Bachelor Canada Season 3 - Chris Leroux - Media SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #2

Aunties_Love wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:

4health wrote:


naked or not naked, in a tub not in a tub, it doesn't really matter what we are actually watching.  

I just can't help myself.  As a mother of two beautiful young girls, I feel like I have to protect these young girls.  I understand that we all have our opinions and that SM posts can be misinterpreted or can be exactly as others think.     I would be the first to admit if I am wrong, it won't be the first time.  

I'm still trying to understand how anyone could think she was nude in this picture. It's very plain to see she is NOT. Thanks for blowing the picture up so it shows what the picture is ( altho I could see from the first one and I'm half blind ). It would have been nice if the one that posted it had done that to start with, but I understand it wouldn't have fit the story. IMHO!!!

I completely agree @4health(thanks so much for blowing it up to make it extra obvious) and @LoveDovez.  IMO, I could tell from the original shot, Lyndsey wasn't topless and IMO impossible for her to be in the tub considering she was leaning right up against the door and if she were in the tub, the tub itself would of had to be right up against the door.....how would you be able to use it??

Exactly my opinion too, @Auntie_Love. Sometimes it's all in what you want to see in a picture. I wear glasses yet it was very plain for me to see in the first picture that Lindsey was wearing something and was sitting on the floor. Oh well......Next......

Why does anyone need to protect Lyndsey from an image she posted on a public medium?

ReneeM wrote:Why does anyone need to protect Lyndsey from an image she posted on a public medium?

I can't speak for @4health, but what I got from her post was that she wanted to protect women in general from stuff happening just like it did with this photo. Sometimes all it takes is to look at something a second longer to make sure you see what is exactly there if you're going to post it or speak about it as if it is the "truth". With all the bullying going on on social media the last thing that's needed is for someone to make something out of something that isn't anything...IMHO!!

ReneeM wrote:Why does anyone need to protect Lyndsey from an image she posted on a public medium?

Interesting question especially since "protecting contestants" is not currently listed in the forum rules otherwise only positive opinions would be allowed which as we know is not the case...jmho.

LoveDovez wrote:

ReneeM wrote:Why does anyone need to protect Lyndsey from an image she posted on a public medium?

I can't speak for @4health, but what I got from her post was that she wanted to protect women in general from stuff happening just like it did with this photo. Sometimes all it takes is to look at something a second longer to make sure you see what is exactly there if you're going to post it or speak about it as if it is the "truth". With all the bullying going on on social media the last thing that's needed is for someone to make something out of something that isn't anything...IMHO!!

But a) nobody here's bullying her. & b) she's a grownup who decided to post suggestive images for the world to see.

ReneeM wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:

ReneeM wrote:Why does anyone need to protect Lyndsey from an image she posted on a public medium?

I can't speak for @4health, but what I got from her post was that she wanted to protect women in general from stuff happening just like it did with this photo. Sometimes all it takes is to look at something a second longer to make sure you see what is exactly there if you're going to post it or speak about it as if it is the "truth". With all the bullying going on on social media the last thing that's needed is for someone to make something out of something that isn't anything...IMHO!!

But a) nobody here's bullying her. & b) she's a grownup who decided to post suggestive images for the world to see.

Where did I say anybody was bullying "her"?? Read my post again please....

When the bath video was posted on oldsames account, it was captioned "äfter a LOT of vino, vodka etc’ and probably something else as Lyndsey hasn’t been shy about it in her blog.  Who hasn’t done something wacky after a lot of stimulants .  She lives an unfiltered life, more power to her.  But to speculate that - because I don’t do that with my girlfriends, therefore they must be in a lesbian relationship - is a leap too far IMO

LoveDovez wrote:

ReneeM wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:

I can't speak for @4health, but what I got from her post was that she wanted to protect women in general from stuff happening just like it did with this photo. Sometimes all it takes is to look at something a second longer to make sure you see what is exactly there if you're going to post it or speak about it as if it is the "truth". With all the bullying going on on social media the last thing that's needed is for someone to make something out of something that isn't anything...IMHO!!

