Becca Tilly & Hayley Kiyoko - Bachelor 19-20 - Discussion

I really liked Becca on Chris' season, but something happened to her post-show.  She became someone else.  I still don't know the 'real' Becca.

I wonder why Becca randomly decided to follow Kevin P. from
Jasmine's Bachelorette Canada season? (Not sure when this happened, I just noticed now )





Source: my screenshots of @kevindexter IG

Maybe they'll both be on Winter Games?

mindless wrote:Maybe they'll both be on Winter Games?

Oh, I hope he is on it and pairs up with Jasmine again and stays away from Becca.

Oh good. IIRC he's a deck hand, maybe they can sail off into the sunset.

Wasn't he kind of messed up?  I think he got into modelling after the show. Just going by memory. I can't see these two together if he's the same person he was on 'ette Canada. IMHO.

If he's going to be on the Winter Games, does that mean Becca will too? Are they already plotting?

i personally liked Becca a whole lot more before she started hanging with Ashley.

Both Becca and Ashley I. need to go away and fade back into obscurity because I'm tired of seeing their faces. Ashley I. is a Stage-5 clinger who I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy, and Becca is a boring, bland user. How much longer are they going to try and stay in the spotlight?

GuardianAngel wrote:Oh good. IIRC he's a deck hand, maybe they can sail off into the sunset.

Wasn't he kind of messed up?  I think he got into modelling after the show. Just going by memory. I can't see these two together if he's the same person he was on 'ette Canada. IMHO.

If he's going to be on the Winter Games, does that mean Becca will too? Are they already plotting?

I believe he was a model and quit doing that to become a deckhand (I think I read this on his blog, which is in his archived thread/in the screenshot I post up thread if anyone's interested - I really liked it personally). From what I can recall he had some issues with parental relationships because one parent passed away and he was kind of estranged from the other (I would have rewatch his date to confirm). So basically a cross between Peter and Dean But IMO minus the push-pull of Peter and the fboyness of Dean since he was IMO straightforward with Jasmine about his mindset of still being a free spirit wandering the world & looking for a partner to adventure with him (whereas Jasmine was a free spirit looking to settle gown). IMO I wouldn't say he's necessarily "messed up" but he's kind of IMO low-key and still searching - I wouldn't really peg him as one who is all in on settling down.

It's weird because I recall him following Caila and Olivia (maybe also Sharleen and a few others) on IG at one point but he's since unfollowed for whatever reason. That's why it was kind of random to me to see Becca following him I think they might be compatible in the aspect that neither appear to want to settle down so maybe they can just travel together and have a fun casual relationship.

I think I would enjoy seeing both of them on Winter Games

Becca should take her distance from Bachelor people now.
She had great opportunities and has been enjoying an easy life. Good for her! But she’s been riding this train long enough now and she should step off and get back to real life. She’s starting to lose herself and lose what made her so attractive in the first place (literally and figuratively speaking). All IMO of course.

Every now and then I venture on to Becca's page because it's like passing a car wreck. Not because the wreck is fascinating but it's enough to make you slow now and watch.

I'd hope that Kevin would stay away from Becca. I could see why she'd follow him though. He's pretty attractive imo.

I don't see why Becca should get back to "real life" as long as she's making a living off everything she's doing now. It's not like she left a legit career behind, she was a college dropout working as a chiropractor's assistant. Her podcast seems to be doing fairly well so far and I hope she sticks with it, since I enjoy listening to her and think talking and interviewing people might just be her thing, unlike blogging which clearly isn't. I also like that her podcast isn't about the Bachelor and has a variety of guests, though I do wonder how many Bachelor fans will stick with a non-Bachelor related podcast. JMO. Keep hustling, Becca!