Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

One thing that truly sucks about being on the show is all the those who are not fans and doubters. There are already girls on her Instagram saying she is ugly. It's really unfortunate that she will have to go through this all season from people who did not wish her well. But unfortunately that's what happens when you go on national television. People judge every aspect of your life. I hope she handles it well. I can imagine it would be difficult at times. She seems like a strong woman though.

@jessietrey IA it's funny, those making those types of comments are the ugly ones regardless of how pretty they may be.

@jessietrey The best answer I have for this situation, unless you have thick skin or you have a clause in your contract indicating you have to promote SM and keep it public--then keep your SM private or however you choose to keep the positive in your life.
No one has to read the negative. If it bothers you, and it does most of us, there are things that can be done to adjust that level.

IMHO if Nick say he is a software salesman, well I will believe him because that is what he did before.  I can not tell what he has been doing during the days out in LA.  All sorts of people work out there and there could be opportunites for him to start his own company.  He seems like someone who is intelligent, and if he was working from a young age, and have the experience then I say go boy do your thing.  

I am sure his family and friends who know him well, will have his back and so does his new fiance.  No one other that Nick and his fiance know his future plans and all I wish for him is his happiness and god's riches blessings.  

As to those on sm saying she is ugly, we have not seen her character yet on the screen.  In photos she is a curvy georgeous woman, and I for one am happy Nick did not choose the model thin waif of a girl but went with his hearts desire and choose a bodacious woman.  Here's to hoping things work out for them.

jessietrey wrote:One thing that truly sucks about being on the show is all the those who are not fans and doubters. There are already girls on her Instagram saying she is ugly. It's really unfortunate that she will have to go through this all season from people who did not wish her well. But unfortunately that's what happens when you go on national television. People judge every aspect of your life.  I hope she handles it well. I can imagine it would be difficult at times. She seems like a strong woman though.

Because I thought people saying Vanessa was ugly and IMO is so far from the truth. I decided
to check out her IG unless comments have been deleted I saw only one negative post regarding
her looks, and that was one thought she wasn't that pretty. First time viewing her IG it validated
my thoughts being she's gorgeous. Most posted same. Nick's a lucky guy, he's not perfect I cringe
when I think of his bedroom banter that has been written about. If she is the chosen one I wish
them the best.

Nonina430 wrote:

jessietrey wrote:One thing that truly sucks about being on the show is all the those who are not fans and doubters. There are already girls on her Instagram saying she is ugly. It's really unfortunate that she will have to go through this all season from people who did not wish her well. But unfortunately that's what happens when you go on national television. People judge every aspect of your life.  I hope she handles it well. I can imagine it would be difficult at times. She seems like a strong woman though.

Because I thought people saying Vanessa was ugly and IMO is so far from the truth. I decided
to check out her IG unless comments have been deleted I saw only one negative post regarding
her looks, and that was one thought she wasn't that pretty. First time viewing her IG it validated
my thoughts being she's gorgeous. Most posted same. Nick's a lucky guy, he's not perfect I cringe
when I think of his bedroom banter that has been written about. If she is the chosen one I wish
them the best.

Eh..to each their own. I liked all the banter I've heard about. Book and T.V.

It's Nick, not the banter sorry jmo 

@stationwagon I second that, it does get things popping. Although I think he was analysing SWNSNBS to see if he was gonna be the one in the end. JMHOAA

@reason swnsnbs?

@hae1001 it means She Whose Name Shall Not Be Said.

@StationWagon IA, I would hardly classify the question/conversation as deviant behaviour. I feel like a lot (not all) of people who have claimed outrage or disgust don't like it simply because it's coming from Nick

Fair enough. I'm sure everyone has experienced being annoyed by certain people's actions even though, objectively, we would find no problem with them had they been done by someone we liked.

Just a reminder regarding the thread topic....The lovely IMO Vanessa Grimaldi.