Becca Tilly & Robert Graham - Bachelor 20 - Bachelorette 9 - Discussion

My opinion of this relationship hasn't changed. He deserves someone better. Someone who will treat him like a b/friend.

IMO she messed with the publicity, kept it quiet, which I'll never understand. If you are in a newly relationship and you're crazy about your guy, you tell everyone. She posted a pic of her and CS on IG in honour of TB not that long ago. How would Robert feel about that I wonder.

I feel sorry for him, was she not proud of him? Did she want to read all the SM lovey dovey posts? What other reason would there be? Becca IMO is all about MeBecca.  Centre of attention. I've always thought she's going to break his heart. She's insecure, she needs everyone to love her, but to commit to a relationship? I don't think it will happen for a long time IMHO.

I don't follow either of them, and don't know what Robert does for a living, but my impression of Becca has always been that she's a social climber. Robert doesn't seem to be up to her standards in a long term partner. She's always looking for something better. I agree, GA, he does deserve better. All JMO.

Boshem wrote:I don't know if any of you watched the ET online with Becca.. Well I just did. She was asked about Robert and still talked fondly of him like his abs, patience, kindness.. However what I did notice is she implied it wasn't as serious as people think IMO, she implied she travels a lot and he travels a lot and she's not looking to get engaged (too soon anyway) or take it to the next step- well that's what I grasped from it. I personally thought this was more of a business relationship from the beginning than an actual love story since they have been so OTT like for months before dating making people speculate, care, and ask about their relationship.

I didn't get that impression, I just figured she's trying to take off the pressure since it already seemed like something was not quite right at that point (to me anyway). Not that they were ever acting like they're ready to get engaged, which I find normal, since they're not on the Bachelor anymore. You don't need to get engaged after a few months in real life. I didn't see anything business about the relationship I saw in their snaps and IG stories, just a normal couple having fun and teasing each other, like Becca always snapping Robert staring at his phone since he seems married to it. That's why the sudden silence from both of them made me worry after a week. But I don't really feel like speculating what's going on, since I have no idea. I didn't think they owed anyone an explanation pre-relationship and I certainly don't think they do now, if they're going through a breakup. Time will tell. JMO.

I almost hate to say this, but she is probably the only woman in bach nation I can actually see with Josh.

I'm sorry, but they had fake reality couple written all over them. They were trying to force a brand. Nothing more, nothing less.

No one needs to justify or explain what's going on their lives, and no one needs to explain why they are not engaged. That's no one's business and I find those questions ridiculous, along with trying to pry a wedding date. IA with that. However, when you're snapping your life away, living and breathing on SM, of course people are going to speculate and ask questions if suddenly you hear crickets.

They could just have had an argument and are working things out or have decided to go their separate ways because as Becca has said, Robert has patience which to me sounds like she's a PITA.

sosleepy wrote:I'm sorry, but they had fake reality couple written all over them. They were trying to force a brand. Nothing more, nothing less.

Well that's your opinion. I've been following them pretty closely and I disagree. Whether they're a forever couple or not doesn't matter, since most of us go through a few relationships before finding The One. Becca's never been in a proper relationship before, so it's hardly a surprise if this one doesn't stick, it's just life. JMO.

I wouldn't wish my worst enemy on Josh. That man is probably better off flying solo for the rest of his life. Spare the women of this world IMO.

sosleepy wrote:I'm sorry, but they had fake reality couple written all over them. They were trying to force a brand. Nothing more, nothing less.

AKA contractual obligations were met. Peace out.

Here I go defending Becca again Does Becca like attention in general? IMO yes. Did/does she enjoy the attention that being with Robert gives her? IMO yes. But IMO none of that is a smoking gun that the relationship is fake & whether or not it works out isn't a barometer for how real the relationship is/was. All JMO.

But if they break up will Becca still get to work with Vamped? That is the true question. Lol

umngirl wrote:But if they break up will Becca still get to work with Vamped? That is the true question. Lol

And probably the most important one, IMO.  

How will this effect Becca's income?  And will her fans be upset, turn on her, etc., becasue IMO, the publics opinion and perseption of her are very, very important to her.  JMO