Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

Kashathediva wrote:@AllAboutLove
I always say better to happy and alone than with someone and miserable. GMTA.

Well said and ITA

Just a random question/thought , if they had to date from bachelor franchise after their breakup , who do you think they would be Bette match with ??

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:Here's the snap of Lauren listening to the song. She posted it about an hour ago.

https://instagram.com/p/BQOpKYej0z7/

In all seriousness, if I saw this some random place without a name I would have no idea this was Lauren. She doesn't look at all like herself! Not starting another 'did she get work done' debate, just saying that if she's using some sort of filter on this then she should stop that. JMO.

https://mobile.twitter.com/theyearofelan/status/829086133376028672

ReneeM wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:That song is sad. It's essentially saying "Are we only together because we're scared of being alone?"

This is why I've been of the thought process that they might not even break up, and why I definitely don't see Ben being the one to pull the plug if they ever do.

That's what I've essentially always thought too. That they could/would settle (mostly because everything with them just fits.) I think that's still a strong possibility TBH. But as the song says, "Been someone better for us all along." I really think Ben and Lauren realize that (that there's someone better for them.) I'm just not sure they'd ever admit that, or take any action... BUT, since they are seemingly having problems... Maybe they are?

All IMO.

allykat wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:Here's the snap of Lauren listening to the song. She posted it about an hour ago.

https://instagram.com/p/BQOpKYej0z7/

In all seriousness, if I saw this some random place without a name I would have no idea this was Lauren. She doesn't look at all like herself! Not starting another 'did she get work done' debate, just saying that if she's using some sort of filter on this then she should stop that. JMO.

It's cause she's using the "pretty filter."

AmoreBella wrote:https://mobile.twitter.com/theyearofelan/status/829086133376028672

Oh look at Elan inserting himself!

Seabear wrote:I appreciate the fact that Lauren can show her pain and keep it Real.  Yet many will still blame her. Ben is a smiles and false platitudes. Yet many will still applaud him. It sucks that somehow the woman is at fault. Ben celebrates NYC with his parents while Lauren cries in Colorado. One is real and one is fake. IMO
JMO

IMO, I don't see how posting cryptic lyrics and insta captions while having on the sexy filter is being authentic? Just BS'ing at a different plane/angle than Ben imo.

INHO I know I am going to get hit for this but to be frank, I thought the black girl was the best for him. from little I saw. Did not watch the whole show because he bore me.

Well life of the party, always celebrating and drinking CS (my opinion of him) might be more her style, IMO.  Maybe after the official announcement, if they do break up, CS can meet up with her in Mexico.  . But if she can't live in Denver, she sure isn't gonna live in small town Iowa.   sorry dude.

JMO

Why did Elan feel the need to say that to Chris? That's a bit weird. Even the producers are so uptight about anything regarding BenLo. chill out Elan!

@Cila51290
I don't think it's "even the producers", I think it is the producers. They do not want the news of their break up out of the bag yet is my opinion. They need to spin it for a few more weeks if possible. I mean it doesn't seem to be fooling anyone IMO.