Bachelor In Paradise - Season 3 - All Episodes - Discussions - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #3

happygolucky wrote:The funny part is that ... we don't know who the source is of those "opinions" ... what's the angle they are going for ... and what kind of relationship (working) they had with those people ... but among all that person only liked Caila ... and that's why I should believe her(him)?
... yeah, see ... I don't believe the people who I actually can hear them talk and say things in my face, when I don't know where they stand and what are their values, views and beliefs ...
why would I believe a nameless, faceless "person" ... online ... ? ... Because it's convenient?
Nah, I pass.

Ariela ... my view of Nick has nothing to do with Josh (who I continue to not consider) and hasn't changed since the first time he graced my screen 2 years ago. So he didn't fool me ... and I still like him.

Ariela wrote:

Nibbles22 wrote:Why is Nick a douche, because he knows that those producers and handlers can't be trusted, so he keeps to himself???

Nick is very FAKE on TV. People have a short term memory. He has learned the ART of being a "nice guy on TV". I'm being kind in my statement ;)

Somehow his envy/jealousy/hate/manipulations have been redefined into "poor Nick". He messes with the viewers minds, and people see him as a victim instead of an instigator and a manipulator. I see Nick as a JEALOUS man, and pi$$ed that Josh took his girls away 2X!!!!!Because he has the laid back persona on TV, people think he's NICE. All he has to do is shed some tears and women will eat out of his hands .

Josh is an intense person, so he's perceived as a bad person. People who walk fast, talk fast, and moan (ok, I hate this obnoxious thing) are perceived as mean. I know this for a fact. I am like that. I have been told many times that people were "afraid" of me. It's not fair, because I have spent a lifetime helping others..... It's just my genetic make up. My father was like that.....I don't know any of these people on BachP but something tells me that Nick is pulling a fast one. Recalling his earlier behavior, he's a slick oil-salesman.....

IMO, Josh was too nice handling the GOSSIP. If it were me, I would have punched Nick's lights out. People like Nick need to be put in their place for good.
Nick is stirring the pot under the auspices that he is "CONCERNED about others"....Oh what BS.

Fingersandtoes wrote:One big turn off is being jerks to the crew, IMO. I'm not at all surprised that Caila was kind and nice to the crew, IMO that's her personality.

julychild wrote:Don't know if this is BIP related, or whatever it is he is even talking about:

I have a very important announcement #Bachelornation pic.twitter.com/ex4lB11tJh

— Mike Fleiss (@fleissmeister) September 1, 2016

mindless wrote:

julychild wrote:Don't know if this is BIP related, or whatever it is he is even talking about:

I have a very important announcement #Bachelornation pic.twitter.com/ex4lB11tJh

— Mike Fleiss (@fleissmeister) September 1, 2016

Maybe Nick isn't actually the Bachelor and this is all just an extended version of last year's prank. Imagine if they trot out Luke next week all "just kidding, this is your new Bachelor!"? They'd get slaughtered though, since people are actually excited about it being Nick now.

As for some random nameless person finding Nick arrogant, what's new? The guys on Andi's season thought he was arrogant as well. Seems like most people who really get to know him like him though, and that's more important to me.