Rachel & Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - Discussion - #3

There is no way she isn't low key embarrassed about this. Dying to know what her family and Bryan talk about when they spend time together They can't even ask 'how's work?'

https://people.com/tv/bachelorette-rachel-lindsay-bryan-abasolo-planning-small-wedding/

I feel like I can pencil in another article exactly like this one in June of 2019 and only change the line “first half of 2019” to say “later this year.”

Also, the sex comment was just a giant SMDH moment.

I actually like the idea of small intimate wedding with family and friends....
I love her but that bit about their sex life was unnecessary imo. What were you thinking Big Rach

That sex comment was so random and out of place.

Rachel is really convincing though when she speaks. If I didn't know that they are very rarely in the same city at the same time, I might've believed her.

“I always wanted to wear pants and go to a court house.”

Cool. Then do it. That should take a week or 2 max to throw together. Smh. The dumb excuses these couples come up with.

Good for her.
I never watched her season but the guy gives me total Josh vibes.

Really, really, like REALLY fascinated why these couples claim they’ve found the one and whatever and then never ever get married? I think it has to be the social/fame pressure? For the most part, ime, adults in 2+ year relationships do tend to get married if they’ve been serious.

Alanna wrote:Really, really, like REALLY fascinated why these couples claim they’ve found the one and whatever and then never ever get married? I think it has to be the social/fame pressure? For the most part, ime, adults in 2+ year relationships do tend to get married if they’ve been serious.

I think it’s just that there are SO MANY REASONS to stay together and try now (IG fame, money, people’s livelihoods, just the pressure of social media and still being in everyone’s faces even years later) that couples who would have otherwise broken up and faded away 10-15 years ago are now trying harder to force it to work. But actual marriage? Now that takes it a bridge too far. JMO

I guess and I get it but it’s so, so weird to me when I compare to real life when hardly anyone “normal” posts all these undying love messages to their SO, only to be engaged for years, and then breaks-up. So weird, man.

I don’t see how planning a “normal” everyday wedding requires more intricacies than some of their past personal events—engagement parties, showers, vacations whatever.
My feeling is if you really want something (a goal?), you make steps in the right direction to attain it.
You can wear pants to an awful lot of places and get married pretty darn quick if that’s all it takes and have a ridiculous party after the fact.

mysthelma wrote:I actually like the idea of small intimate wedding with family and friends....
I love her but that bit about their sex life was unnecessary imo. What were you thinking Big Rach

While I at her sex commentbut imo, I can see why she feels necessary to bring it up. Almost two years later, there are still people (thankfully, not here) claiming she settled, she had better chemistry with her f2, blah blah blah. Don’t forget this is Rachel, queen of clapbakcs! All Jmo.

I had most fun sleuthing her season! The watch gate, the SHV pictures! Epic! Too bad nowadays not too much sleuthing going on here (for US versions)....IMO.