Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - BIP - Discussion

JMO: People like Josh live in a delusional world where they feel like they're above everyone else and will do as much damage as they can in their "righteous" indignation to show they are in control. And the less control they have, the more damage they enact around them. There's the saying that some people want to watch the world burn - especially if they don't get their way... Josh is that type of person, IMO, and will take down others with him. It's why I seriously worry for Amanda and her children. As much as I don't care for Amanda and she has many faults, Josh is truly dangerous, IMO.

@allaboutlove truer words have never been spoken. I really now am worried for her and her kids safety. She needs to get a restraining order

I have always been a supporter of Amanda but I as well watched her live chat and am glad she spoke up. She never used to but I think she doesn't have a choice anymore. She said she is so embarrassed about all of this and that callling the police was unnecessary. She even texted him after they left asked why he did it because she was hurt and confused. That's sad. In front of her kids too. She doesn't deserve that.

Sarahrayofsunshinee wrote:I have always been a supporter of Amanda but I as well watched her live chat and am glad she spoke up. She never used to but I think she doesn't have a choice anymore. She said she is so embarrassed about all of this and that callling the police was unnecessary. She even texted him after they left asked why he did it because she was hurt and confused. That's sad. In front of her kids too. She doesn't deserve that.

There are a lot of things in life, none of us deserve. Hopefully, it can be turned into a learning experience for her sake. That's what life is IMO. Learn and grow. If she doesn't learn and grow from it, it was all for naught and IMO, more the loss.

I find it very calculated and controlling that he's releasing this "news" (via his personal assistant LOL) to the tabloids while she is on a dream vacay/photo shoot in Fiji with friends. He wants to ruin her fun and give her something to stress over while she is doing something she was probably looking forward to. He's sick.

Imo That move to call the cops was to humiliate her. He doesn't need the money, if he did, he wouldn't have given it to her in the first place. Having cops come at your door is at first scary~ they never come with good news~ your first thoughts go to 'Who has been hurt?' It's also humiliating, for the neighbours to see. Thank goodness it wasn't some horrible news the cops came with.

I feel sorry for Amanda and her little kids, they're just tools for a sick egomaniac to feed his need to feel superior. Hopefully this is her wake up call. Check carefully who you invite to your house, especially when you have kids who depend on you. I've been​ dragging her hard for having Josh move in with her and the girls, he is a walking red flag. She needs to grow up, and put on her mommy pants. She can't live her life and make choices as if she didn't have children.

As for Josh, imo he's hopeless. Imo He will never change his ways. As others have said, IMO he's a dangerous person. Getting with him will at least get you mentally scarred, and I'm not anymore thinking he's above harming someone physically. JMO.

@cocoasneeze I don't want to think that way but lets pray that it ends now.

sosleepy wrote:I find it very calculated and controlling that he's releasing this "news" (via his personal assistant LOL) to the tabloids while she is on a dream vacay/photo shoot in Fiji with friends. He wants to ruin her fun and give her something to stress over while she is doing something she was probably looking forward to. He's sick.

You're not alone in that thinking because Amanda posted an Insta saying something along the lines of no one being able to rain on her Fiji parade. Good for you, Amanda!!! Josh is just beyond!!

Hmmm....even though i don't particularly like Josh, based on how he portrays himself, I don't think it's fun to watch someone's life being ruined. As far as his mom goes - she is probably just being a mom and trying to protect him, which is what mothers do no matter how old your son/daughter gets. Its just normal.
I don't think Andi, Josh or Amanda or Kelly or his assistant or whomever else decides to chime in about this debacle is innocent in this. Its almost like now its them charging at him like he is the worst person on the earth and that's just untrue. It takes TWO to tango and both Andi and Amanda stayed with him for a period of time and if they regret that now then that is their problem. Talking about it on social media and tabloids, etc. is not the classy thing to do. Its the cowards way out - its trying to 'save face' for the moment when all it's really doing is making things worse and showing they are no better than he allegedly is.
It seems to me like the only way any of them can feel 'better' is to make someone else feel worse and that is not a good personality trait. It seems like they all need to grow up a bit.
And if he is religious and going to these places to get closer to God and learn more and be a Christian then GOOD. That will help him and God will protect him from all the negativity. No one's opinion on social media matters. If anyone reads the comments some post then its clear not many of them seem to have much of a conscience. In the end of this I hope they all learn to stop being so mean and find happiness and to FORGIVE and keep shut about their personal lives to whichever tabloid story that comes calling.

-IMO-

I have to disagree about LGM alias MM alias Norman Bates' mother.
I will not go into details. The woman, IMO from what I have seen is far, far, far from normal.  She has verged on harassment to the point of having legal issues herself. I will leave it at that.  Hopefully her true self catches up to her persona someday. I am all for charity and finding good in religion, spirituality etc, however, not when it's twisted so that it only serves your purpose vs true good. Murray branding.

Alanna wrote:She also said she texted him to ask why he did that and his response was incredibly mean (shocker!).

I believe her, she's a dummy imo but I trust her

I hope she keeps his text response as evidence for publication in her book ;-)

I believe her too and believe absolutely zero that comes from him anymore. Smoke = fire and in his case it's a blazing inferno right now!

I don't believe a word coming from his mouth. Or Twitter feed or Instagram. His mother was slutshaming Andi after their break up on Twitter, so I hope if they're finding more about God or religion, it'll be used to improve their own crappy personalities, not as a tool against others they want to shame. JMO.