Bachelorette 13 - Rachel Lindsay - Episode 10 FRC - Aug 7 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #3

Let the schilling begin: https://vipswag.shop/collections/bryan-abasolo-collection?aff=4&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=instagram&utm_campaign=dr-abs-instagram
Source: bryan IG bio

I do like the goodies. Lol
Especially the R&B one and ,i'm chill until i'm not.

Just Looking wrote: IMO, Rachel cared alot about a few men and I do believe that in this bubble, it is emotional to say goodbye.  I can just imagine that I would be the same.

Yes, she cared a lot about a few men and I would be the same way, I really care for people especially when you start getting to know them and developing relationships with them. The show is really hard to go through.

@Maddy Thanks Maddy, well said and, IMO, it would be good for people to remember this instead of bad mouthing, judging and passing negative comments. After all, we are only here looking at a show, whereas they are actually in it.

BlueStarsShiver wrote:Let the schilling begin: https://vipswag.shop/collections/bryan-abasolo-collection?aff=4&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=instagram&utm_campaign=dr-abs-instagram
Source: bryan IG bio

I'm totally okay with schilling but this is so cringeworthy it's not even funny.

jMO

Imo it's really hard to find the right balance and middle ground as a lead. Nick got called out for not building connections with any of the women, that he was just there. Rachel got called out for getting over emotional with the other guys who were not her F1. It's a short amount of time, you're in a bubble, and get caught up. It's hard to say goodbye. It's easy to say what she should've done and when, viewing from the outside. But caught in the bubble, in her feelings, it's not easy. In the end, she chose the man, who was there for her, wants her, wants the same things she wants, and wants them with her. Jmo

I think those shilling products are so OTT that they're hilarious.

Omg I want "I'm chill until I'm not" on a T shirt though
And they should have put those words against a microwave on the mug Lol

If the love doesn't feel like R and B i don't want it......Loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove it

IMO it doesn't matter what Rachel would have done she was in a lose lose situation. I don't think she did or said anything bitter or petty, she simply agreed with Peters own comments about needing more time, and suggested that maybe this format for finding love wasn't for him. I don't know I feel like SM is just upset she didn't pick Peter and that's were all the criticism is coming from.

I love the I'm Chill until I'm not cup!

Yeah i just don't get Bachelor nation, like Rachel is a professional woman she knows what she wants, and she must chase after a guy who is not ready to commit or not into her. I understand why soo many are still single. She broke her own dating patterns she should be applauded not criticized.

Tracy Macmillan from ready to love said it best
@tracymcmillan I don't think what Rachel has with Peter is more "real love" than what she has with Bryan. I just think we confuse drama with love.
7:29 PM - 7 Aug 2017

@tracymcmillan It took me 3 divorces to be able to do what Rachel's doing now -- stand on my own feet while allowing someone to stay true to themselves.
7:19 PM - 7 Aug 2017

@tracymcmillan You have to go deep! Really understand your own patterns and commit to not living them out. Also, THERAPY.

@tracymcmillan And of course, that's the main skill it takes to be successfully/happily married -- to allow the other person to be them, while you be you.
https://twitter.com/TracyMcMillan

jalkire wrote:IMO it doesn't matter what Rachel would have done she was in a lose lose situation. I don't think she did or said anything bitter or petty, she simply agreed with Peters own comments about needing more time, and suggested that maybe this format for finding love wasn't for him. I don't know I feel like SM is just upset she didn't pick Peter and that's were all the criticism is coming from.

Some dope  called her the  most hated Bachelorette...why because she didn't pick the guy you wanted?!
So pathetic!