Peter Kraus - Bachelorette 13 - Discussion - #10

adf23 wrote:This is not a case of Peter vs. ____.  But anyone who has replied has proven my case of why those that don't feel welcome to be active on this board, aren't.

This argument went on with Nick. With Josh. With Andi. With Ben/Lauren. With JoJo/Jordan. With Kaitlin/Shawn. JPG. Des/Chris. Brooks. JEM.
It goes on every season. It will continue to go on in the future. It is the way of message boards.
Each member makes the choice when and where they will read and/or post. No other member is responsible for that. No member should feel shame or intimidation in posting their opinions within the site rules. This is every member's rights.

All of Peter's actions on the show and on SM is why IMO he should stay single for a long, long, long time. Did I mention a looonnnggg time?  No woman should be subjected to his crazy antics. IMO

@quietpal I volunteer as tribute! (jk, I'm married, but the sentiment stands ) 

I nominate @ReneeM 

@bleuberry I accept! . I will subject myself to Peter's "crazy", not for myself, but to save all the other women in the world from it. What can I say, I'm a giver  .

adf23 wrote:This is not a case of Peter vs. ____.  But anyone who has replied has proven my case of why those that don't feel welcome to be active on this board, aren't.

I have been on this board for a long time, including during Emily's season when the opinions were at least equally heated and divided re: Arie vs. Jef. I agree that the consensus is that Peter is not well liked on here, based on sleuthing. I personally like Peter so for the most part I stay out of this thread for my own sanity. But I do feel welcome- it's just wise to chose your battles, IMO. No minds will be changed based on anything I say but I say it anyway somtimes and sometimes not. JMO

IMO, overall there are smart, rational posters on this board who can make a solid argument to support their positions and document their rationales, very well. That's all anyone can ask, IMO. I cannot ask everyone to agree with me or change their views. Just tell me how you feel and why. Tell me why you agree with me or disagree. I've literally changed my view because counter arguments were so well documented and based on new information I did not have when my opinion was initially formed. 

I'm an experienced woman. IMO, I know A LOT about men. IMO, I know who Peter is but, I enjoy reading how successful he is in shaping opinions about himself. That to me is interesting. 

I don't get why people would feel the need to leave this board to find an amen corner but, I respect their right to do so and suspect I'm not missing much as a result. All JMO.

IMO the hate for Peter is actually unwarranted, so I just keep to myself in that regard cause I could careless at this point since everything is always blown out of proportion. IMO There are numerous other contestants that have done really awful things that deserved the amount of hate Peter currently gets, but to each their own. IMO All Peter has basically done stems from his SM likes/comments and for being wishy washy on the show as some may say. If that's how society now reads someone as a vile person then so be it. If I were viewed as a whiny and emotional person with issues just because I have an opinion then that's other people's prerogative not mine. IMO Peter isn't the normal type of Bach alum that just stays quiet on SM to follow along a certain status quo of how to act to keep your followers. I can see why he rubs a lot of people the wrong way in that regard. I'm just going to enjoy following this person on SM cause to me he hasn't done anything for me to unfollow him just yet. I enjoy watching him using his platform for charities and giving his followers a glimpse into his life here and there. JMO

and then there are those, like myself, that can't wait for his name to disappear into oblivion... *poof*

I must have missed something, so please show me the posts where it's stated Peter is the worst person on the face of the planet/on the edge of killing someone/ I Hate Peter?

I don't know him personally. My opinions of him are based on the edited show and mostly, his sm activities, I find him insecure (his fear and uncertainty, name calling from total strangers will hunt him forever), sm manipulative (I am not saying he's a manipulative person, but imo, some of his sm is. Giving f1 clues to his fans when he's not), hypocrite (Bryan is a human with emotions, too. But clearly Peter, his bff, his dad can all throw shade against him).

I am not his fan but I don't hate him. I never wish him ill, never wish him fail in life, unlike his stans who, thankfully not on this board, wish a RnB breakup. None of the contestants or leads gets only love on this board so I don't know why Peter is any different.

The only person that can change my opinion of Peter is Peter himself, and I've praised his good qualities too. But peter probably won't change just because of me, .

All Jmo.

Kolormiblnd wrote:Not only is he responding and deleting posts on his own IG page, now he is responding to comments on an IG page NOT HIS OWN. Who does that?

lool I think quite a few Bach contestants have done this though... Probably just best to ignore and block imo..

ReneeM wrote:@bleuberry I accept! . I will subject myself to Peter's "crazy", not for myself, but to save all the other women in the world from it. What can I say, I'm a giver  .

Well, if you do this, at least I won't have the privilege  of possibly seeing him grace the TV for next Bach season, so win-win.

@quietpal Nah we'll just hatch a plan ala Luke Pell/Matt & Laura (possibly), and I'll go on as a contestant and "serendipitously" end up as F1 .