Bachelorette 13 - Rachel Lindsay - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* Discussion - #9

Ladybug82 wrote:@A.j this one in Peter's thread.  

Ok, thanks!

GetUpGirl wrote:

sdmom wrote:Peter got a pass from most people, including me, about his yearbook comment because it's from a long time ago and he's probably joking. Bryan did a show, more than 12 years ago and I think the same of grace should extend to him too. It's loooooong time ago. I'd be more concerned if he did the show 2 years ago. IMO.
My point is only about the show Bryan did, not about the player vibe.

Actions speak louder than words. JMO

Yup and look at what show Peter is on and if F2 potentially in contention for. In this case that cuts both ways. And Brian's actions on the show have been mostly sweet and caring (making sure she was ok, helping her relax, etc.).

nd4reality wrote:IMO I find it ridiculous that because he was on a show called player he is being dubbed as a player.
IMO of course.

I agree.  Bryan seems like a decent dude, actually Rachel has had a decent lot of men this season.  Rachel's a big girl, and has a decent head on her shoulders, I'm sure can whittle through the BS'ers and the guys that are there with good intentions and choose someone that's right for just her, she doesn't need to please the world.   All IMO of course.

IMO, many people were commenting on Bryan and what they perceived as player moves way before someone found "The Player" intro with Bryan in it.

@Max64 it's been a while since I've seen the show but IMO I was surprised by a lot of the men on her season (and not in a good way). I was wondering if this the norm? Despite what Lucas said how there were only two genuine men, I think there were more than that. I'm still unsure about Bryan but from all I know I'm not a fan. Today and yesterday I've all three fairly active on IG.

@nd4reality He was being called a player long before that. The show was confirmation for a lot of people who had already believed that IMO. That aside, I also don't think it's that much of a stretch to think that someone who appeared on a show called "The Player" --which was about using your best player moves to win the heart of a woman who wants to be with a player -- is a player. IMO, that's a very reasonable leap. All jmo.

To Rachel, Fred was a "bad boy'... He seemed pretty sweet to me.

Just because that may have been (key here is may) Bryan's thinking back then doesn't mean that's his thinking now. Maybe he's learned a lot and grown since then. I don't know. I'm not in his head.
I don't see anything he's done so far as being a player. I like that he's been upfront with Rachel from the beginning, which is why she gave him the first-impression rose.
If he is a "player" (which I don't believe), well then I guess I married one, because he was upfront and direct with me. I guess that's what attracted me to him, and I guess that's why Rachel said she was smitten.
IMO

From what I saw in the few episodes he looks like a player but it is because of what he said, it really sounded like player's pick up lines to me. And that's jmo. But I can't wait to see a real interaction between him and Rachel. Plus Rachel seems to love it so that what matters imo.

Bryan told her his age, what he does for work, and said he didn't want to waste her time. How's that being a player? I guess I need to look at the player's manual and study it so I can be prepared since I'm so out of the loop.

^ Lol I was talking about the spanish line, the i'm good with my hand part, the repeat after me in spanish line. again jmo. I feel like the word Player is subjective

Carine wrote:Hmm I actually realized that I liked the more awkward or laidback guys, Ames, JP, Chris S, Chris L, same for the international side as well. So dont think the bad boys would have lasted long for me lool..

Stay away! JP's mine (dont tell my hubby!)