Re: Caila Quinn - BIP - Season 3 - Discussion - #2

by MiniDiva Tue Aug 30, 2016 8:31 pm

This show is Ashley in Paradise -- everyone is catering to her, tiptoeing around her, talking about her, worried that she is going to blow up. Wah, wah wah. Poor Ashley is going to implode. Props to Caila for trying to stand up to her without acting like Ashley.

I hope Caila is not facing the firing squad tonight and craziness is quickly brushed over with the excitement of the new bachelor announcement. :tinfoil

by MommaSez Tue Aug 30, 2016 8:47 pm

Ashley I is the reason we can't have nice things.

by theboy'smom Tue Aug 30, 2016 9:11 pm

julychild wrote:We are all human, right? And no one is perfect, right?

OK. On that premise, I'd like to say that maybe there are some things Caila could learn from her experiences on these shows. Chief being, why does she come off as untrustworthy to most people. Yes, all the blame can be placed on the others, but after two shows, with two groups of people, why the same doubts about her genuineness.

Please don't get me wrong, I'm sure she is sweet and all of that, but why does she generate these feelings in people, editing aside, Ashley aside, rumours aside. We all learn and grow, at least we should, I think these shows may have ( don't know, so being careful) shed light on Caila's "but" and I think she shouldn't brush it aside, or play the "poor Caila" card, but pay attention and do some reflecting, if need be.

There has been other sweet, classy, whatever girls on these shows over the years. No, people don't generally think you are fake because you are super sweet and always happy.

IMO where there's smoke there's fire. JMO

by siena Tue Aug 30, 2016 9:18 pm

And the fire is that most of the people in this franchise are awful people. IMO it's a good thing that some of them don't click with Caila.

by Guest Tue Aug 30, 2016 9:18 pm

George1218 wrote:The comments about her eyes really burn me. My ex is from Korea and both of my boys have had people comment on their eyes, asking them if they were high (even in middle school) because their eyes were partially closed or telling them to open their eyes and pay attention.

SERIOUSLY?! Wow. I can't really say I'm surprised by the ignorance because I'd be lying but I really wish people are more open-minded.

I don't understand why we are constantly judging each other based on our physicality as if we have a choice as to what our DNA is. Our attitude, character and views are the only ones we can change and control. Ashley, and some other Bachelor Nation contestants, is immature and realizes that she is but sadly is not doing anything to change. I should be able to freely call her out.

by Kashathediva Tue Aug 30, 2016 9:24 pm

The most I can say regarding Caila in playing the devils advocate role is sometimes those that are Polly Anna, cerebral, new age and spiritually grounded make others feel uncomfortable with their centeredness.
These are wonderful qualities to me. I think we need more of these type people, IMO.
However, this kind of persona is off-putting to those that have no clue or ability to be like this. It's a far deeper level than the superficially this show requires for cast.
JMOAA

by Guest Tue Aug 30, 2016 9:26 pm

julychild wrote:We are all human, right? And no one is perfect, right?

OK. On that premise, I'd like to say that maybe there are some things Caila could learn from her experiences on these shows. Chief being, why does she come off as untrustworthy to most people. Yes, all the blame can be placed on the others, but after two shows, with two groups of people, why the same doubts about her genuineness.

Please don't get me wrong, I'm sure she is sweet and all of that, but why does she generate these feelings in people, editing aside, Ashley aside, rumours aside. We all learn and grow, at least we should, I think these shows may have ( don't know, so being careful) shed light on Caila's "but" and I think she shouldn't brush it aside, or play the "poor Caila" card, but pay attention and do some reflecting, if need be.

There has been other sweet, classy, whatever girls on these shows over the years. No, people don't generally think you are fake because you are super sweet and always happy.

True. If I'm Caila I would like to know what it is people find untrustworthy. You can only grow from what other's are willing to share. If they can't give you anything concrete and claim it's the way they feel, for your sanity don't dwell but let it go.

by Guest Tue Aug 30, 2016 9:32 pm

Kashathediva wrote:The most I can say regarding Caila in playing the devils advocate role is sometimes those that are Polly Anna, cerebral, new age and spiritually grounded make others feel uncomfortable with their centeredness.
These are wonderful qualities to me. I think we need more of these type people, IMO.
However, this kind of persona is off-putting to those that have no clue or ability to be like this. It's a far deeper level than the superficially this show requires for cast.
JMOAA

by umngirl Tue Aug 30, 2016 9:39 pm

One good thing comin from this show, Catherine and Caila's Twitter friendship. Hope they get to hang out in real life some time.

by bluwavz Tue Aug 30, 2016 9:51 pm

@julielaplaca you're amazing & so is this man next to me. Excited for #AfterParadise tonight! Was a wonderful journey & truly grateful for the challenges that made me stronger, the true friends that stood by me, & the memories I'll never forget. @jaredhaibon is a wonderful man & I am so lucky to have the chance to see why everyone loves him NYBFW - Caila Quinn - BIP - Season 3 - Discussion - #2 - Page 31 1f49b

NYBFW - Caila Quinn - BIP - Season 3 - Discussion - #2 - Page 31 1f49b

by @cailaquinn

Caila Quinn ‏@CailaQuinn 2m2 minutes ago Burbank, CA
Checking off Karaoke with @WellsAdams off my bucket list on the #AfterParadise Snapchat

by SunnyRachel Tue Aug 30, 2016 9:54 pm

@bluwavz like that pic of Caila and Wells I love Caila's outfit ! laugh out loud

at her pic with Jared should be interesting what happens on ap! thanks for posting these!
@umngirl agree I love the friendship of Cat and Caila

by Guest Tue Aug 30, 2016 10:53 pm

What's happening on the show? West Coast viewer here who can't wait for another hour before BIP and 2 hrs before AP.

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