Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

beader wrote:^^^ (ETA:  Referring to the Min. sports teams guys SQZME posted about.)  At least they'd be used to the terrible winters.  I can't even imagine living there.  And Phoenix to Minnesota--no way I can see that happen.

Rolly wrote:

beader wrote:^^^ (ETA:  Referring to the Min. sports teams guys SQZME posted about.)  At least they'd be used to the terrible winters.  I can't even imagine living there.  And Phoenix to Minnesota--no way I can see that happen.

Gosh you'd think maybe he would of thought though the where they may live and willingness or not to move before he decided to propose.

Bet2Win wrote:

Rolly wrote:

beader wrote:^^^ (ETA:  Referring to the Min. sports teams guys SQZME posted about.)  At least they'd be used to the terrible winters.  I can't even imagine living there.  And Phoenix to Minnesota--no way I can see that happen.

Gosh you'd think maybe he would of thought though the where they may live and willingness or not to move before he decided to propose.

2 words:  Bachelor Bubble

littlereddress wrote:I want to say one more observation that I have with Arie and Lauren.  He is not as sensual with her as he is with the others.  He is tender, he kisses her cheek and forehead.  When he kissed her in the clip he says I want to kiss you - can I - yes I do. It is more of an romantic I adore you kind of connection than what he has with Bekah or even the physical attraction with Becca.   Just an observation that I putting out there, my personal opinion only.

AllAboutLove wrote:I did give Arie the benefit of the doubt for a long time. Now I have very little doubt and any doubt I do have has no benefit. The pattern of his behavior is too obvious for me to ignore. So good luck Arie you'll need it. jmo

mindless wrote:

Bet2Win wrote:

Rolly wrote:

Gosh you'd think maybe he would of thought though the where they may live and willingness or not to move before he decided to propose.

2 words:  Bachelor Bubble

I don't think the bubble prevents you from asking basic questions. Seems like Arie just can't be bothered. I was getting beyond annoyed watching him with Seinne, because she was trying hard to make conversation and he was acting like she was a stranger who'd walked up to him in a bar who he wanted to get rid off. The only thing he seems to be interested in is licking these women's tonsils. JMO.

XQZME wrote:Arie has been through all this during Emily's season.  He was blindsided when Em let him go...he knew how it felt.  
Arie talks the talk but never walks the walk.
He talks about being respectful of others feelings but he never backs that up with action.
I've come to the realization, Arie is all about Arie.  

Arie didn't have to propose at the FRC, no matter how much tptb wanted an engagement.  If he had doubts, like we are finding out he did, then he shouldve done the Brad, and not proposed.  He should've had enough respect for Becca's feelings to walk away at the FRC.
 
Since he couldn't get LB out of his mind, he could've still had this outcome without hurting an innocent person in the process...I don't buy the "they knew what they were signing up for when they went on this show" line.  
As for LB, when Arie contacted her, she should've told him she would see him at the ATFR and if he still felt the same way about her, then she would like to date and see where they went from there.  

Instead of a WTA with the ladies from this season, they should get all his exes together for a WTA and I bet we would hear some eye opening stories.