Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - BIP - Discussion 2

stuckinsc wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:I don't follow Josh on any form on social media, but it seems like he's been relatively quiet on the Amanda front. Crazy to think his freaking mommy is still going on about it though. Crazy woman IMO

MM has gone full on whackadoodle.  But why the heck is Amanda responding?  Block crazy mommy and move on with your cute kids and new Ken doll.  

I am sure that it is hard for Amanda to block MM because she uses different user names each time.

whit90 wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:I don't follow Josh on any form on social media, but it seems like he's been relatively quiet on the Amanda front. Crazy to think his freaking mommy is still going on about it though. Crazy woman IMO

MM has gone full on whackadoodle.  But why the heck is Amanda responding?  Block crazy mommy and move on with your cute kids and new Ken doll.  

I am sure that it is hard for Amanda to block MM because she uses different user names each time.

Then just don't respond. I am in no way defending MM. I just think Amanda is not helping herself responding. It will just feed MM's obsession and won't stop her. JMO.

Wow! Just going by her IG, she is so cute and vivacious. And she apparently loves dogs. Josh would be super lucky to have her. jmo

@stuckinsc agreed, plus Amanda doesn't have MM's actual account blocked either. That's what MM used today to joke about that picture of Amanda kissing the guys. Amanda responded to her actual account.

There are two women who have come forward saying, that Josh is emotionally manipulative and emotionally abusive and volatile. Any woman getting together with him Imo is not that bright. He's the only Bach contestants I absolutely hate, and I don't know him. Imo Just him getting away with his abuse and not getting shunned is sickening. Jmo

While I don't deny there's some major issues with MM, Josh's pattern of controlling, abusive (IMO) behavior is all on him.

To any woman thinking of dating Josh my only response is: RUN away as fast as you can!!!

I think people can grow and change too but grow out of being abisive? I don't know.

And that growth doesn't happen in a few months time, from which you've spent majority of slagging the victim of your abuse online. You need therapy, to realise your abuse, and make real effort to stop it. And stop your mother from bullying your victim too. Jmo

In my line of work, I've seen people with abusive tendencies/behavior change. I've seen children/young adults become a product of their environment (much like Josh has IMO) when they witness or experience abusive behavior.

There are many, many reasons as to why people can grow and change out of bad and sometimes horrible behavior. Sometimes it's medication. Sometimes it's therapy. Sometimes it's an escape from the environment that created them into who they are. It's a process.

It's possible, but I'm not sure what steps Josh has taken so far to better himself. I hope for all involved he has tried to change and is getting help and perhaps this new woman is willing to go through that with him. Good luck to all involved. All JMO

Unless Josh goes to extensive therapy, I personally don't think there is much hope for him when it comes to relationships. He is a 30+ year old man and IMO some of those emotionally abusive tendencies are ingrained in him to the point that it's going to be very hard to change without external help. He still exhibits zero self awareness when it comes to his issues IMO. Look at any of his recent interviews where he is still blaming the women or the tweet two nights back. Good luck to the woman he is dating. She is going to need it IMO.

All JMO

His new girl looks likable and normal. Maybe she hasn't been following the Bachelor world and he's been Mr. Ripley-ing her into thinking he's a nice guy

I saw this on reddit: https://twitter.com/joshallanmurray/status/887376709078724608

Anyone know if he's actually telling his mom to stop or is it just the wording and he's referring to someone else? Looks like her Twitter is private now, so I can't check what he was responding to exactly. If he did tell her off, then that's a big step in the right direction!