Re: Caila Quinn - BIP - Season 3 - Discussion - #2

by siena Wed Sep 07, 2016 10:24 pm

You're welcome @KB_Mom. I think there's quite a few people who would benefit from that seminar! For whatever flaws Caila has, her graciousness and positivity in dealing with all of this has been refreshing and IMO is what demonstrates her true character.

by SunnyRachel Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:06 pm

dee wrote:

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@dee love how you do this and it makes sense how u said it works about the vids!Yes! Already love her fashion week stories! Do u happen to know some of the songs that have been on her new ig stories?Greatly love if u know them to share with us!
@bluwavz thanks for the new pics!
@2ndcampbell everyone seems to wonder who could pair with her next? I'll be like others may she enjoy her life and see what's out there with guys and life! The one that's meant for her will come when she least expects it to come. All we can hope it's one amazing guy for her that deserves her right!
@siena nice to see you pop back in with ur sassy words!

by dee Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:07 pm

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by EliseAlways Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:07 pm

I love how almost maternal Sharleen seemed while talking about Caila on her recap.

http://www.flare.com/celebrity/entertainment/sharleen-joynt-on-bachelor-in-paradise-episode-10-2/

It's still tough to discuss Ashley without it morphing into a conversation about Ashley and Caila. I’ve seen many comments directed at me and other members of Bachelor Nation about picking sides or vilifying either woman. First, I can’t emphasize enough how delicate being on the other side of all this is. In person, Ashley is funny, smart, self-deprecating and knows full well the role she plays in this franchise. In person, Caila is as sweet as you’d expect, but also generous, perceptive, and an epic conversationalist. (I’ve had more real—not even close to “fake”—conversations with her than I’ve had with some friends I’ve known much longer. And on the topic of what exactly “fake” means, I highly recommend this Huffpost article on this very saga.) When you know these people personally—and have never had any issue with either—can you really be expected to point a finger based on how they appear on a heavily edited television show?

I also especially liked her saying that Ashley is the queen of staying on TV longer.

Here's the link to the HuffPost article Sharleen mentioned. Interesting take on being called "fake" (rhyming unintended. laugh out loud

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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/bachelor-in-paradise-and-what-it-means-to-be-fake_us_57ca5274e4b07addc4129747

by dee Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:45 pm

@SunnyRachel
The songs she used on her IG stories were:
1) Martha Stewart's studio titled "shoot day": "Lose Control by Matt Simons"
2) Fashion NYC and The Before video: "In My Mind by Maty Noyes"
3) Video where she zooms in on a plant and fades to NYC skyline: "Fux With the Boy by Young & Divine
4) Video where she waves to two ladies walking towards her: "Suburbia by Kilian & Jo feat. Erik Rapp
5)Editing studio for photoshoot: "Send My Love by Adele"
6) Walking into #Shelift event: "Shower by Becky G
7) rooftop/Manhattan skyline: Breathe by Seeb feat. Neev

Hopefully I corresponded the songs to each video correctly Smiley

by bluwavz Wed Sep 07, 2016 11:53 pm

NYFW for Us Weekly with my fav Bach girls !! by @astrausy

by TheWrongReasons Thu Sep 08, 2016 1:46 am

both Caila's HTMF interview & Sharleen's article. I admire Caila's ability to be so articulate in general & so diplomatic about the situation while still conveying truth (context, game of telephone, trust etc). I also love Sharleen emphasizing Caila being generous, perceptive and an "epic conversationalist" & that she's had more real conversations with her than with some friends she's known much longer - that she calls those conversations "not even close to 'fake' " - I feel like this, coming from someone as IMO rational, intelligent and level headed as Sharleen, speaks volumes as an endorsement for Caila's "realness" from a popular BachNation member ... all framed in positivity without resorting to mean girl style SM shading. Smiley

by dee Thu Sep 08, 2016 2:26 am

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So much fun spending time with these #bachelorfamily babes for @sheliftgrams and our sweet friend @sarahherron! #shelift by @OliviaCaridi

by siena Thu Sep 08, 2016 3:24 am

^^ Yes, I love that Sharleen highlighted that! Sharleen said the same in a previous interview, mentioning that she adored Caila and had the best conversations with her.

Looks like they all had a great time at Sarah's event. Smiley

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source: instagram story @oliviacaridi

by Joy15 Thu Sep 08, 2016 3:46 am

by IWouldMarryAshleyI Thu Sep 08, 2016 11:46 am

Check out After Paradise S2:Episode 4.

Around 26 minutes in, a deleted scene is shown from Caila. During the interview, she says that she is pushing people away.

Statement 1: Refers to "My full self."
Statement 2: "My Real Self."

She says she isn't showing those to people. If people are saying she's fake, this is as close to a confession a person can make, without realizing it. And during the episode, she admits to contrived smiles as a self-defense mechanism.

by dee Thu Sep 08, 2016 12:19 pm

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Fun time running into these cool cats last night at The Attic. #BachelorNation anyone? by @dreamsdefylogic

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such a fun night supporting an amazing cause! #shelift #bachelorfamily #celebratetheimperfections by @izzygoodkind

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