Re: Updates on Past Contestants - All Seasons - Discussion - #3

by **Norcalgal** Sat May 02, 2020 11:21 am

@notarose Another good post. Glad to hear Demi is in therapy. It seems that Dean and Caelynn heal each other as they both have such a naturalness about them now that is real beauty (even though I HATE Dean's hair). Blake - still searching for his terra firma, IMO.

Is it pure chance that these folks ended up being cast? IMO, no. TPTB are always looking for a good story and these really delivered. I think of all the hometown visits I've seen since the very first show, Dean's was the most impactful on me.

by **Sprite** Sun May 03, 2020 3:13 am

Amethyst wrote:Does anyone else get what is going on between Pete Weber and Kelley? Apparently they are "Instagram official" now. Don't get me wrong, she seemed like one of the more obvious choices for him during his season. Despite her flaws, she's smart and mature, and they've had a good spark with each other. But I just don't understand how a lead lets a cast member go outside of the F4 and then undergoes a change of heart later on. Mixing up the F1 and F2, maybe. But this? I certainly wish them well, but a part of me wonders if Pete is still acting like a kid in an ice cream shop, wanting to try all of the flavors.

This belongs in Peter's and Kelly's thread. I have moved it. Please carry on any further discussions there.

https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/t5608p252-peter-weber-kelley-flanagan-bachelor-24-discussion#1459256

by Minney Sun May 03, 2020 8:26 am

notarose wrote:
Minney wrote:Her awareness to how her early life has affected her is at least hopeful for a healthy future but honestly she's the last person who should get involved with anything TB related. She should have gone to therapy instead of the mansion. She's been better at accessing and narrating other contestants situations than her own. All the attention and fame will not make her happy if she doesn't do the work to overcome her $hitty start in life.
Late last year Demi tweeted she had begun therapy.
IMO Demi is another example of how the show casts “stories“. Demi - off & on jailbird mom and the social ostracism of her child experience because of it; Dean - watching his bff die plus very odd family dynamic and mother’s death; Caelynn - drugged and r*ped; Blake - child of divorce in a small community plus school shooting situation. All of these are traumatic situations outside the norm but part of each individual’s life experience. Each did “choose to be on the show” but I think tptb salivates when someone like this signs up and sees them more as a case study than a person. IMO tptb likes to cast wounded peeps because they bank on them having unresolved issues which potentially make for drama in the ways they might react within the social experiment of the show.
I’m not a fan of Demi however I’m empathetic toward her $hitty childhood experiences. From what she said on AF there is a lot that needs resolving and as you said it will take work to overcome.

I'm empathetic to Demi and others you've listed as well. My point was that I wish these contestants had enough awareness to not go on a TV show at all but into therapy and get the help they need. I agree that producers cast them for a reason and it is to exploit their personalities and behavior for good tv. It must be extremely hurtful for them when they do open up and share personal info only to have media and "fans" twist it or make fun of it. They also end up hurting many other cast members in the process, and not just the typical hurt of not receiving a rose, but teasing and bullying and behaviors that producers manipulate. I work in youth and mental health and it truly hurts me when I see new characters come on these shows with the promise and lure of bright lights knowing that their broken story is going to be exposed and used against them and that the process of awareness and getting help will be very public for such personal issues. Luckily most contestants are the typical variety of fame and experience seekers and are more resilient and have healthy ways to deal with the ups and downs of public life.

by bluwavz Thu May 07, 2020 11:49 am

https://youtu.be/B7nW4gG0eJE

by bluwavz Thu May 07, 2020 11:54 am

Welp, it’s pretttyyyy clear that #BachelorNation's Demi Burnett wouldn’t jump a fence for #TheBachelor alum Colton Underwood. ‍� https://t.co/KKALLh2DGn
— Us Weekly (@usweekly) May 7, 2020

https://twitter.com/usweekly/status/1258423369982193664?s=20

by **GuardianAngel** Thu May 07, 2020 6:43 pm

bluwavz wrote:

https://youtu.be/B7nW4gG0eJE

This was actually fun to watch. Carly Evan, Arie Lauren, Jason Kaitlyn, Sean and Catherine.

by bluwavz Fri May 08, 2020 11:37 am

#BachelorNation's Michelle Money just shared a video of daughter Brielle thanking the nurses that saved her — and it's everything. Watch: https://t.co/setTjCDIU5
— Us Weekly (@usweekly) May 8, 2020

https://twitter.com/usweekly/status/1258782466367684608?s=20

by **GuardianAngel** Fri May 08, 2020 1:49 pm

What an amazing story with the best ending a anyone could hope for. She truly is a fighter. I wish her many years of good health.

by just me Sat May 09, 2020 2:35 pm

https://people.com/tv/bip-star-demi-burnett-says-her-relationship-with-boyfriend-slater-davis-is-stronger-than-ever/ I had not even heard of this.

by **GuardianAngel** Wed May 20, 2020 6:21 pm

Maddy wrote:
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by **GuardianAngel** Wed May 20, 2020 6:32 pm

https://www.instagram.com/p/B-GKMdAjuE_/

by **Norcalgal** Fri May 22, 2020 12:27 am

@GuardianAngel Kiptyn and,soon Ed, as dads is mind-blowing! Who would have thought these two Romeo's would be so great at it? Well - Ed is still unproven but seeing him as a hubby gives me hope!

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