Dmitry Cherkasov - Bachelor Ukraine - Discussion

OK...one more.can you summarize the video messages?

and the summary of parents' opinion on each girl?

Ok guys I am gonna try to summarize everything what happened you need to be patient I am gonna do it step by step.

natik wrote:Ok guys I am gonna try to summarize everything what happened you need to be patient I am gonna do it step by step.l

No worries Natik. When you can. We were just posting out questions as we go along. Big thanks to you.

iamreal2u wrote:

natik wrote:Ok guys I am gonna try to summarize everything what happened you need to be patient I am gonna do it step by step.l

No worries Natik. When you can.  We were just posting out questions as we go along.  Big thanks to you.

Sorry Answer what you can!

So about their talk while trying to choose a kitchen. Dima saw that something is wrong with Lida. He asked what is wrong with her? She answered that it`s scary to her because she thinks you need to build and work on an relationship step by step and she feels like he is rushing and she is not even his girlfriend now. So if she is going to be his girlfriend she thinks they need to take it slow.

^^i think Lida is the most sensible.

He said that he understands and that it shows to him that she is taking it serious.

The man with Dima`s parents is his uncle. So they met his parents and Lida brought a symbolic gift and said that in the Greek mythology the flower is a sign of comfort and peace in the family. So she is wishing that for Dima`s family by bringing this flower as a gift. The parents liked her.
But his Mum scared her again off. She asked her if Lida is ready to cook for Dima six meals a day and to bring sacrifices. Lida was shocked about that. She said to her she doesn`t think that a woman should make sacrifices to a man. She thinks that if two people love each other that they find a way to make things work regarding cooking and all the other all day problems. Dima`s mother said that she liked her answers that she is honest and she feels that if there is going to be a right man by Lida`s side that she is going to be interested to learn how to cook.

His Dad liked her a lot. They were making jokes he asked her about past relationships and she was joking that she was not married and does not have kids and that she was not in a prison or something. His Dad said that Lida is not that girl who lives in a fantasy world with rosa glasses on. She is smart and she is realistic and that he likes that about her.
Dima and the rest of his family heard them laughing and it surprised him in a good way because it seems like his father and Lida understood each other immediately.
Later Lida thanked his parents for the warm welcome and that she had no doubts that Dima have great parents because he is a great guy.

Ok after the meeting Dima said that he thinks it went pretty perfect except the kitchen thing. So we have a situation here where the lead is all in but the girl is struggling. Because Lida said after the meeting that she lost her rosa glasses and is kinda shocked after that meeting.

natik wrote:Ok after the meeting Dima said that he thinks it went pretty perfect except the kitchen thing. So we have a situation here where the lead is all in but the girl is struggling. Because Lida said after the meeting that she lost her rosa glasses and is kinda shocked after that meeting.

Maybe now she sees him in the real world

About Dima`s talk with the parents. His parents were pretty diplomatic they said that every girl has her positive and negative sides and that he needs to decide with his heart.

Stella good side: It looks like she is ready to start a family and she can cook.

Stella bad side: No education and no direction in professional life.

Yulia good side: She has experience in a relationship and lived already with a man.

Yulia bad side: She is close to her ex and it looks like they are prefect for each other and it could be that there is no place for Dima there.

Lida good side: She is smart has two educations and she knows what she wants in life.

Lida bad side: Maybe not ready for a serious relationship because she is young and wants maybe to work on a career first.

thanks Natik