Becca Tilly & Hayley Kiyoko - Bachelor 19-20 - Discussion

Aria wrote:This is adorable. I'm so happy that she's happy.

Me too!

mindless wrote:Ugh, my heart! Happy birthday to Becca!


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@mindless thank you for your posts! This is too adorable. Happy Birthday to Becca and glad to see Becca happy 

Becca does seem really happy these days. Mark (the producer) asked her on the podcast how she feels about turning 30 since it's a hard birthday for a lot of people, and she said that she's actually super excited because she's in a really happy and good place right now. Apparently she had those feelings of "am I where I envisioned myself to be?" a few years ago and she's learned that "sometimes things aren't all you expect and what you write down for them to be". Indeed.

She's in Maui right now with all her closest friends and they brought back their (manly) Halloween characters from last year. What's funny is that they did an IG live of themselves getting ready last night and at one point Gal Gadot commented with the laughing crying face. Why was Wonder Woman watching Becca draw on leg hair? It was definitely her account too since it had the tick mark.

Ben was on Becca's podcast this week and he brought up the fact that they'd talked before his season, which they've never admitted to before. Apparently there were a couple of phone calls and some texting, but Ben said Becca asked him if he thought it was worth her giving it a shot and he said yes and asked her to come on the show. At this point Ben knew he was the Bachelor and Becca had been approached by producers about coming on. Ben said he didn't want to put Becca through the show again if it wasn't worth it, but he knew he was interested so there was no other option than for her to go on the show. I still remember all the Becca bashing when RS reported that Ben had told Becca not to come on and she did it anyway. Unsurprisingly, it was the opposite. Gotta love that guy and his inaccurate BS. Anyhow, Ben said he still has Becca on her phone as "Virginia Till". He didn't even remember why it was Virginia until Becca was like "It's because I was a virgin!".

They also discussed the waterfall boner promo. Becca asked Ben who the best kisser was on his season, herself excluded. Ben then decided to exclude Lauren as well "out of respect" and said JoJo, because they had a lot of chemistry. Becca was like "Well yeah, we saw that" and Ben immediately knew what she was referring to. Tanya didn't so they Googled pictures and were studying them. But Ben said he's never talked about it with anyone so he was glad to get it off his chest, since he was pretty embarrassed at the time.

mindless wrote:Ben was on Becca's podcast this week and he brought up the fact that they'd talked before his season, which they've never admitted to before. Apparently there were a couple of phone calls and some texting, but Ben said Becca asked him if he thought it was worth her giving it a shot and he said yes and asked her to come on the show. At this point Ben knew he was the Bachelor and Becca had been approached by producers about coming on. Ben said he didn't want to put Becca through the show again if it wasn't worth it, but he knew he was interested so there was no other option than for her to go on the show. I still remember all the Becca bashing when RS reported that Ben had told Becca not to come on and she did it anyway. Unsurprisingly, it was the opposite. Gotta love that guy and his inaccurate BS. Anyhow, Ben said he still has Becca on her phone as "Virginia Till". He didn't even remember why it was Virginia until Becca was like "It's because I was a virgin!".

They also discussed the waterfall boner promo. Becca asked Ben who the best kisser was on his season, herself excluded. Ben then decided to exclude Lauren as well "out of respect" and said JoJo, because they had a lot of chemistry. Becca was like "Well yeah, we saw that" and Ben immediately knew what she was referring to. Tanya didn't so they Googled pictures and were studying them. But Ben said he's never talked about it with anyone so he was glad to get it off his chest, since he was pretty embarrassed at the time.

^ Was that an open statement by Becca that she is no longer a virgin?!!  

I'm curious, because I don't follow them, but do comments like this bring out the Ben/JoJo shippers in her comments, it his comments?

@Cocoasneeze No not really. It’s going to be 4 years people have moved on and realize Jordan is way better for her. Lots of people want Ben and Becca to date though

@aviej I don't think so, at least not an intentional one. She was just talking about something that happened in the past, back when her virginity was like her one defining characteristic (thanks to the show). I can't even remember the last time she's talked about it, so she probably just wants to keep that part of her life private. JMO.

Second unflattering picture Jo has posted of her bestie boo on Insta. Almost fighting words/actions! Or maybe this is just what Becca looks like now?

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bp51YiTBlT1/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=18tjm9nzfw1xu

She looks like the cat lady more and more.

I thought the pic Becca posted herself was more unflattering. But it's clearly just a bad makeup choice, her highlighter doesn't work with flash. She looks perfectly normal in their backstage videos from today. Anyway, I thought it was sweet how JoJo stuck up for her in the comments. People are so rude. JMO.
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Becca and Tanya won the People's Choice Award!!! I am SO proud! (And take some of the credit since I was voting for them. ) They looked gorgeous last night.


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