Becca Tilly & Robert Graham - Bachelor 20 - Bachelorette 9 - Discussion

I think someone probably took the picture close to the ground, so it made her legs look longer. 

I still think something is up with her and Robert even though we got those vids of him helping her move with other people. No cute, mushy pictures or vids together in a while and Becca loved showing Robert off. Maybe they're on a break or back to being just friends. She's in Singapore right now without him and a few of the girls from Ben's season might be doing some type of photoshoot in Fiji potentially this week.

She's in Singapore to promote Singapore Airlines and Visit Singapore, so it's a work trip (as much as it pains me to use that word ). I wouldn't really expect Robert to be there. Maybe it's simply as she said in that recent interview, they're together but it's hard to find the time with all that travelling? They were acting normal in those moving vids IMO. Maybe they're just slowing things down a bit, or decided to keep their phones in their pockets when they do have time to be together.

but haven't all of her other trips also been "work trips" ? If he was there for those, I don't see why he wouldn't be there for this one as well.

:shocked!: Becca put her phone down and keep something private?  No way!   IMO of course!

hae1001 wrote:but haven't all of her other trips also been "work trips" ? If he was there for those, I don't see why he wouldn't be there for this one as well.

The trips they've been on together have been with Vampped and that's Robert's job. He's a partner and director of marketing for Vampped. Becca has been on those trips as an "influencer"/model. She was also in Mexico with her PR woman the other week, before she went to another Mexican resort with Vampped, so she does travel separately as well.

Not that social media is everything and I don't think these couples should be forced by the public into sharing pictures all the time, but I just think it's odd that she hasn't posted a single picture, whether they were hanging out or not, in quite a while. She's shared pictures before when she wasn't hanging out with him. That's just strange to me given how Becca is. 

I've seen quite a few IG stories over the past couple of weeks by Robert and he's been hanging out in LA with no Becca in sight in them. I know most of these couples aren't together 24.7 (a lot of regular couples aren't too, which is a good thing) because they're often paid to travel and do fun things, but this whole thing just seems odd.  

I like Robert and I think he's good for her, so it would be nice if they were still together, but I don't know. I almost get the vibe that they're back to being just friends, which is why there hasn't been any mushy love posts, but he helped her move with other friends. We'll see eventually I guess! All JMO

I only saw three IG stories by Robert while I was wondering what was up with them (before Becca's move), two of those of a view and one from a basketball game. None of them showed who he was with, if anyone. Then there were those from the Coachella house on Friday, but that's when Becca was already on her way to Singapore. So I'd say he's been pretty quiet in general. Not saying there couldn't have been some trouble, but I'm not convinced that there still is.

BTW, they were still acting lovey-dovey in Mexico (in snaps and IG stories), but neither of them posted a couple pic on IG while there, so it's not like they need to pose together every time they're in each others' vicinity.

Hopefully, both of them are simply taking a step back from their personal life together and social media. That would be good. I don't believe social media should be a window into our private lives.

Maybe it's because it's Becca we're talking about, but it's surprising to me that the girl that needs to make an announcement on social media anytime she's with someone of importance or would consistently post about her boyfriend has suddenly stopped doing that and it's now been over a month. Maybe she's cooling her social media game down? That would definitely be a good thing, that's for sure. That's JMO

Need to, no.  And I'd encourage most of Bach nation couples and individuals to post and share less of their personal lives.  But this is oversharing Becca, who IMO, feeds off of and needs the attention.  So it is a little suprising, IMO, that she's not oversharing and gushing.  

Does it means somethings up?  Maybe, maybe not.  I'd like to think she's maturing and going to learn to keep the most important things in her life private, but then I remember it's Becca.  So, I doubt it.  As always time will tell.

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IMO I don't think we'll hear about a break up for at least 6 months. She needs to read SM comments asking what's going on??????? Where's Robert??? Are you still together????

Miss Lady Long Legs, is constantly on SM, she needs attention IMO, lots of it. For her not to post any lovey dovey sexy pics of her and Robert, yeah I'd say she's probably cooling things off. If a couple travel a lot but they want to be together, they make it work, so I don't see that as an excuse. I really think she is so immature in a lot of ways, she probably liked the idea of a b/friend, maybe because her BFF is very happy and wanted to be like her, but once she made it public, now it's not so much fun leading people on. I've always like Robert, but IMO one can have so much patience. Just my take on her.

I have a completely different opinion of her and I really don't think she's on SM that much these days. It's mainly for promotional reasons, like if she's on a free trip somewhere or at an event or a photoshoot. Other than that it's usually just stuff she finds funny and worth sharing (whether the viewer thinks so is obviously a matter of opinion). I mean she doesn't just post "nothing" like her face in various places, it's usually her friends doing something silly or cool. And JoJo, when she's there, because she's obviously well aware it's something her followers want to see considering the reaction it always elicits. Whether you think it's seeking attention or giving people what they want is up to you, I think it's a bit of both. But the thing I like about Becca the most is that I don't feel like she's trying to portray some kind of image of herself on SM, she's just being herself, for better or worse. So if things with Robert haven't been all light-hearted and fun recently, then I'm not surprised she wouldn't post about him, because I don't think she posts stuff for the sake of trying to prove something. She posts stuff she wants to share and it's usually silly and light-hearted. I mean when he popped up again on her SM during the move, she was again posting stuff she found funny, like his hair peeking out from behind the piece of furniture or whatever and the struggle to get her sofa up the stairs. He was smiling and going along with her teasing, so I didn't get the sense there were any hard feelings there.

As for oversharing, I have to disagree with that as well. I mean I follow her, yet I didn't even know who she was living with (still don't tbf), if anyone, I didn't know she was moving until she did, I don't know why she moved or where, who she's gonna be living it and I haven't seen a single pic or vid of the new place. I didn't even know both her younger sisters were now living in LA, because I rarely see them on her SM. She might post a lot when she's doing something noteworthy, but when she's back home in LA, it's not like she's obsessively documenting her every move. For the past month she's hardly been on Snapchat and has gone days without posting a single IG story, so it's not just Robert she's been quiet about. I mean that's what got me worried in the first place, the general lack of SM, so maybe it's a conscious choice or she's simply been really busy with the move and travelling. If she was such an oversharer, I don't think we'd be speculating so much.

All JMO.