Re: Bekah Martinez - Bachelor 22 - Discussion

by blueblues Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:26 pm

Mommyof2 wrote:Baby Becs isn't ready for marriage. She's ready to party on BIP!! Jmo.

No, but neither is Arie IMO, unless it’s an “open” marriage. The difference is that she will probably get there eventually, but at this point I doubt that he ever will. That would make her at least half right.
All JMO.

by Guest Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:30 pm

Her being ready for marriage is in comparison to Arie being ready. That I have to agree imo.

by **GuardianAngel** Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:31 pm

I find Bekah to be "trying" to be well spoken, she tries to come across like she's mature, to prove her point, but to me she is showing just how immature she is. Is she working ATM? What has she accomplished prior to going on TB?

We'll see on BIP just how mature she is. I'm sure we'll be able to sleuth the perfect contestant for her during the next ette season.

by Diana Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:39 pm

Seems to me anyone who speaks out against Arie or his terrible actions is accused of just wanting fame or attention which is fair to think but IMO they aren’t all lying and he’s proven to me that everything baby Beks said was just the truth. JMO

All is JMHO

by kmick0890 Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:41 pm

I don't have a problem with what Bekah is saying and she's probably right but she's only 23. It seems to me like she's not ready for marriage so it's a little hypocritical for her to be saying it about Arie even though he's the lead.

by Guest Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:45 pm

Mommyof2 wrote:It's funny how we judge someone we don't even know. I've been guilty of it. Some of these contestants are not my cup of tea. We are seeing a one dimensional character on a highly edited television show. I like Bekah, but I am not buying what she is selling that she is ready for marriage, especially when she is heading to BIP this summer. Jmhoaa.

There’s two sides of that coin going on here. Some more aggressive than others, some more snarky. However, it’s still in the lines of opinions. At least when Becka speaks, she’s not using edit or seeing things in a one dimensional way. She’s projected to show her true colors in BIP. No different from some projecting that Arie’s true colors will show.
Jmo

by **GuardianAngel** Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:54 pm

Diana wrote:Seems to me anyone who speaks out against Arie or his terrible actions is accused of just wanting fame or attention which is fair to think but IMO they aren’t all lying and he’s proven to me that everything baby Beks said was just the truth. JMO

All is JMHO

Can we stop mentioning opinions of members? There are maybe a handful of members that are posting opinions based on their speculation or trying to see the other side of the coin. The rest are NOT supporting Arie. It's their right, and same goes for those who don't say one way or another.

Why is it that every time one person posts their opinion that isn't fanning all over someone it's considered supporting Arie.

IMO all these contestants, past and present, are all in it for one thing, and that's not love. Some are lucky at the end, most are not.

Bekah IMO is still proving for her next role on BIP that she is a mature lady looking for love, which IMO she's not. Whether it's Arie she's talking about or anyone else.

by Mommyof2 Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:56 pm

Bekah is entitled to her opinion about whether she thinks Arie is ready for marriage or not, but leave it at that. The part that made me roll my eyes is she believes she is more ready than he is and that is just laughable as she is going on another reality tv show soon. Jmho

by Kashathediva Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:57 pm

Reminder: Bekkah discussion thread.

by blueblues Wed Feb 28, 2018 12:58 pm

GuardianAngel wrote:I find Bekah to be "trying" to be well spoken, she tries to come across like she's mature, to prove her point, but to me she is showing just how immature she is. Is she working ATM? What has she accomplished prior to going on TB?

We'll see on BIP just how mature she is. I'm sure we'll be able to sleuth the perfect contestant for her during the next ette season.

Still working as a nanny, it seems. There is a small child in several of her IG stories, one of them with a caption saying something like “when I came to work today”.

I think she actually is well spoken, but the maturity is cracking a little under pressure. She has definitely said a few questionable things lately IMO, but she as also said a few really smart things, and I’m all for her support of Becca.
Conclusion: She is far from perfect, but I still like her.

by **GuardianAngel** Wed Feb 28, 2018 1:04 pm

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by **Sprite** Wed Feb 28, 2018 1:06 pm

Mommyof2 wrote:Bekah is entitled to her opinion about whether she thinks Arie is ready for marriage or not, but leave it at that. The part that made me roll my eyes is she believes she is more ready than he is and that is just laughable as she is going on another reality tv show soon. Jmho

I actually think Baby is pretty spot on in her Arie assessment. As to the part about her being more ready for marriage, I took that to be tongue in cheek/sarcasm...in as in my whole storyline was my age, but compared to him I'm just as ready.

And what has her going on another reality show got to do with her being ready for marriage? Older people...who are presumably more mature than her and thus ready for marriage are going. Why shouldn't she take advantage of the opportunities that she is presented because she is younger?

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