Vanessa Grimaldi & Josh Wolf - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

sdmom wrote:Is it pathetic that my heart still aches a bit when I see their individual posts? I long for the days when they posted wonderful pictures of them together.

I don't know if I'm just assuming the worst based on the sad relationship quote nick apparently liked, but I am so sad imagining him wandering around la on a Sunday by himself when he could be part of the Montreal Sunday dinner. I understand as a fellow introvert that gathering with inlaws is not exactly easy, especially in the beginning, but I do think he missed out on getting to know good people like Vanessa's family and friends. Hopefully Kyle and his other la friends are all he needs....but I do kinda wanna shake him and say get thee to an airport, you big goose!! I know this is oversimplifying and ignoring whatever temperament differences there are between these two, but a piece of me still hopes against hope that nick will one day go "duh" and do just that, ....I'd reallllllly love to know how they can manage to possibly still be in contact - unless that has finally ended at this point as well. If they are still communicating, oh how I'd live to be privy to the convos, I'm just so curious....

Billysmom wrote:

sdmom wrote:Is it pathetic that my heart still aches a bit when I see their individual posts? I long for the days when they posted wonderful pictures of them together.

I don't know if I'm just assuming the worst based on the sad relationship quote nick apparently liked, but I am so sad imagining him wandering around la on a Sunday by himself when he could be part of the Montreal Sunday dinner. I understand as a fellow introvert that gathering with inlaws is not exactly easy, especially in the beginning, but I do think he missed out on getting to know good people like Vanessa's family and friends. Hopefully Kyle and his other la friends are all he needs....but I do kinda wanna shake him and say get thee to an airport, you big goose!! I know this is oversimplifying and ignoring whatever temperament differences there are between these two, but a piece of me still hopes against hope that nick will one day go "duh" and do just that, ....I'd reallllllly love to know how they can manage to possibly still be in contact - unless that has finally ended at this point as well. If they are still communicating, oh how I'd live to be privy to the convos, I'm just so curious....

You took the words from my mind!

May be my imagination, but it seems they are using Snapchat and both post something at about the same time. Why would Nick post the dinner with the guys?  Why would Vanessa post the Cirque show with her Mom?  I don't think they have either one completely moved on.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BZMePb1DCno/

OMG - Vanessa's latest IG post I think Vanessa wants so badly to get married and have children. Makes me wonder if Nick's hesitancy is what tore them apart.

And to me she looks so much like Julia Roberts in that picture!

Mgrissom wrote:OMG - Vanessa's latest IG post I think Vanessa wants so badly to get married and have children. Makes me wonder if Nick's hesitancy is what tore them apart.

And to me she looks so much like Julia Roberts in that picture!

I personally see no reason to believe that marriage was even a remote factor in their decision to split. Knowing her parent's history and that things weren't always amicable (dual HTD conversation), I don't think Vanessa would be rushing into marriage without making sure that her partner is a good fit for her.

I love her pic with her nephew. Some day she'll make an amazing mother IMO.  

All JMO

Duke is the dog. Nephew's name is Ramos.

happydays wrote:Duke is the dog. Nephew's name is Ramos.

Oops! Thank you!

I feel there is definitely some hidden meaning messages being sent between them. What they are trying to tell each other is the million dollar question.

IMO

Someone on Vanessa's latest Instagram post asked her if she will be doing the Thursday show (I'm assuming the freestyle show). Vanessa replied that she would be doing it this Thursday. Can she do the show from Canada?

I don't see why she can't do it from Montreal. Isn't it a facebook live type of show?

GuardianAngel wrote:I don't see why she can't do it from Montreal. Isn't it a facebook live type of show?

Yes, it's a Facebook live show. I just can't see her flying to California for this.