 But a) nobody here's bullying her. & b) she's a grownup who decided to post suggestive images for the world to see.

Where did I say anybody was bullying "her"?? Read my post again please....

I understood what you were saying, my point is that all the discussions here have been respectful, no one's crossed any lines or made any negative implications or insinuations here, and we can't control what other people say outside this forum, so there's really no need imo to protect her from something she felt comfortable enough to share publicly.

Agent99 wrote:When the bath video was posted on oldsames account, it was captioned "äfter a LOT of vino, vodka etc’ and probably something else as Lyndsey hasn’t been shy about it in her blog.  Who hasn’t done something wacky after a lot of stimulants .  She lives an unfiltered life, more power to her.  But to speculate that - because I don’t do that with my girlfriends, therefore they must be in a lesbian relationship - is a leap too far IMO

I have.    Thank goodness we didn't have Instagram when I was Lyndsey's age, I'll say that much.  

I do not get a relationship vibe from these two at all.  Just friends, who enjoy attention and provoking speculation, IMO.

ReneeM wrote:

LoveDovez wrote:

ReneeM wrote:Why does anyone need to protect Lyndsey from an image she posted on a public medium?

I can't speak for @4health, but what I got from her post was that she wanted to protect women in general from stuff happening just like it did with this photo. Sometimes all it takes is to look at something a second longer to make sure you see what is exactly there if you're going to post it or speak about it as if it is the "truth". With all the bullying going on on social media the last thing that's needed is for someone to make something out of something that isn't anything...IMHO!!

But a) nobody here's bullying her. & b) she's a grownup who decided to post suggestive images for the world to see.

@LoveDovez  thank you and to all others.  I will just say you said it much better then I would have.  When I posted about "protecting" young girls, @LoveDovez said it best.

LoveDovez wrote:

ReneeM wrote:Why does anyone need to protect Lyndsey from an image she posted on a public medium?

I can't speak for @4health, but what I got from her post was that she wanted to protect women in general from stuff happening just like it did with this photo. Sometimes all it takes is to look at something a second longer to make sure you see what is exactly there if you're going to post it or speak about it as if it is the "truth". With all the bullying going on on social media the last thing that's needed is for someone to make something out of something that isn't anything...IMHO!!

Agent99 wrote:When the bath video was posted on oldsames account, it was captioned "äfter a LOT of vino, vodka etc’ and probably something else as Lyndsey hasn’t been shy about it in her blog.  Who hasn’t done something wacky after a lot of stimulants .  She lives an unfiltered life, more power to her.  But to speculate that - because I don’t do that with my girlfriends, therefore they must be in a lesbian relationship - is a leap too far IMO

I am going to answer both down here as IMO, they are part in parcel for me. As far as I am concerned, I am in no way "protecting" Lyndsey as much as trying to state what I see in the pic and that with the insinuations of something happening in the pic that is OBVIOUSLY not, then I felt it necessary to state as much. For instance, When the whole pic was posted it was stated that they both were in the tub. IMO they aren't. Lyndsey is on the floor OUT of the tub and she isn't topless as was stated as well. I understand that protecting contestants isn't in the rules but at the same time, IMO insinuations made and comments made can damage or in the very least inflame discussions. IMO, there is nothing sexual about that picture at all yet it's been insinuated that there is. I just thank @4health for breaking it down better and letting us all see that nothing is really happening at all. I agree Agent99 that speculating that Lyndsey is in a lesbian relationship is really leaping in the wrong direction, IMO.

Wednesday evening can not come soon enough and put everyone's mind at easy , maybe at the after the final rose if Chris and Lyndsey are not together we will still see a twinkle in Chris's eyes still for Lyndsey. I think she will take it the hardest cause she was all in 100% to see if Chris was the one for her. I think Mikeala on the other hand will see happy go lucky as per usual. All jmo