Becca Tilly & Hayley Kiyoko - Bachelor 19-20 - Discussion

@mindless sorry, I deleted my post to put in some more detail, but didn’t repost it in time before you responded

I asked my friend if she saw her with Hayley, but she said no. I guess that makes sense since Hayley was a surprise guest. She said Becca was having a great time and that Becca was with another girl that my friend didn’t recognize. They got to move from one side of the stage (where my friend was sitting) over to another side at one point, but they eventually came back.

Just saw Becca’s snaps and Tswift’s instas and this thread and this all made sense  wow!!! So awesome for Becca for so many reasons!! Not the least of which is the Taylor show is f$$@ AMAZINGGG, excuse my French

@Alanna I’m going tomorrow night, super excited! My friend won the tickets to last night’s show through her job and she brought her younger sister, which is understandable would have been funny seeing Becca though.

Gillette Stadium is a great place and the first stadium she ever did years ago, so I figured maybe Becca was with Tanya or something and my friend texted me and goes “she brought out Hayley Kiyoko as a surprise guest!” Then it hit me like ohhhhh, makes sense

Ash2214 wrote:@Alanna I’m going tomorrow night, super excited! My friend won the tickets to last night’s show through her job and she brought her younger sister, which is understandable would have been funny seeing Becca though.

Gillette Stadium is a great place and the first stadium she ever did years ago, so I figured maybe Becca was with Tanya or something and my friend texted me and goes “she brought out Hayley Kiyoko as a surprise guest!” Then it hit me like ohhhhh, makes sense

Awesome!! You’re going to have the best time ever!! It’s amazing and she does such a fabulous job. Have so much fun!

Aria wrote:snipped

Hayley/Becca's relationship (it's confirmed now, right?) seems adorable!

Has it been confirmed publicly? TYIA

I don't think it has been confirmed publicly.

No it hasn't. Anyways, Becca only came back home today, so seems she spent a few days with Hayley on tour, again.

The first 10 minutes of Becca's podcast were pretty interesting this week. I feel like they may or may not have been alluding to what's been speculated. Becca admitted she's been going through some things and that if it seems like she hasn't been as open about her life lately, it's because right now she wants to and feels that it's important to keep some things private, for multiple reasons. The way Tanya kept referring to it as "this season" of Becca's life, and told her she wants her to know everyone loves her and just wants her to be happy, kind of fits. And some things Becca said she's learning lately made it sound like she's in a relationship. JMO. Of course there could be something else going on as well.


Oh, here's an interview from last weekend: https://people.com/tv/bachelor-becca-tilley-dating-again/

I just listed to her podcast this week and am very curious about what is going on with her. If she needs time/space I am glad she is taking it....but I still want to know what is up!!

I too listened to her podcast. There’s definitely something going on since she was emotional. I don’t have Facebook so I (unfortunately) am not part of the Facebook group chat. I don’t know what has been talked about, but since they mentioned the members being supportive, and Becca not being ready to share her personal life, at least yet, I am guessing she is figuring out a possible lesbian relationship. That’s totally a guess and wild speculation of mine, but quite a few elements lately have been pointing in this direction.
She may need time to test whether it’s something she really wants before making it official.
I am also wondering what happened with Tanya during the weekend and if the Instagram photo with Dean (later removed) has something to do with it.
It does look like Becca has been having a not so good time lately.IMO.

I also think something happen between her and Hailey. In recent interview, Hailey also say that she is dating someone. Both of them say they are in a relationships at the same time

Pirouette wrote:I too listened to her podcast. There’s definitely something going on since she was emotional. I don’t have Facebook so I (unfortunately) am not part of the Facebook group chat. I don’t know what has been talked about, but since they mentioned the members being supportive, and Becca not being ready to share her personal life, at least yet, I am guessing she is figuring out a possible lesbian relationship. That’s totally a guess and wild speculation of mine, but quite a few elements lately have been pointing in this direction.
She may need time to test whether it’s something she really wants before making it official.
I am also wondering what happened with Tanya during the weekend and if the Instagram photo with Dean (later removed) has something to do with it.
It does look like Becca has been having a not so good time lately.IMO.

I actually had the same thought about the Dean pic, since the timing fits. It was a bit touchy and generated a lot of "You guys should date!" comments, as per usual, and then she deleted it after a few hours. I thought back then maybe whoever she's dating wasn't happy about it, and if that's the case, I can see Tanya siding with them. Becca said something afterwards about learning to take other people's feelings into consideration and to not dismiss them just because she herself wouldn't react that way. Could be something else entirely though, since he's keeping everything so private these days.