Bachelorette Canada - Season 1 - Jasmine Lorimer - Episode Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

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"Those same qualities that would make him a great husband, a great father are the things I've...tried to stay away from." [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]

mercieme wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:She's always tried to stay away from someone like Mike because she's scared but that's what she wants.

Walking towards Thomas with the rose in hand.

GA, re the bold, can you clarify if she means she has tried to stay away from someone like Mike because she knows that's what's good for her?

I don't know if that is because it's good for her. I thought she meant that it was a way of keeping herself closed off from love. That stability scared her. She dreams of being a wild child and travelling and she thinks stability doesn't allow that.

Kevin P is worried now because Thomas and his lifestyle is similar to him.

Drew is a total prick. He thinks this will further his business. I don't really have a problem with that, it's the way he talks that is so condescending and full of himself...as if he is so much better than the rest of these guys. Ugh!

BlackHalo wrote:

Spoil Me Again wrote:Jasmine: "With Mike, the thing that scares me is also the thing that makes me comfort which is that he is a very stable guy. He has a plan for his future. That to me is just as intriguing as it is scary"

She's got some growing up to do.

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.], any chance the producers fed her that line about "stability" being the issue with Mike? It just sounds lame like something a producer would come up with but who knows. I have never met a woman who does not want a stable guy but what do I know

GuardianAngel wrote:He wishes her much happiness. So sad.

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] - i suppose that's what she means. She says she stayed away from stability but she knows that's what she wants.

Walking towards Mike. She thinks he's amazing, and can see a future with him

Personalities can use balance, and she can see that being the case with them

She's still sad though. PI Mike is very glad, he understands she had to make a tough decision.

Contrast his reaction to Kevin W's. A world of difference and maturity.

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Thomas' lifestyle ended up being his downfall. This international model will be flying home solo [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]

mercieme wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:

Spoil Me Again wrote:Jasmine: "With Mike, the thing that scares me is also the thing that makes me comfort which is that he is a very stable guy. He has a plan for his future. That to me is just as intriguing as it is scary"

She's got some growing up to do.

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.], any chance the producers fed her that line about "stability" being the issue with Mike? It just sounds lame like something a producer would come up with but who knows. I have never met a woman who does not want a stable guy but what do I know

Jasmine has said she's sabotaged relationships in the past. Her being so conflicted about Mike's stability makes me think she is doing just that.

I'm thinking maybe she means, her life is more like Thomas, she said so, she likes to travel etc, now this is real, here's a real stable guy, she knows she wants that but is afraid

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Although it's not what Jasmine thought she initially wanted, Mike's stability is more of what her future needs. [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]

Not to worry, IMO everything Jasmine has said post show leads me to believe she fully realized by the FRC that what she was scared of was exactly what she needed. IMO Jasmine and Mike have likely already had a conversation about what is said in tonight's episode (her comment about changing her mind was in the season preview and in one of the episode previews so she knew it was coming). And Mike just tweeted yesterday that everyone should be on [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.].

What Jasmine said tonight is exactly what I was waiting to hear.

In interviews Mike is not the guy she dated and her mother was on her to do that.  Through this process  she had got to think about what she wants verses what she needs.

Tea time. KevinW next to her. Mikhel - everything checks off for him as far as J

Passing different types of teas, natural teas

Kevin P my goodness, he's a dream.