Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - Discussion - #2

@sfrank sean married his f1 because he was actually looking for a wife unlike past bachelors and sean and catherine especially catherine compromised a lot. False comparison imo

First let  me say I'm a LA girl born and raised so I know it's possible for everyday people to make it. However I also know it's the city of dreams and people can become delusional. Now I'm not saying that's the case here, I'm just saying.

They'll be done in a year. Rachel's fine but bryans not sincere. imo

I don't imagine people who don't want to be famous give up their normal jobs to move to "California" and trademark their names but that's jmo.

I'm blaming every bad decision Rachel makes for the duration of this relationship on Bryan. IMO he sucked the soul out of her with his dementor like kisses. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

teamkristina wrote:i can already see things fading between them. Its just a intuitive feeling i get. JMO

Im guessing this is the same intuitive feeling that some ig commenters have had regarding their "body language" being off.

@teambigrach i havent checked her ig comments yet so idk

teamkristina wrote:They'll be done in a year. Rachel's fine but bryans not sincere. imo

Nah they'll be married in a year, bryan's proven that he's sincere time and again ever since the show wrapped.
jmo

sfrank wrote:

teamkristina wrote:i can already see things fading between them. Its just a intuitive feeling i get. JMO

Are we watching the same footage? Rachel called them The Abasolos on her IG.

Well you know, it was probably the same intuitive feeling that Rachel's shade about fickle Bachelor friendships was obviously because her squad discovered some deep, dark secret about Bryan that she doesn't want to believe.

This thread has had no comments for a day and a half. As soon as I saw that comment about CA in the fan thread, I knew this one would be hopping with activity.

teamkristina wrote:@sfrank sean married his f1 because he was actually looking for a wife unlike past bachelors and sean and catherine especially catherine compromised a lot. False comparison imo

You cant possible know or be in the minds of every Bachelor to say that. It's not a false comparison - people are assuming that they won't make it on basis of them moving to CA because every other couple that has been there did not make it.

I'm saying that there always an exception and a first time for everything. And some times it takes the right person(s) and/or timing for something to work out when it hasn't in the past. Perhaps Rachel and Bryan are committed to their relationship and can make it work. Time will tell.  Im no soothsayer. I'm just saying I don't think the move to CA is the determining factor if they want it to work. JMO

The only way I would find this acceptable is if she's somehow gotten a full time gig with ESPN. And yes, I realize that's super judgemental, sue me. Lol Otherwise, this just seems like a dumb move when there are plenty of other neutral places to move to. JMO

Okay can we look at the facts here? a 37 year old grown azz man in miami who casually dated a 23 year old girl who performed in pageants and is a "model" and is closer to the age of 18 than 37 before rachel is now suddenly serious?He trade marked his name the ab doctor and dr abs DAYS within the time rachel  was announced the lead with the intention of hosting parties and become a reality tv personality. His own mother said he's been with so many girls. He's been on another reality tv show  so he knows how to thrive in a similar environment even though it was a long time ago. Also theres been a girl who says he messaged her after coming back from filming and to be fair thats not really that valid. But do y'all not see the red flags here? Do you seriously think bryan is this perfect guy for rachel?  imo there are too many red flags here and moving to LA or cali is another one.