Peter Kraus - Bachelorette 13 - **Sleuthing Spoilers** - #3

IMHO Peter said he send the selfie to a girlfriend.

And if the first spoiler isn't true and the second is, it could be a part of why he wasn't her chosen one, IMO.

I'm 26 and my peers and I think sending nudes and admitting to doing it is no biggie.

ReneeM wrote:Sending nudes to your significant other isn't putting it on the internet. & if you get it from the right angle, no one will ever even know it's you

I can't begin to think how many people sending nudes to someone thinking it was only going to be seen by one person, was then seen by that persons bestie or after break up was seen by others and others It's talked about all the time. And then there is Elliot Spitzer.

Cila51290 wrote:I'm 26 and my peers and I think sending nudes and admitting to doing it is no biggie.

& guys are a lot more willing than girls! In my experience sending nudes is a bigger deal to women than it is to men. They just be out here ready to whip it out at all times

Yeah, I'm sorry, but once that nude is sent, a few people are seeing it IMO . Okay but back to Peter, I'm still rooting for him, but that answer wasn't my favorite.

Bach/ette wrote:@Lara She liked it enough to bring him to the final 2, likely getting engaged to him . If being too respectful is the biggest mark against the guy, sign me up! All JMO

In the long run, none of it matters. I don't think she liked the sloppy seconds comment, but she brought Byron to final two and possibly/probably got engaged to him. It's just a piece of the puzzle to help us understand what her dynamics with these men were. One of the things we've heard Rachel say repeatedly post-filming is how confident she is that her man really, really loves her. It's one of the reasons I'm still leaning towards Bryan because I've seen Bryan show her how he's into her, whereas with Peter, you gotta search for it and you have to hope he's just being nervous or respectful when there are signs that he isn't, IMO. I think those little things could end up being a huge deal to Rachel. Or maybe not. It's all part of watching the show!

@Ladybug82 On the same date, we got "sloppy seconds" and a potentially questionable response to a question in a game. Both men made it to the F2. I struggle to believe when deciding who she was going to marry, Rachel thought back to that one date on the Ellen show. All JMO.

ReneeM wrote:

Cila51290 wrote:I'm 26 and my peers and I think sending nudes and admitting to doing it is no biggie.

& guys are a lot more willing than girls! In my experience sending nudes is a bigger deal to women than it is to men. They just be out here ready to whip it out at all times

Yes, so we could very well be speaking a different language of generations.
To me, that would be a big deal. It's private.

Did Peter do anything differently SM wise once the whole Bryan is F1 news came out? Just trying to watch the feet and actions. Any likes?

Cila51290 wrote:Sharleen likes Bryan, IMO. When she sticks to someone she'll compliment them forever. She's been iffy about Peter since day one, IMO.

She was pretty nice about him last ep and she was even asked about Peter not being interested in Rachel during their 1on1 and she brushed it off. I think his answer did give some people pause imo.

Ditto, in my experience. It must be expectations from contestants on this show, but irl, how Peter is acting seems very typical for many millennial guys. IMO. Lots of guys don't boldly initiate. Lots of guys will try to be "gentlemanly" at first, especially if they are interested. Again, based on experience, for a 31 year old man, Peter's actions seem consistent.

Back to Rachel, what is she willing to put up with, and what will she find to be deal breakers for her?