Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

All these magazines, websites, etc, is on chaos mode. Maybe most of them are going back and fourth, everything about Ben and Lauren is like "what-the-heck?!" to them.

Wait so this is for a media thing too? Not just playing together? Wtf?

Weren't they spotted together a few days ago? Arent they living under the same roof? Not trying to be sarcastic but it seems if they aren't documenting their private time on SM it is assumed that it's not happening. JMO.

IMO , Ben was invited in this event because JJ has twettted couple of times mentioning Ben and Brandon but never was mention of Lauren. Maybe she tagged along to spend time with benny boo.She was on regular outfit and Ben and Brandon playing was mainly captured by the Camera.

BlackHalo wrote:Weren't they spotted together a few days ago? Arent they living under the same roof? Not trying to be sarcastic but it seems if they aren't documenting their private time on SM it is assumed that it's not happening. JMO.

Not only living under the same roof, but a small roof at that. A very small roof. IMO. Things may not be happy rainbows, but if I were not happy a small roof would be dangerous.

These two are all about sharing and oversharing, IMO.  So, IMO, if they haven't shared, it may not have actually happened.  Sad to say, but...  As far as living under the same roof, they haven't been home at the same time to have to worry about it.  Its appears to have been more of a community, my turn, your turn space than a shared space lately, IMO.

JMO

BlackHalo wrote:Weren't they spotted together a few days ago? Arent they living under the same roof? Not trying to be sarcastic but it seems if they aren't documenting their private time on SM it is assumed that it's not happening. JMO.

But if they posted when it was just them having down time, people would tell them to put their phones down. IMO, there's such a double standard when it comes to criticizing and analyzing these two. Lauren barely posted a couple videos from the rink, and Ben retweeted including one video making fun of not being able to skate. Hardly whoring it out for the media, IMO. They may not be a popular couple on here, but they have plenty of friends and general fans on social media. JMO.

BlackHalo wrote:Weren't they spotted together a few days ago? Arent they living under the same roof? Not trying to be sarcastic but it seems if they aren't documenting their private time on SM it is assumed that it's not happening. JMO.

I don't think the lack of evidence would be a problem if there weren't so much proof of them being apart. JMO.

Ladybug82 wrote:These two are all about sharing and oversharing, IMO.  So, IMO, if they haven't shared, it may not have actually happened.  Sad to say, but...  As far as living under the same roof, they haven't been home at the same time to have to worry about it.  Its appears to have been more of a community, my turn, your turn space than a shared space lately, IMO.

JMO

Whatever the case Lauren made the decision to go back to what is technically Ben's home (assuming they broke up).

We have no way of knowing they haven't crossed paths at their own home. JMO.

Patiently waiting for these two to get back on track. I don't believe the break up rumors.

mindless wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:Weren't they spotted together a few days ago? Arent they living under the same roof? Not trying to be sarcastic but it seems if they aren't documenting their private time on SM it is assumed that it's not happening. JMO.

I don't think the lack of evidence would be a problem if there weren't so much proof of them being apart. JMO.

Yup, exactly this. It made me laugh when Ben talked about their lack of social media presence. This isn't all about social media. It's the fact that they're barely together. That's number one and then the social media stuff comes next. Lauren's IG stories and snaps of her looking sad while singing along to sad lyrics makes me laugh.

@mindless exactly.

And @BlackHalo that's both true and untrue.  We can put together a time line showing they have indeed not been home T the same time, one returns while the others away, until the last few days based on sightings and their own SM usage.  Now as for the last few days since they've both been in Denver, who knows.  I hope for their sake they figure out what they want in a relationship and life and decide if it's something they can achieve together.  If so, then I wish them well.  If not, move on and don't continue to drag it out.  

I used to like them more than I currently do. But I'd never wish them or anyone else from this silly show any ill will.  Life's to short and frankly I don't care what they do or not don't do.  They're the ones that have to live with their choices.  JMOAA