Vanessa Grimaldi & Josh Wolf - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

Is it possible she will just be collecting what's left of her personal belongings?

I think the personal belongings are all out of their LA apartment. It would be great if they got to see each other, but for Vanessa's sake, I hope we don't know about it and it can be private. I think she is anxious to move on to another phase of her life and anything public with Nick would delay that. Maybe she will spend the week in between shows with Danielle in Nashville.

Weren't she and Danielle going to do a trip south to help hurricane victims?

And my girl's back on freestyle! Really happy to see her doing these again!




I did notice this comment though



I think Vanessa's trying really hard to come off as if she's happy and has moved on, to the point where she comes off obnoxious but it's clear to me that she hasn't. It was just interesting to me how this person noticed the same behaviour in the show where she was getting her hair done (the show she did the day before the breakup was announced)

I thought she looked great. She really is a natural beauty.

I didn't care for the way Vanessa laughed about her relationship with Nick. It was like, yeah, he's a good guy, whatever. The way she acted seemed like Nick didn't mean anything to her. She showed similarities to the other 2 tv ex's. I thought Vanessa would be different. Am I seeing this wrong? All JMO.

Stacia620 wrote:I didn't care for the way Vanessa laughed about her relationship with Nick. It was like, yeah, he's a good guy, whatever. The way she acted seemed like Nick didn't mean anything to her. She showed similarities to the other 2 tv ex's. I thought Vanessa would be different. Am I seeing this wrong? All JMO.

I agree with @chrissy1295 that she is trying too hard to pretend that she has moved on and is happy now (JMO). If I thought she was happy before, after that segment, I truly believe she is still struggling and trying to mask her pain IMO.  

All JMO

Curious, how else is she meant to act in a segment where the makeup artist is meant to be the focus?

This was hardly the environment for her to get all deep and sincere with her feelings about her relationship IMO. She had to make light of the situation so it didn't get awkward.

JMO

chrissy1295 wrote:

I think Vanessa's trying really hard to come off as if she's happy and has moved on, to the point where she comes off obnoxious but it's clear to me that she hasn't. It was just interesting to me how this person noticed the same behaviour in the show where she was getting her hair done (the show she did the day before the breakup was announced)

Maybe she's just annoying? I think she's pretty annoying overall tbh.

ReneeM wrote:

chrissy1295 wrote:

I think Vanessa's trying really hard to come off as if she's happy and has moved on, to the point where she comes off obnoxious but it's clear to me that she hasn't. It was just interesting to me how this person noticed the same behaviour in the show where she was getting her hair done (the show she did the day before the breakup was announced)

Maybe she's just annoying? I think she's pretty annoying overall tbh.

I've seen all the shows and she was particularly extra just in the last two... jmo

I went back and looked at her Instagram pics and tweets ..she's very emotional ...that much is clear. One day she has all the feels...the next he's blocked or she's throwing shade to a degree. The IDGAF attitude will be on the opposite end of the spectrum more than likely too, eventually. I don't think I can draw any conclusions until months pass. It's just too soon, IMO