Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - Discussion - #2

ReneeM wrote:

lleyki wrote:

teamkristina wrote:Okay can we look at the facts here? a 37 year old grown azz man in miami who casually dated a 23 year old girl who performed in pageants and is a "model" and is closer to the age of 18 than 37 before rachel is now suddenly serious?He trade marked his name the ab doctor and dr abs DAYS within the time rachel  was announced the lead with the intention of hosting parties and become a reality tv personality. His own mother said he's been with so many girls. He's been on another reality tv show  so he knows how to thrive in a similar environment even though it was a long time ago. Also theres been a girl who says he messaged her after coming back from filming and to be fair thats not really that valid. But do y'all not see the red flags here? Do you seriously think bryan is this perfect guy for rachel?  imo there are too many red flags here and moving to LA or cali is another one.

I guess the username changes but the message stays the same. Awesome. Poor clueless Rachel. Just being mind controlled by Bryan. Because I know that one thing I have recognized about Rachel after following her on two seasons of thus show is that this woman has no backbone and is just completely gullible to some Svengali Luke player. Thank god for us wise people in Bachelor nation who can see the truth.

I mean she did talk a lot post show about being manipulated by TOG. So clearly she's at least a little gullible, according to her.

teamkristina wrote:Okay can we look at the facts here? a 37 year old grown azz man in miami who casually dated a 23 year old girl who performed in pageants and is a "model" and is closer to the age of 18 than 37 before rachel is now suddenly serious?He trade marked his name the ab doctor and dr abs DAYS within the time rachel  was announced the lead with the intention of hosting parties and become a reality tv personality. His own mother said he's been with so many girls. He's been on another reality tv show  so he knows how to thrive in a similar environment even though it was a long time ago. Also theres been a girl who says he messaged her after coming back from filming and to be fair thats not really that valid. But do y'all not see the red flags here? Do you seriously think bryan is this perfect guy for rachel?  imo there are too many red flags here and moving to LA or cali is another one.

lleyki wrote:She said she felt she was being manipulated and walked away from him.  If she really being so gullible, she would have picked him. Gullible people don't recognize they are being manipulated. JMO And wow, five pages in less than an hour. Posters have a lot of feeling about CA.

teamkristina wrote:and yet she kept him till the very end.... Btw this isn't about who's the driving force behind this. Bryan made his intentions very clear with the trademarking. He is going to go in the entertainment industry imo. However rachel on the other hand has a real passion to go into sports. This has been her dream and she's been consistently into sports for a long time. I can't blame her for doing sports. Bryan on the other hand imo wants to be a reality tv persona. JMO

lleyki wrote:

She said she felt she was being manipulated and walked away from him.  If she was really being so gullible, she would have picked him. Gullible people don't recognize they are being manipulated. JMO. And wow, five pages in less than an hour. Posters have a lot of feeling about CA.

teambigrach wrote:

teamkristina wrote:Okay can we look at the facts here? a 37 year old grown azz man in miami who casually dated a 23 year old girl who performed in pageants and is a "model" and is closer to the age of 18 than 37 before rachel is now suddenly serious?He trade marked his name the ab doctor and dr abs DAYS within the time rachel  was announced the lead with the intention of hosting parties and become a reality tv personality. His own mother said he's been with so many girls. He's been on another reality tv show  so he knows how to thrive in a similar environment even though it was a long time ago. Also theres been a girl who says he messaged her after coming back from filming and to be fair thats not really that valid. But do y'all not see the red flags here? Do you seriously think bryan is this perfect guy for rachel?  imo there are too many red flags here and moving to LA or cali is another one.

Awh boo there are so many holes to this argument that are caused by your biasness/hatred towards bryan for some reason.

Bryan is an adult and has dated women of all ages, yes jubilee is in her 20s but many or most women closer to bryan's age have most likely settled down and are not available.

He trademarked his name and yet has not promoted himself in any way whatsoever even though he has a much larger audience/platform now. Have you seen self promotion? All i've seen from his ig posts and very rare tweets is posts about him, rachel and his family.

He is 37 years old, was single, good looking, wealthy, it shouldn't be surprising that he's dated girls, there's nothing wrong with dating many people in the past. What becomes an issue is how he was as a boyfriend, was he a cheater? Nope. Was he an censored? Nope. All of his exes have nothing but good things to say about him.

He was on one reality show 100 years ago. And hasn't been in the spotlight since. Many people do things in their early 20s that was fun, stupid, and didn't mean anything other than trying something new.

Where is this girl that states he's messaged her? Can you provide proof? Receipts? Or was this another I hate bryan imagination.

What you are missing is all of the things he has done right. He has been patient, caring, kind, mature throughout this whole process and towards rachel. He makes her feel like a queen, is responsible and has his poop together. Rachel is a smart woman, she chose the right man for her and he has proven her right every day since they got engaged.

All jmo.