Bachelor Canada Season 3 - Chris Leroux - Media SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #2

Just a comment about Lyndsey and her friend in the bathroom...

Even though we have visual proof that Lyndsey is clothed, from my experience, it is not uncommon for young people to walk around nude around each other without it having to mean something. Case in point, when my daughter was in university, her dorm/housemate were always walking around in bra or panties or naked. My husband frequently waited in the hall until the coast was clear. They would go in the the washroom while the other was on the toilet or in the tub(sorry for the graphic). I asked my daughter once why they didn't put on some clothes and she replied. "What's the big deal!" So for them, it's not a big deal. As a side note, they all had boyfriends.

Having said that, I feel that our society is more open now (and I hope, more accepting of diversity). I think that it's wonderful that young people take a stand and support, in solidarity, those who are mistreated because of their "diversity" (Hozier). Unlike my generation, I hope that this generation embraces a kinder approach of treating their fellow human. At least, that's what I hope!

I'll get off the soapbox now!

Jmo

IMO, whether or not anyone is nude or not, in a tub or not is just a very small part of what my opinion is based upon. I said many pages ago, that is not the case. My opinion was always a) there is a inordinate FOR ME, IMO amount of intimacy between these two girls, SHOWN on SM and the images COMBINED WITH THE STATEMENTS, IMO are b) intentionally posted to create the very questions being debated. There is clearly a message being communicated by Lyndsey and her friend and IMO it is not meant to be sanitized and ignored or, it wouldn’t be blatant and repetitive and public. JMO

I genuinely respect all opinions but I just thought that this particular speculation is getting a little out of hand. This speculation may seem to have some grounds to some of our fellow peers (although it never resonate with me) and that's ok since it already proven that we can't prove to each other otherwise. It just seem a little premature to me when the F1 is still up in the air and a bit much just to prove Lynds isn't the F1. Imo.

TBH, there is already substantial amount of so called "proof/edits" from the show and SM that is being brought up that is favorable to Mik being the F1 instead of Lynds that I found rather valid. There is even a spoiler! Why can't we just focus on those? Why can't we just continue to sleuth, examine and debate those? There are times when Mik post comments under Lynds INS like "I am obsessed with you", "I can't stop watching. Am I into girls now?" etc. I can easily make a point with that to make an argument but I don't because deep down I know its the least meaningful "clue" to hold ground when both of them is on a show call the bachelor. And yes, there are cases where girls fall in love with each other on the franchise but I really won't immediately assume that while sleuthing because of some kiss and captions. Maybe is just me I will expect more solid proof especially when we are talking about one's sexuality and character. We are just hours from the finale and I rather be bombarded with "I told you so" when Lynds is proven not to be the F1 as to me this speculation is pretty baseless(imho) as of now.

Ps.I kiss my elder sister on the lips too and it is just family affection to me.

Aunties_Love wrote:Just a question, aren't most if not all the "statements" that you are talking about in fact song lyrics??  I am asking as I thought most if not all of them are and if so, how is that a statement.  I ask cause I am trying to understand where you are coming from vs being confrontational on it.  Thanks for the help

@Aunties_Love,
There are song lyrics but, mostly personal statements and declarations. It’s a public forum. She posted what she wants people to see. Besides, what difference does it make? If one goes onto their personal SM and posts songs out of the blue about their love for cars or clothes or wine or, the ocean - is there no point to their choice of that song to post - out of the millions of songs they could choose?

I get it. You disagree and your efforts to change minds and minimize and reject and obscure and belittle and detract and distract from the opposing view have been noted but, my opinion is based on many different things that I see and others’ opinions are based on what they see - NOT what you agree with and this whole discussion can be over as soon as you find a way to understand that and move on. It’s a forum. We disagree. Some share your view on this topic. Some share my view on this topic. You cannot change what Lyndsey posted and you cannot change my opinion of what Lyndsey posted. Period.

I really don't read much into what Lynsdsey (or any of them) posts on social media but IMO, if she is posting suggestive things on a non-private account it is because she wants it to be seen and doesn't care. Can we really be mad that she and her friend are being given the attention they clearly want? JMO.

This is an example of just that when we post opinions as factual.  So, I just want to clear the record on this since I think was misrepresented in your great post about Lyndsey's IG.  When @HEA states that the two girls are naked in a tub, that is implying that they were both in the tub naked.  So, just so we can have facts here is a screenshot of the video where you can see better of the situation.



The red circle shows that the candle is on the edge of the tub.  The phone/recording device is most likely IMO sitting on that edge recording (I love baths and in a hotel, the door can actually be right there IMO) the yellow is showing that Lyndsey is wearing a one-shoulder top/dress.  The turquoise circle arrow is showing where the ukulele is.   So IMO by this photo, they are not both naked.    Lyndsey is sitting next to the bath after coming home from something work, dinner etc.    

It still doesn't look like a dress to me, and that's my opinion, so for me it's not a fact. I have not watched the video but only commenting on the s/cap. If they are sitting on the floor what is the bottle of shampoo sitting on? Hair products are usually sitting in a corner of a tub.

Chgohighlife wrote:
@Aunties_Love,
There are song lyrics but, mostly personal statements and declarations. It’s a public forum. She posted what she wants people to see. Besides, what difference does it make? If one goes onto their personal SM and posts songs out of the blue about their love for cars or clothes or wine or, the ocean - is there no point to their choice of that song to post - out of the millions of songs they could choose?

I get it. You disagree and your efforts to change minds and minimize and reject and obscure and belittle and detract and distract from the opposing view have been noted but, my opinion is based on many different things that I see and others’ opinions are based on what they see - NOT what you agree with and this whole discussion can be over as soon as you find a way to understand that and move on. It’s a forum. We disagree. Some share your view on this topic. Some share my view on this topic. You cannot change what Lyndsey posted and you cannot change my opinion of what Lyndsey posted. Period.

Good post, because that's what we do here and we will always continue to do because that's why this forum was created. For members to be able to discuss their opinions without being challenged whether one agree's or not.

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The other girl is in the tub with the shampoo sitting on the rail of the tub.  Then on the other side of the girl is the candle sitting on the other rail of the tub.  Lyndsey is directly on the floor leaning up against the bathroom door.  The pic shows it but the video shows it better IMO.


ETA:

I am not @4health, but I am reading from her post that she said this: top/dress I am taking that to mean that it could be a top or it could be a dress. Is it easier to see in this one that @4health provided:


https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/t4603p552-bachelor-canada-season-3-chris-leroux-media-sm-sleuthing-spoilers-2#1270432

@GuardianAngel, you and the other mods have created a great environment here. I love it and spend much too much time in it because it’s so much fun. Thank you!

So its back to this topic day of finale.


All this talk about “opinions” .... well sometimes it crosses a line into baiting ...and that’s MY opinion ....

See you all on the other side ....

Hmm , anything exciting out there on SM for tonight ,big reveal.

Catie's Instagram is a supportive message to her friends (Lyndsey and Mikaela) and her friends post back! Hmmm...

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bc8DuVPnpC9/?taken-by=catiefenn

Wonder what we're going to see tonight?

tatladylu wrote:Catie's Instagram is a supportive message to her friends (Lyndsey and Mikaela) and her friends post back!  Hmmm...

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bc8DuVPnpC9/?taken-by=catiefenn

Wonder what we're going to see tonight?

I forgot to mention this but it's possible that Catie will be at Mikaela's finale viewing party tonight. Mikaela said on her IG stories a couple of days ago that some of her bach friends will be there and since Catie lives in the area and seems close to Mikaela, I wouldn't be surprised if she popped up. Which of the other girls lives in the toronto area?