Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #7

I think it's good, that they take their trips at the same time. It doesn't take time away from them together. JMO.

I don't understand lauren and Ben relationship set up to be honest jmo

They were with Vinny as well and Vinny posted a snap of his "artist guest" pass so I am thinking he is friends with Chris Lane as well?

I really don't see it as Lauren B hoeing around.. just acting like a "21 year old" who drank too much. Now, I do think it was Jen and Lauren Barr being the hoes with Chris Lane and crew. One of them posted snaps of them riding in a pedi cab with Chris Lane. I am sure one of them (at least) was all over Chris. Chris is kind of sketchy.. like he seeks out bachelor people because he posted a pic with Jojo and Becca awhile ago.

It's one thing to travel a lot because your job as a flight attendant requires you to. Lauren does it now imo, to stay away from Denver life and enjoy Bachelor perks while it lasts to party like her 21 year old self. I don't see her sister or her Cali friends documenting their nightlife or party time. She should stick to her OG friends. We're basically the same age and I just don't see any of my girlfriends doing this. We take girl trips but they are never that OTT and attention seeking. Jmo

I agree^ OTT attention seekers completely!!!!

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Mehhhh wrote:They were with Vinny as well and Vinny posted a snap of his "artist guest" pass so I am thinking he is friends with Chris Lane as well?

I really don't see it as Lauren B hoeing around.. just acting like a "21 year old" who drank too much. Now, I do think it was Jen and Lauren Barr being the hoes with Chris Lane and crew. One of them posted snaps of them riding in a pedi cab with Chris Lane. I am sure one of them (at least) was all over Chris. Chris is kind of sketchy.. like he seeks out bachelor people because he posted a pic with Jojo and Becca awhile ago.

I know it's not their thread but I feel like defending them here. Jen and Lauren Barr are both single (from what I read here) IMO. What they chose to do is their personal business and I don't think it qualifies as 'being the hoes' just coz they might have seemed flirty with Chris Lane and crew IMO. Not a good look, maybe but sl*t-shaming is taking it too far IMO.

All JMO

Glad to hear insight to Ben and Lauren's life from someone who knows them! I bet it's been a huge adjustment for Lauren, moving to Denver and changing jobs. If she had to give up everything on top of her job and moving, imo it would be too much. If she uses the time Ben travels for work to quincy her own travel thirst, good on her. Jmo

BTW, I don't think anyone was hiding around, not Lauren or the other ladies. Jmo

There is a fan forum for fans that do not want to read negative or anything less than 100% positive, loving posts.  

Ben and Lauren Fan Thread

I'm sure its not easy to read negative about you all over the internet and SM from people that do not know you.  But by going on the Bach/Etta show, keeping SM public, and then doing another show, they opened themselves up to it.  Not saying its all right or fair, but if you want to interact with fans, like the attention, shill on SM or your blog, and want to continue to have the opportunities, then you have to learn to take the good with the bad, develop a thicker skin and ignore a lot.

One can always make SM private, limit what you post, turn off comments, etc.  You can't have it all, there has to be some give and take, IMO.  So if you want the attention, fame, etc., there's a price you have to pay.  (and all you's are general you, not anyone specific)

JMO.

The more private you are about your life the less hate you get, IMO. You can't have the "public life" and expect roses and unicorns from everyone. Sure, it's tough but anyone can literally just not post on SM and just live a normal life off SM. jmo

Speculations will always happen with anyone that's from this franchise. The difference is that I do think it happens less with couples that are more private. jmo

Imo it's easy to just say, that don't go to sm etc, but after giving up her job, Lauren started blogging, and that job Imo combines many things she loves (traveling, fashion, decorating etc) and it'd be sad if she had to give up that too, in order to run away from negativity. Girl has to be able to keep something of hers, and not give up and give up more. Jmo.