Dr. Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

So when are the US fireworks again?

Tomorrow ? If so I hope Bryan posts fireworks or something. Just anything from wherever he is.


With no show this week, another long one for us fans.

nd4reality wrote:So when are the US fireworks again?

Tomorrow ? If so I hope Bryan posts fireworks or something. Just anything from wherever he is.


With no show this week, another long one for us fans.

Tomorrow...I would not be surprised if Rachel and/or Bryan posted something tomorrow for the 4th.

sfrank wrote:

nd4reality wrote:So when are the US fireworks again?

Tomorrow ? If so I hope Bryan posts fireworks or something. Just anything from wherever he is.


With no show this week, another long one for us fans.

Tomorrow...I would not be surprised if Rachel and/or Bryan posted something tomorrow for the 4th.

Most are tomorrow but some cities have been doing their shows since Saturday night.

And my neighborhood nonstop for the last week. They just changed the law here in Iowa and I know many guys that are like kids in a candy store about it.

nd4reality wrote:So when are the US fireworks again?

Tomorrow ? If so I hope Bryan posts fireworks or something. Just anything from wherever he is.


With no show this week, another long one for us fans.

Some places had their fireworks over the weekend... some have them tonight and some are tomorrow night. Just depends on where they might be!

Thanks for the info.


Would give us something to discuss.

sfrank wrote:

nd4reality wrote:So when are the US fireworks again?

Tomorrow ? If so I hope Bryan posts fireworks or something. Just anything from wherever he is.


With no show this week, another long one for us fans.

Tomorrow...I would not be surprised if Rachel and/or Bryan posted something tomorrow for the 4th.

I'm hoping they will post a cooking for 2 photo like many of the other couples did. That would be a nice shout out.

I love love their 1:1 . I have watched it countless times and it makes me smile every time. I can't wait for the next one.
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mindless wrote:

djogbenyuie wrote:i find this moment so cute and funny.
He is so drawn to her!!
This is right before he proper asked for a hug.

What did he see in the window, his own reflection?

guys so far i like bryans relationship with rachel more than peters but there are somethings worth mentioning. After watching Rachels date with nick in the evening portion of her new orleans date, there are certain exact key words that bryan uses in his conversations with Rachel that are definitely more than a coincidence.
1. Rachel talks about her marriage to her parents with nick, Bryan brings his parents marriage up in the Ellen group date.
2. Rachel talks about how it's hard for her to be vulnerable  she literally says " I can't be weak and I can't be vulnerable" and Bryan brings up those EXACT words in his conversation with her in the cocktail party.
3. Rachel literally said "today was a fairytale" and bryan said the same thing in their conversation.
I feel like he studied her and i don't know what to think of it. Thoughts?

The way I see it:
1. It is a pretty usual convo and we don't know the context that was brought up. I might be because Rachel asked him.

2. He can sense that she wasn't letting herself be vulnerable with him IRL (I mean in the show) hence him asking her to be just that. Maybe she even reused those words in another convo with him and we don't know about it. And even if he remembered her convo with Nick, I take it as his relationship with her started before he met her and somehow it is positive that he tried to learn about her and that's why he is already so smitten.
3. Bryan qualities in his bio say he is "charming, affectionate ...". The notion of fairytale makes sense with a guy like that. If he wasn't a romantic at all and was just saying those things I would question his authenticity.

But Bryan don't just talk, he acts on what he says.
He has been her strenght when she was weak (their date), he always focus on her and had said so, he wants a family, babies and you can feel he is a family man. I mean, I don't recall every word but his actions match his words. I don't think it is just a situation of a guy studying a girl because he wants to win a show or whatever.

ImO

rachelisqueen wrote:guys so far i like bryans relationship with rachel more than peters but there are somethings worth mentioning. After watching Rachels date with nick in the evening portion of her new orleans date, there are certain exact key words that bryan uses in his conversations with Rachel that are definitely more than a coincidence.
1. Rachel talks about her marriage to her parents with nick, Bryan brings his parents marriage up in the Ellen group date.
2. Rachel talks about how it's hard for her to be vulnerable  she literally says " I can't be weak and I can't be vulnerable" and Bryan brings up those EXACT words in his conversation with her in the cocktail party.
3. Rachel literally said "today was a fairytale" and bryan said the same thing in their conversation.
I feel like he studied her and i don't know what to think of it. Thoughts?

I've been watching this show for 15 years and someone talking about being  "weak" and "vulnerable" and/or calling the experience a "fairytale" is not unique to Rachel. In fact, it's typical fodder right up there with "here for the right reasons" and "didn't come here to make friends" IMO.  

As for him mentioning his parents marriage, I don't understand why him sharing his parents as his example for everlasting love & committment and them bonding over that common ground is bad thing. I mean should he have not mentioned it?!

@sfrank TA. talking about fairy tales is not unheard of in past seasons. Chris did the same thing. Talking about parents marriage is par the course. Jordan talked about it as he stepped out the limo.
And then using same word as rachel weak was in a completely different context.

About Bryan using scripted stuff, imo if she did not dig any of that those "lines" would have fallen flat as a pancake in a heart beat. And we would see the    in her. She has no poker face and like the kids say, no chill around him. At all. IMO her connection goes beyond lines and catchphrases.