Amanda Stanton - Bachelor 20 - BIP - Season 3 - Discussion

Amanda also liked this response to Josh's disgusting tweet about what women should be

you are the actual worst human

Tweet I don't like either of them but I couldn't agree more with that response.

I wouldn't call Amanda a strong woman but I definitely give her credit for moving on after a breakup like a Boss instead of wallowing in self-pity. JMO.

Kashathediva wrote:What is she? A human blow up doll? Can the woman not sit still long enough to let her genitals cool off?

This to me says she really was not in love with him or she wouldn't be out in public kissing other guys in bars barely 3 weeks after a break up. Unless she's doing it intentionally to make him jealous. (IMO) Someone that is really in love with someone takes longer to move on and some people even two years later still haven't moved on and if they do they do it privately. (IMO)

Laura Walsh wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:What is she? A human blow up doll? Can the woman not sit still long enough to let her genitals cool off?

This to me says she really was not in love with him or she wouldn't be out in public kissing other guys in bars barely 3 weeks after a break up.  Unless she's doing it intentionally to make him jealous. (IMO)  Someone that is really in love with someone takes longer to move on and some people even two years later still haven't moved on and if they do they do it privately.  (IMO)  

I don't think they ever loved each other, but the breakup happened the weekend of December 4th. That's 7 weeks, more than long enough to move on from a dysfunctional relationship. Josh himself was pictured at bars with pictures with girls. I wouldn't be surprised if the guy hasn't had a couple of casual hook-ups himself in that time. IMO.

Laura Walsh wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:What is she? A human blow up doll? Can the woman not sit still long enough to let her genitals cool off?

This to me says she really was not in love with him or she wouldn't be out in public kissing other guys in bars barely 3 weeks after a break up.  Unless she's doing it intentionally to make him jealous. (IMO)  Someone that is really in love with someone takes longer to move on and some people even two years later still haven't moved on and if they do they do it privately.  (IMO)  

Sorry I disagree - when I was in my early twenties and I broke up with my long term boyfriend (who I loved very much) - after my two weeks of moping around the house one of the first things I did was go out with my girlfriends and the sole intention was to find a guy to make out with. I realize this is an immature thing to do but I was young - sad - and in need of someone wanting me other than my ex.

This board knows BOR and Duh better than they know themselves. They broke up about 7 weeks ago? That's about how long we gave them before the subtweeting began. Such ugliness aired publicly. just stawwwpppp

sbolduc wrote:

Laura Walsh wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:What is she? A human blow up doll? Can the woman not sit still long enough to let her genitals cool off?

This to me says she really was not in love with him or she wouldn't be out in public kissing other guys in bars barely 3 weeks after a break up.  Unless she's doing it intentionally to make him jealous. (IMO)  Someone that is really in love with someone takes longer to move on and some people even two years later still haven't moved on and if they do they do it privately.  (IMO)  

Sorry I disagree - when I was in my early twenties and I broke up with my long term boyfriend (who I loved very much) - after my two weeks of moping around the house one of the first things I did was go out with my girlfriends and the sole intention was to find a guy to make out with. I realize this is an immature thing to do but I was young - sad - and in need of someone wanting me other than my ex.

I agree! When my 1st long-term college boyfriend dumped me I initiated a date the very next week to feel better despite being depressed and heartbroken. About a month after that I joined a dating service and met my now husband. We began dating even though I wasn't over my ex. It certainly helped speed the process up and we have been together 16 yrs now, since I was 20 (married for 12).

While I agree completely that Amanda and "strong woman" does not go together in my opinion, that tweet says everything that so many have thought about Josh. And the fact that he lacks so much self awareness to not realize how telling it is, is probably the saddest part. Of course he wants a woman who is nothing more than a pretty trophy to look good on her husband's arm. Never have I enjoyed the veil being lifted and someone's true personality being exposed as I have with Josh.

Did anyone else see the comment in Reality Steve's column? It basically said that there were a lot of bachelor people there and mentioned Amanda and her group. Said she was cozy the whole time she was there with Wells and wasn't trying to hide it. He said it could be she was trying to make Josh jealous. I would bring it over but not computer savvy.

I do not understand why she would care about Josh or trying to get him jealous. She got rid of him after she wouldn't take his abuse any longer. I would want to stay far away from a man like him. JMO

I can understand perfectly why she'd try and make him jealous . They're both super immature IMO.

bleuberry wrote:I can understand perfectly why she'd try and make him jealous . They're both super immature IMO.

That is true but for her children's sake grow the he** up . They been through enough with all her trips and bringing in a man they didn't even know. I really wish the ex would take custody of these two but seems like he is just a nut too.