Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - Discussion

Bryan just can't win. If he were to stay in Miami and make Rachel move to be with him, then everyone would be suspicious that he's not committed enough imo. Since he rented out his condo in Miami, and it seems at this point, may have left his job and career behind to be with Rachel, some are saying he's doing nothing and is just a dog walker for Rachel. It takes time to adapt to a new city, and it's even harder when you move for love and not for a job or family because you have no supports, no job, coworkers or friends to rely on except for your significant other. My husband and I have both done it for each other alternating cities before we were married and after, and it is very stressful and can be alienating.

I commend Bryan for dropping his entire life to follow his heart. It's not easy, but imo, it is worth it in the long run to be with the love of your life.

Tajlena wrote:Bryan just can't win. If he were to stay in Miami and make Rachel move to be with him, then everyone would be suspicious that he's not committed enough imo. Since he rented out his condo in Miami, and it seems at this point, may have left his job and career behind to be with Rachel, some are saying he's doing nothing and is just a dog walker for Rachel. It takes time to adapt to a new city, and it's even harder when you move for love and not for a job or family because you have no supports, no job, coworkers or friends to rely on except for your significant other. My husband and I have both done it for each other alternating cities before we were married and after, and it is very stressful and can be alienating.

I commend Bryan for dropping his entire life to follow his heart. It's not easy, but imo, it is worth it in the long run to be with the love of your life.

PREACH.

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In my experience here, none of the couples or past cast can win for trying.
Everyone wants to live their best life. Right? Raise your hand or better yet you can pm me if you personally want to live less than your best life. I bet no one responds.
This couple IMO is no different than any other before them. They are doing their own thing. The only thing I personally see is they are happy with each other at this point doing it.

@Tajlena. Hear hear 

Bryan sucks (imo). That's my contribution this discussion.

@ReneeM I don't have much of an opinion about him at all, but I'm cynical enough that I'm waiting for his "perfections" to start peeling away.

Cmiiw, Bryan has not clip back or throwing shades on sm? I think that takes a great deal of self control and maturity to do so.

Also, other than the questionable cheesy merchandise which he already pulled away from his bio, and one pic tagging Lord&Taylor, I see no shilling.

He's not perfect and not everyone's cup of tea, and only time will tell, but I don't think he's actively pursuing fame or money at this point.
All Jmo.

@sdmom just wait and see ... i just think IMO that rachels too classy for him

I am at ease with both Bryan and Rachel's choices but can't help feeling slightly anxious that her unsupportive family IMO is so close by. Why couldn't these two move somewhere other than Dallas and Miami? Don't know about them but I would feel a lot better.

All JMO

rachelisqueen wrote:@sdmom just wait and see ... i just think IMO that rachels too classy for him

Only time will tell, really, but the thing is, so far, Rachel is the one who responds back to negativity, but Bryan has been very classy in how he handles sm trolls, IMO

If you need to move away from your family because of a man, that's red flag numero uno, or in Bryan's case probably numero siete at this point IMO

I don't see any red flags with these two.  Maybe it's just me!