to Lauren’s parents house: it’s also very possible he broke up first before pursuing Lauren again. Its also possible Becca didn’t think this relationship would work either. Who knows?

I am not a fan of anyone, but I don’t think I know enough facts to point finger at anyone, or even call anyone names,  not yet. Maybe more facts will come out and Arie indeed is the biggest fool of this franchise.

Until then, I hope this board, IMO  the best sleuthing board, will uncover more facts, not just speculation after speculation.

All Jmo.