Bachelorette Canada - Season 1 - Jasmine Lorimer - FRC - ATFR - Episode Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #4

TrishB wrote:I have to agree with [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] in saying that Jasmine is not at all blameless in the conflict.  In that little bit of that ET clip where he is saying something like "I thought you did not want me to put my arm around you" ?? You can clearly see his eagerness to please her, and his fear (in a way) to not "do the right thing" for her... I felt that he has to almost walk on egg shells for her to be secure and not upset at him... The fact that he says that she is out of his league, but he will get there, is very telling to me... This is just my opinion guys, but could it be that we are not seeing the "right" picture here, or that we are getting it "all wrong"?
I think Jasmine was a great lead, loved her honesty and her straight-forwardness, plus how sensitive she was to all the guys (as per what we were shown) But I also saw a very insecure woman, that needed to be reassured at times... and this video tid-bit confirms this a lot, for me and in my opinion of course.  Kevin looks puzzled and confused, I felt that he was dying to say "How much more can I say or do to please you or measure-up to your standards?" ...I saw this look of desperation to not upset her, to please her, or else "I am going to get it after" ... This thoughts I have now are surprising to me... but that is exactly how I read that clip...This is ALL JMHO

TrishB wrote:I have to agree with [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] in saying that Jasmine is not at all blameless in the conflict.  In that little bit of that ET clip where he is saying something like "I thought you did not want me to put my arm around you" ?? You can clearly see his eagerness to please her, and his fear (in a way) to not "do the right thing" for her... I felt that he has to almost walk on egg shells for her to be secure and not upset at him... The fact that he says that she is out of his league, but he will get there, is very telling to me... This is just my opinion guys, but could it be that we are not seeing the "right" picture here, or that we are getting it "all wrong"?
I think Jasmine was a great lead, loved her honesty and her straight-forwardness, plus how sensitive she was to all the guys (as per what we were shown) But I also saw a very insecure woman, that needed to be reassured at times... and this video tid-bit confirms this a lot, for me and in my opinion of course.  Kevin looks puzzled and confused, I felt that he was dying to say "How much more can I say or do to please you or measure-up to your standards?" ...I saw this look of desperation to not upset her, to please her, or else "I am going to get it after" ... This thoughts I have now are surprising to me... but that is exactly how I read that clip...This is ALL JMHO

avoice wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

djogbenyuie wrote:The extended version of the ET AFTR extract:



It shows more of what we expected to se at that AFTR.
Give me even more hope for them.

I just realize they cut all that to show us a Kevin only talking. again edit mess in my eyes.

After watching that, what's the problem?

They were very cute together.

Wow. This was enlightening. They seem natural and good together. So the producers edited the ATFR the way they did to promote dissension and not supporting the relationship????? This is crazy.

bluwavz wrote:Gah I'm so over Mikhel and his sensitive feelings. Seriously he's still hung up on a woman he went on a few dates with a frickin' half year ago? Stay the eff off my TV then with that chit and bring on Mike.

All JMbitchO. :halo:

TrishB wrote:I have to agree with [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] in saying that Jasmine is not at all blameless in the conflict.  In that little bit of that ET clip where he is saying something like "I thought you did not want me to put my arm around you" ?? You can clearly see his eagerness to please her, and his fear (in a way) to not "do the right thing" for her... I felt that he has to almost walk on egg shells for her to be secure and not upset at him... The fact that he says that she is out of his league, but he will get there, is very telling to me... This is just my opinion guys, but could it be that we are not seeing the "right" picture here, or that we are getting it "all wrong"?
I think Jasmine was a great lead, loved her honesty and her straight-forwardness, plus how sensitive she was to all the guys (as per what we were shown) But I also saw a very insecure woman, that needed to be reassured at times... and this video tid-bit confirms this a lot, for me and in my opinion of course.  Kevin looks puzzled and confused, I felt that he was dying to say "How much more can I say or do to please you or measure-up to your standards?" ...I saw this look of desperation to not upset her, to please her, or else "I am going to get it after" ... This thoughts I have now are surprising to me... but that is exactly how I read that clip...This is ALL JMHO