Becca Tilly & Robert Graham - Bachelor 20 - Bachelorette 9 - Discussion

Imo I don't see Becca as a 'hanger on' to Jojo. Didn't they become great friends during Ben's season, hit it off really well? And this friendship has continued ever since? Yeah, Becca might over share on sm about this friendship, but this is Bach people, most of them over share. I think Becca is a good friend who 100% has your back, and JoJo is lucky to have her as a friend. Jmo

This was shared to me by a personal friend of Becca's and I will share it with the forum.
The first day of high school a new girl moved in. She did not know anyone. She was scared. She went to her locker. She started to organize her stuff etc.
The girl next to her said hi. She took this stranger under her wing. She introduced her to everyone. She became her best friend. Her friends were this new girl's friends. This girl was Becca.
Say what you will.

Which one is Becca? I must be having a dumb/slow moment

Alanna wrote:Which one is Becca? I must be having a dumb/slow moment

I was just trying to figure that out too! I think the girl who said hi and took new girl under her wing is Becca.

Alanna wrote:Which one is Becca? I must be having a dumb/slow moment

I think Becca is the one who became friends with the new girl?

Kashathediva wrote:This was shared to me by a personal friend of Becca's and I will share it with the forum.
The first day of high school a new girl moved in. She did not know anyone. She was scared. She went to her locker. She started to organize her stuff etc.
The girl next to her said hi. She took this stranger under her wing. She introduced her to everyone. She became her best friend. Her friends were this new girl's friends. This girl was Becca.
Say what you will.

That's the Becca that basically everyone from both her seasons have described in interviews and podcasts (like Olivia who Becca defended when she had angered Amanda and her buddies).
Shilling and oversharing on SM aside, those are the qualities that count at the end of the day IMO, and that’s why I still like her when she is annoying.

Kashathediva wrote:This was shared to me by a personal friend of Becca's and I will share it with the forum.
The first day of high school a new girl moved in. She did not know anyone. She was scared. She went to her locker. She started to organize her stuff etc.
The girl next to her said hi. She took this stranger under her wing. She introduced her to everyone. She became her best friend. Her friends were this new girl's friends. This girl was Becca.
Say what you will.

Thanks for sharing! That is exactly my impression of Becca. She is friends with pretty much everyone and treats people the same whether she's known them for five minutes or five years (I think the SM "oversharing" is actually part of that). IMO that is why she is so popular and gets so many opportunities. It's because she's friendly, down-to-earth and fun to be around, not because she's some calculating person who knows how to use the right people. But YMMV of course.

Alanna wrote:Which one is Becca? I must be having a dumb/slow moment

Me too! I reread it like 3 times and still couldn't figure it out.

See and I thought Becca was the new girl. Lol

Yeah, I've never doubted Becca being a good friend. She seems like a nice, sweet girl. I just think she lacks some maturity as seen by some of the things shared here or like when she told people in a Facebook Live interview what sort of plans Jo and Jordan might have down the line. That was no ones business. All JMO

Becca gets a lot of positive attention from everyone who knows/meets her, and didn't Olivia say in a podcast that Becca was/is the most popular person in the franchise? No surprise IMO. Becca, though over-sharing and seemingly clingy.. seems to have a lot of fun, sticks up for her ppl, and everyone says she's hilarious (who woulda thought on both seasons she was on? )

Btw, whoever said Becca needs to have sex already, and maybe she'll loosen up....