Bachelorette Canada - Season 1 - Jasmine Lorimer - FRC - ATFR - Episode Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #4

emusha wrote:Curious to see the AFTR - she doesn't look over the moon happy and glowing in the pics from AFTR and we've seen how Jasmine can GLOW like there's a sun inside of her!!! Her glow was most apparent during the FDs and I don't see it in these pics. I really so hope they last though and that it's not one of the "matter of time" relationships. But even if it is one of those relationships it's a journey... she needed to make this choice at this moment IMHO

I think she's stressed, overwhelmed, they've been separated, just rewatched all this stuff, etc. I think she's fine and needs some time away alone, kw can come

GuardianAngel wrote:I think seeing Mikhel made her relive all that again, she truly felt bad

This makes sense.

It did make me cringe when she said it was difficult to reconcile being completely in love with Kevin while also still having "feelings" for someone else.  [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]  I appreciate past leads putting the F2 in a box in the past (at least at ATFR) & prioritizing their F1's feelings much more now.

Kevin looks super cute & even more James Marsden-esque with his short hair

SOoooo glad this season is wrapped! Yay!

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TheWrongReasons wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:I think seeing Mikhel made her relive all that again, she truly felt bad

This makes sense.

It did make me cringe when she said it was difficult to reconcile being completely in love with Kevin while also still having "feelings" for someone else.  [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]  I appreciate past leads putting the F2 in a box in the past (at least at ATFR) & prioritizing their F1's feelings much more now.

Kevin looks super cute & even more James Marsden-Raquel with his short hair

Yea that comment was curious. I'm more curious than I thought I would be after seeing the small glimpses into the AFTR. Primarily because the dilemma Jasmine had is very very common for women.

I would bet just from these clues and the way their relationship on the show was so passionate and dramatic that it's been a bit of a rollercoaster post-finale as well. Curious how it will all play out.

Alanna wrote:

emusha wrote:Curious to see the AFTR - she doesn't look over the moon happy and glowing in the pics from AFTR and we've seen how Jasmine can GLOW like there's a sun inside of her!!! Her glow was most apparent during the FDs and I don't see it in these pics. I really so hope they last though and that it's not one of the "matter of time" relationships. But even if it is one of those relationships it's a journey... she needed to make this choice at this moment IMHO

I think she's stressed, overwhelmed, they've been separated, just rewatched all this stuff, etc. I think she's fine and needs some time away alone, kw can come

This makes sense as well

I was expecting K to be more stressed actually, considering all the crap he got from SM/general viewers. But then again, this was taped before Halloween (pre HTD airing) so the worst hadn't arrived yet... but it still must have been hard to watch all the eps. Maybe he's even more chill than I gave him credit for

emusha wrote:

TheWrongReasons wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:I think seeing Mikhel made her relive all that again, she truly felt bad

This makes sense.

It did make me cringe when she said it was difficult to reconcile being completely in love with Kevin while also still having "feelings" for someone else.  [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]  I appreciate past leads putting the F2 in a box in the past (at least at ATFR) & prioritizing their F1's feelings much more now.

Kevin looks super cute & even more James Marsden-Raquel with his short hair

Yea that comment was curious. I'm more curious than I thought I would be after seeing the small glimpses into the AFTR. Primarily because the dilemma Jasmine had is very very common for women.

I would bet just from these clues and the way their relationship on the show was so passionate and dramatic that it's been a bit of a rollercoaster post-finale as well. Curious how it will all play out.

I agree and with such a passionate guy, I think there's way more risk of a "roller coaster" when they're separated. I think things will simmer down, if they need to, when they're going to be together officially, publicly, living together. IMO.

emusha wrote:

TheWrongReasons wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:I think seeing Mikhel made her relive all that again, she truly felt bad

This makes sense.

It did make me cringe when she said it was difficult to reconcile being completely in love with Kevin while also still having "feelings" for someone else.  [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]  I appreciate past leads putting the F2 in a box in the past (at least at ATFR) & prioritizing their F1's feelings much more now.

Kevin looks super cute & even more James Marsden-Raquel with his short hair

Yea that comment was curious. I'm more curious than I thought I would be after seeing the small glimpses into the AFTR. Primarily because the dilemma Jasmine had is very very common for women.

I would bet just from these clues and the way their relationship on the show was so passionate and dramatic that it's been a bit of a rollercoaster post-finale as well. Curious how it will all play out.

IA with the bolded in general.

I also think sometimes it's best not to be overly blunt in order to avoid hurting your chosen one AND the F2.
I really do appreciate past leads' discretion more now

IDK I really enjoyed this couple going into the finale & her comments at AFTR honestly made me feel bad for Kevin AND Mikhel. It was a bit weird how he (Mikhel) had to vocalize that they all had to move on. I'm feeling strangely protective of that softie Kevin now

I hope for their sake that he is not as fixated on that comment as I am & that they can work through everything & be happy now that it no longer has to be a secret

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I hate to play devil's advocate but wasn't there a rumor swirling that she picked Kevin and they have already broken up?....possibly after the AFTR was taped?....I haven't actually seen the show because I have an android box...no cable.Just hearing that Jasmine didn't seem very happy.Is there something in their contract that says they have to fake it for the AFTR?....I have no idea....

Interesting to read about Jasmine's comment during ATFR along the lines of feeling 'torn' between two people (my re-phrasing).

Might explain her tweet about mushing Mikhel and Kevin together to result in a 'perfect husband'?

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I guess she made the decision on the 80/20 relationship rule. jmo

Whichever one was the 80 and 20 only she knows.

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Jasmine liked that tweet but is yet to post on twitter.

I hope she's not reading the tweets under the bacheloretteca hashtag, it's brutal out there.